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Hi! I've been extremely tired this week and nearly forgot that I was hosting one so I'm writing this last minute! I couldn't think of anything so I'm going to write about one of my hamsters who is not Biggs; Meredith

Meredith was another hamster of mine from a few years ago during the early days of COVID, and she was the absolute sweetest little creature I had ever met. Very friendly, very gentle. She loved exploring anywhere I put her into and never bit me ~~okay she did once ever~~. She was an absolute sweetheart and bundle of love and was with me during some of the rougher parts of my life

She unfortunately died very suddenly out of the blue one day at a terribly young age showing no symptoms of anything wrong with her prior, which breaks my heart to this very day

I never had her as long as any other hamster of mine but I don't think I had any other hamster touch my heart in quite the same way. I miss you, girl


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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

think I’ve figured out what I’m gonna do for weight cycling.I’m gonna go up 5 pounds then down 10 then up 5 then down 10 until I’m around my goal.
So probably like 3 or 4 times.

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

So I'm not closeted. But I present butch so most people probably just see androgynous/fruity man. I won't give the exact details for OpSec but last week I basically got outed on a large scale for a community I'm involved in face to face regularly. I had an almost panic attack because of it.

But I eventually realized "hey this was good, it's like pulling a bandaid off all at once".

Except no one seemed to notice, at first I thought people were just being polite and pretending not to have notice. It wasn't subtle it was literally almost "Xia Cobolt is actually a woman, she is trans!". But like no one actually was paying any attention in the slightest and I'm like relieved but also disappointed.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago
[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (6 children)

spoilerSorry I hate doing this at the start of a new mega but it hurts bad right now and none of my other ideas are great either
spoiler hopeless, suicide thoughts I am so sick of this shit. Life is horrible and I've known that for a while. I feel like I'm suffocating. I know what all my options are and they're all shit. I hope I die. I don't want to do this again tomorrow, I don't want to do this for however many fucking years I have left. Existing sucks and I'm done. "Oh such and such is just how things are" well I fucking hate it and want to put a bullet in my brain. I can't cope with how it is. Why the fuck did I have to be born. :::

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago

lea-finger-guns sending positive energy your way!

meow-hug

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago

addictionfucking hell

i was this close to relapsing just half an hour ago, and just BARELY managed to talk myself out of it

It's Veneris today. I asked my lady on Veneralia, April 1st, for help with the drinking. I haven't touched the bottle since, despite how close it's gotten recently

maybe she is with me here

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

society if advertisers all died

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (6 children)

vampirepostingMy blood looks tasty.. Rich and succulent, dark and deep.. I wanna vampire so bad..

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago

Fuck. Landlords.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

envySaw my friend today, all dressed up. She looked great. I don't even know how to describe what she was wearing but it looked nice. I wish I was her.

Only partially related but I wish I could cry.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

shaving and whiningShaving my face every day forever is going to be the death of me. I hate it so much.
However having everything else shaved is so nice, shaved last night and just been feeling how smooth I am since...

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago

unusually cold week, my beloved. temporarily assuaging my climate change anxieties briefly doggirl-sleep

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago (7 children)

someone convince me not to apply to this care homeI don’t want to the old people to be mean to me.
Or have to give them sponge baths or change their diapers.
Or potentially have to wear an ugly uniform.
I want an easy job, but there is nothing close by. doggirl-gloom

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I sometimes forget that bridget-vibe is british tbh, I like to keep forgetting if I could help it to be honest.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

start up stellaris for the first time in like a year

completely revamped planet management screen and pop system

play for a decade

realize they shipped it without actually verifying if the auto pop migration system actually fucking worked

game now has a nigh unplayable bug in it

close, restart, reload older version

gods fucking dammit paradox

  1. stop fucking redoing the planet management and making it worse every time. you had it perfected like 6 years ago

  2. stop shipping shit when it doesn't work

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[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago

Yesterday and today, there have been ravens near the tree line -- they are so silly, and loud. Just over there "Ah!" "Ah!" so cool. A goth lady came over yesterday, I told her about the ravens and she said "Oh, that's a good sign!"

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago (7 children)

Back in high school all the cool gay kids would listen to like lady gaga now they listen to walls of noise broken up with old radio number stations or whatever.

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago

I’m coming around on my hair a bit, but I wish I knew how to style it or what products to use to achieve an effect.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago
[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Think I'm on a new arc where I'm just not gonna correct my spelling no more, it shows hesitant and weakness to go back and edit things.

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (3 children)

today stunk... some loud braggart said some stuff and i got in this whole argument

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