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[–] burgerpocalyse@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

at least with maga you know they're dangerous, like a bright colorful snake

[–] Bouzou@lemmy.world 15 points 13 hours ago

For #1, you're missing the bullet point:

  • "Acts nice to my face, but doesn't consider me a human being (and votes accordingly)"
[–] Apocalypteroid@lemmy.world 7 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Conservatives I respect = None, conservativism is basically selfishness.

[–] Anomalocaris@lemm.ee 2 points 3 hours ago

there's some for a political ideology that considered any change to be dangerous, and we should be cautious regarding trying new things...

and that is what "conservatism" sounds like.

but they aren't conservatives, they are reactionaries, they want to push the whole system to the right.

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 13 hours ago

Lmao the conservatives I respect aren't republicans, they see trump for what he is and have been voting biden

[–] andybytes@programming.dev 3 points 14 hours ago

Capitalism leads to monopoly and imperialism. Fascist are the useful idiots of empire. Both political parties in Yankee dumb dumb land are right wing. This has all to do with socioeconomics and the populist movements in merikkka. This meme is an example of how lazy children think. Liberals will not save you they are controlled opposition. Fuck Nancy pelosi. We are too busy slaving away to have friends anyways.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 35 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"Conservatives I respect:

The ones that stay quiet about their true feelings about how they believe that various groups of people they don't like don't deserve human rights" 🤡

Nah. I've tried to stay friends with conservatives before. They eventually reveal their most inhumane thoughts sooner or later.

I don't want to be friends with someone who wants my trans friends "purged", believes that women are inferior, thinks that people protesting for their rights is "terrorism", etc.

No fucking thank you.

[–] chocosoldier@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 23 hours ago

yeah this is where i'm at. they both voted for me to not have rights so fuck 'em, they're the same to me.

[–] SectoidLexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 40 points 1 day ago

Lol conservatives aren't worth your respect

[–] PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@lemmy.sdf.org 63 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Shit meme. Everyone everywhere needs to adopt a policy of zero capitulation to reactionaries and their framings.

To any conservatives for the rest of time: fuck top category conservatives just as much. Yeah you're just as bad as the bottom category, but you're just enough of a fucking snake to hide your worst impulses and blend in with polite society.

[–] kate@lemmy.uhhoh.com 80 points 1 day ago (13 children)
[–] chocosoldier@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 23 hours ago

once upon a time i nearly voted for John McCain, and i'm not even sure i can actually respect him he was just the closest to being a respectable human being that they had.

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[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 53 points 1 day ago (7 children)

The problem is that I don't respect "conservatives" if they continue to substantially support abusive politicians, organizations, and groups. I don't care if you're respectful and not personally bigoted; there's no excuse for supporting disrespectful and bigoted actions. Unless you admit your sins and agree to not support Nazis anymore, then your sympathy will never be enough.

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[–] ThisIsAManWhoKnowsHowToGling@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Conservatives i can respect:

• Joe Biden

[–] TonyTonyChopper@mander.xyz 4 points 13 hours ago

I have no sympathy for Genocide Joe

[–] chocosoldier@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 23 hours ago

Joseph Robinette "Civil Asset Forfeiture" Biden, Jr? nah fuck that guy he can rot

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago

Now ship them!

[–] Gold_E_Lox@lemmy.dbzer0.com 57 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

i really wanna ask some questions, genuinely in good faith as it seems you may misunderstand how politics affects real peoples lives.

would you respect them if they were racist, just not around you?

would you respect them if they were queerphobic, just not around you?

would you respect them if they voted for, and supported, politicians willing and ready to take away your rights or the rights of others?

why would you want to interact with someone who disagrees with peoples rights to live?

this is assuming you are a member of some minority (queer, of color, etc.) if you arent, then i guess i understand.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This is a revamping of the meme about gay people that was complaining about looking colorful, caring about LGBTQ rights, mentioning their partners in conversation the same way straight people do, and maybe having a lisp? It’s thankfully been a long time since I saw it.

You’re right, but I don’t think the OP actually means it, they’re just trying to flip the script on conservatives. I’m not the OP though, so I could be wrong

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[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 1 day ago (2 children)

"Kind" Germans vs bad Germans during the Holocaust:

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There were some 800.000 Germans arrested for "resistance activities" during WW2, and tens of thousands were executed for it.

Now, I'm not saying those were all good people, but there were at least some good Germans. But terrifyingly few.

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They weren't "moderate" conservatives, they were mostly leftists

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago

That's probably almost entirely true. I'm willing to bet the worst thing a lot of those 800k did was "be communist".

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[–] sunnie@sopuli.xyz 24 points 1 day ago (3 children)

i think the point they're trying to make is that people who make politics their entire personality suck, and at least for me that's true regardless of what side of the political spectrul they're on. but even if they're chill outside of that and you can have a good conversation with a conservative, the fact they agree with people that want me dead is still gonna leave a sour taste in my mouth

[–] P4ulin_Kbana@lemmy.eco.br 1 points 23 hours ago

I think you're litterally the only person in the entire fediverse who understood the meme correctly

[–] sunnie@sopuli.xyz 13 points 1 day ago

hell, those more reasonable conservatives might be worth a 5 minute talk. i've seen people who vote conservative for purely economic reasons and never really thought about the whole killing minorities thing, and when i explained it to them they reconsidered

though to be clear, that's where i'm from. you cannot make the same argument for trump voters

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[–] CubitOom@infosec.pub 18 points 1 day ago

Conservatives think that other people having basic human rights somehow alienates their's. There is no respectable conservative, since I can't respect someone that thinks in this way.

[–] Owlboi@lemm.ee 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

conservatives i respect: -didnt vote for trump -arent ignorant or uninformed

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