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It's really hot - Trans Megathread for the week 2025-06-30 to 2025-07-06 (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Eco@hexbear.net to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net

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it's hot. also i'm growing cacti from seed which is new to me and i'm excited, a few of them are sprouting now. how are you?

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

::: spoiler dysphoria

Its been bad lately. I just want to be able to look at myself naked in the mirror and be kinda ok with myself. It feels like progress is going backwards, my body feels less feminine than a year ago, after a couple laser sessions my face somehow has more hair and i cant afford more laser (they charge a lot, i did the math and its $400-600 an hour). But specifically, my shoulders are just wrecking me right now...

How do yall deal with shoulder dysphoria? I realllly dislike my shoulders, and everything makes them look larger. For reference im 195cm and somewhat thin (my belly begs to differ tho), with somewhat wide shoulders (my armpits line up with my hips). I used to try and find things to wear that would work for my body, but i have no money and tbh i dont think this is something clothing can fix... I just want to be able to look at myself in the mirror and be ok with myself... doggirl-gloom

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoiler

I just want to be able to look at myself naked in the mirror and be kinda ok with myself. It feels like progress is going backwards

same tbh, don't think it will happen for me :/

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

::: spoiler spoiler

meow-hug shits rough...

Im alright with the shape of my legs and hips and waist, but then my ribcage sits on top of them and it looks like someone took two dolls and swapped their top and halfs. I just hate my top half so much!!!!! Fuck! doggirl-tears i want my body to look normalll i just want to feel at home in it doggirl-cry

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoiler

I don't really think there's anything about my body that's okay. A lot of the issue is just how big I am. Ribcage also feels fucked to me too tbh. Bottom stuff, don't even know what would feel right there. Body was wrecked by acne and shit too. Can't really deal with facial hair coming in at all. Dunno most of the rest just gives me a disgusting feeling but I'm not sure how much more specific stuff there is. Also my fucking voice is probably the worst of it...

i just want to feel at home in it

Yea same kitty-cri-potato I just wanna feel at home and safe and comfy...

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

::: spoiler spoiler

I try not to think about my voice. Its.... Not great... Makes me sad. Voice training is really hard because of my executive function being shitty.

cuddle we deserve to feel ok in our bodies, they are our homes we deserve to feel safe and secure and comfy in them.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

spoiler

Me too. Very little talking. tbh have barely had to talk the last few days and that's always nice. Its hard for me because of dysphoria. Voice is the thing that bothers me most and training is just- too hard. Too painful. Also really doubt I could get it where I need it anyway.

Wish I got everything I deserve :/ or even just essentials I need... shitty fucking trans life...

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

i like this 🍵💿

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

i think im about done cooking and ready to blow up at the next person who is anti-diy irl (or even a """fence-sitter""").

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

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Brain literally will not shut up and just keeps running through all the negativity, all the things I hate, how fucked I am and how much I hate being trans and all the things that come with that and its not stopping cri

literally just hours and hours of this, its constant, what even is the end game here. Like okay I'm never going to be happy and I should kms can we please just have a moments break from that?? There's not a solution so just please stop cri

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[–] BattleshipPokemon@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

The dolls love watching Rebel Without a Cause for the third time over

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

Was watching a yakuza iceburg vid and the topic of Kamorocho Hills came up. Guy mentioned how you can never access it in any of the games but actually you can in dead souls nerd this is where the dead souls chads gigachad keep winning. Honestly first time I played dead souls I was kinda shocked by how big the place is like I could see the rest of the game still being yakzua 4 but the new places for it other than the sewer and the minimum tower insides you go through were cool.

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