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I missed this news somehow (the article is from July 1st):

A judge has thrown out the case of a 20-year-old trans woman who was arrested in Florida for washing her hands in a women’s bathroom.

Prosecutors reportedly failed to meet the deadline for filing charging documents against Marcy Rheintgen after she was arrested while protesting the state’s anti-trans bathroom ban. A Leon County judge granted her lawyer’s motion to dismiss the misdemeanor trespassing charge.

In case you didn't know the background:

In March, Rheintgen informed Florida lawmakers of her plan to enter the state’s Capitol building and use the restroom, even including a photo of herself so they knew who to look for. She never thought police would actually arrest her, despite the fact that the move broke the 2023 law.

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Nevertheless, two cops met her at the restroom, but she decided to go in anyway. At first, they told her they would just give her a notice to appear before the judge. But they then reported she became “sassy” and indicated she may use the women’s bathroom again, so they arrested her.

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Florida’s bathroom ban criminalizes anyone who uses a toilet or changing facility that doesn’t match the sex they were assigned at birth. It applies to public schools, universities, parks, prisons, and other government buildings but not to businesses and healthcare facilities.

The law only applies to facilities run by the state, but transgender and nonbinary Floridians have nonetheless been confronted, harassed, and intimidated in public restrooms located inside private businesses.

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honestly I'm glad. she really didn't need to go to prison for any length of time. After reading about her and interacting with her ama, I double downed on that thought.

[–] RejZoR@lemmy.ml 89 points 2 days ago (4 children)

So, using "wrong" bathroom warrants 11 months prison sentence. Being actually convicted of 34 counts gets you presidency of United States of America. Tell me if USA isn't a corrupt rotten fucking clown country... At least the judge isn't part of that and actually acts like a human being throwing this nonsense out and dismissing it.

[–] Jhex@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] Enkrod@feddit.org 1 points 1 day ago

Sadly, extremely accurate

[–] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 41 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

It was thrown out because they didn't file paperwork in a timely fashion, not because the judge is sympathetic.

[–] hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 2 days ago

I get the impression the prosecution wanted to make sure the judge couldn't rule on the merits of the case.

[–] Plurrbear@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Agreed! The “American Experiment” has failed!

[–] Taalnazi@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Oh, the judges very much are, in the US - they are appointed politically, by the US president.

Which never should be the case.

[–] renegadespork@lemmy.jelliefrontier.net 52 points 3 days ago (2 children)

You couldn’t pay me enough to set foot in Florida.

[–] FartMaster69@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Well it’s certainly a privilege to have that option.

[–] match@pawb.social 5 points 2 days ago

i have also donated to direct aid to get people out of Florida

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

A million for taking one step in and then immediately leaving

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 9 minutes ago

Costs triple that to get me within several hundred miles of the southern border.

[–] Taalnazi@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Police state, yay! /s

Ron desantis is an asshole and needs to be institutionalised for life.

[–] 5in1k@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago

Institutionalized at a standard oil station.

[–] LovingHippieCat@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

~~Important note: Shes also a Trump supporter. She actively voted for Republicans who were going to do this to us and when they then did what they said they were going to do she was supposedly surprised. She fucked around and her getting arrested is her finding out.~~

~~She also shouldn't have gotten arrested and many many trans people go to the correct bathroom in states where it's illegal to do so and have only not been arrested because we do everything we can to get in and get out and not make ourselves known.~~

Edit: Apparently she did an AMA on Reddit that I didn't see because, well, I'm barely there. She just wasn't political before this, wasnt a conservative. See post below.

Also it's pretty nuts to be trans in America and "not be political" but that's a whole other thing than being a conservative.

Edit again: Fixed the strike through

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 27 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] LovingHippieCat@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Well that's positive! I've corrected my comment, I'm curious how that false reporting she was a trump supporter came to be but it's good to know she isn't that.

Although her being "not political" is pretty fucking nuts but that's not conservative at least.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 days ago

You should put a line through the bad information too, in case someone stops without reading the edit.

[–] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

(If the first two paragraphs don't appear as strike through for you, they're meant to be, it just might not be working since I'm in an app and I can't see it personally)

It's because you accidentally left a space before the closing squiggles

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

@LovingHippieCat@lemmy.world here's an example of how to do the strikethrough syntax:

~~this will strike me out~~

will look like:

~~this will strike me out~~

but

~~this won't strike me out ~~

will look like:

~~this won't strike me out ~~

Honorary Mancunian is pointing out the problem is that space that comes before the last ~~, if you delete that the strikethrough might work, but I'm not sure it will work for a whole block like you were trying, let me try:

~~testing one two three

four five six~~

nope, the strikethrough only works inline, so you would have to strikethrough each sentence:

~~Important note: Shes also a Trump supporter. She actively voted for Republicans who were going to do this to us and when they then did what they said they were going to do she was supposedly surprised. She fucked around and her getting arrested is her finding out.~~

~~She also shouldn’t have gotten arrested and many many trans people go to the correct bathroom in states where it’s illegal to do so and have only not been arrested because we do everything we can to get in and get out and not make ourselves known.~~

which would look like:

~~Important note: Shes also a Trump supporter. She actively voted for Republicans who were going to do this to us and when they then did what they said they were going to do she was supposedly surprised. She fucked around and her getting arrested is her finding out.~~

~~She also shouldn’t have gotten arrested and many many trans people go to the correct bathroom in states where it’s illegal to do so and have only not been arrested because we do everything we can to get in and get out and not make ourselves known.~~

[–] LovingHippieCat@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

You. Are. Amazing.

[–] Sunshine@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 days ago

Thank you judge for having decency!

[–] HappySkullsplitter@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)

In March, Rheintgen informed Florida lawmakers of her plan to enter the state’s Capitol building and use the restroom, even including a photo of herself so they knew who to look for.

Ok, now that makes way more sense to me. Before, I had no idea how they singled her out

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

yeah, it was an intentional act of civil disobedience, though she might have a different view on that. She is a conservative Catholic who believed if she prayed and appealed to her fellow conservatives' consciences, they would ... just not uphold the hateful laws they created to target her. She was wrong, unfortunately. She explicitly has said she isn't an activist.