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[โ€“] artificialset@hexbear.net 41 points 1 year ago (1 children)

most will probably say it's easier to learn sign language than to voice train

[โ€“] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

Me when I can't figure out fundamental frequencies and spectral rolloff so I study directional verbs and locus indexing

Learning sign language is a neat and helpful skill.

[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 26 points 1 year ago

You're commited now, you just have to keep doing it

[โ€“] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[โ€“] artificialset@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago

lmao this reminded me how much I want a s3 ๐Ÿ˜ญ

[โ€“] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

at some point I considered getting a necklace with a bell on it to so I can get people's attention

[โ€“] Awoo@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

People might assume you have certain proclivities...

[โ€“] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

Meow ๐Ÿ˜บ

[โ€“] queermunist@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I got one of those voice amplifiers for work because my normal speaking voice is okay, but yelling is Out Of The Question.

[โ€“] Xx_Aru_xX@hexbear.net 5 points 1 year ago

Other way around for me, my normal speaking voice is unheard, but my yelling voice is way too loud and aggressive.

[โ€“] Owl@hexbear.net 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Write him a letter.

Heck just print this meme out and hand it to him.

[โ€“] Awoo@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago

Heck just print this meme out and hand it to him.

michael-laugh

[โ€“] Cromalin@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

print a little business card that says "not deaf, just not talking"

[โ€“] l33tstr33t@hexbear.net 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This happened to me too so here's what I say - roll with it. I think if you look at it from the right angle, it's incredibly comforting to know that you don't have to talk and they're cool with it, even if it is a bit awkward.

CW - transphobiaI don't know what kind of store it is for you but it happened to me at a sandwich place, and if I had a bad experience somewhere else where I felt judged because of my voice it was really nice having a safe backup place to fall back to when I needed it.