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[โ€“] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (6 children)

is there like a single reddit post or brief guide out there on how to do trans femme shit? i don't want to bumble around asking the same question that's been asked 100,000 times before like "where the fuck do i get estrogen?" and "there an informed consent clinic nearby, do i just call them ask for an appointment or what?"

i honestly just prefer reading stuff rather than watching youtube tutorials but really i just want to know how to ask that informed consent clinic for E. god i'm fucking sick of this cisgender shit.

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[โ€“] Ho_Chi_Chungus@hexbear.net 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

oh my god why the fuck do i want to out myself to my parents. i haven't been emotionally vulnerable with them like this since i was like 15. they've never respected my emotions. my dad makes casually transphobic jokes all the time. i loved fantasizing about literally never outing myself to my parents and cutting them out of my life why do i keep crying at the idea of outing myself in the next week or so

they're trying to take me to europe on vacation for like 2 weeks. honestly i didn't want to go at first but trying to go through international airport security as a trans woman sounds nightmarish, i'd really rather just not. plus i keep reading too many stories about planes just fucking falling apart mid air to want to board one anytime soon

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago (8 children)

Anyone have any good resources on/about trans people who don't realize it until later(ish) in life (18+)? I keep having this nagging feeling about not liking being a guy (this has been happening for months now) but my childhood was very cis and every time I hear trans people talk about when they "knew" they were like 7. I don't know exactly what I feel like I should be either.

Anyway, might be nothing, but still would be interesting to hear/read about it.

[โ€“] Cromalin@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago

a lot of people don't figure themselves out until adulthood. you definitely aren't alone, i'd guess the majority of trans folks are in that same boat. the problem is that until fairly recently if you didn't say "i knew when i was 4 that i was a girl" you probably wouldn't be able to transition 'legitimately' so that's what people have in their heads. "if i didn't know when i was young it doesn't count," and obviously that's bullshit but it sticks with you

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Unjust Depths, just talking about our protagonist

I wanted to write a lil appreciation of Murati Nakara because she is a wonderful bean.

When you first meet her in the intro to Unjust Depths she almost seems kind of silly. The only things she really has going on are her girlfriend Karuniya, (they seem to have an uncomplicated and wonderful relationship) her skill at diver piloting and her ambition in the military. To be honest, early on I had thought she didn't really have any flaws, but she takes a good while to unfurl and bloom as a character.

Murati is not among the several autistic lesbians in Depths, that I know of anyway, but her staunch hard-headedness is very appealing! Much later in the series she's talking to this scientist lady who knew her parents, the famous revolutionaries the Nakaras, and she is borderline affronted when science lady says "Yeah they did a lot of great shit but they were mostly just oceanographers lol, idealists really" and it's borderline adorable. I can really respect how strongly she feels about her Mordecist beliefs and sense of justice. When she first steps off the Brigand and into an Imperial city, her moment of utter shock at a capitalist hellhole that leaves its people destitute and homeless is superb for her. Murati might be a military-strategic galaxybrain and a steadfast revolutionary, but she's also somewhat green, and her single-minded commitment to justice can sometimes cause problems, like she bothers Captain Ulyana for money to try to house these homeless guys in the Empire, holding up a critical extraction mission.

What I really want from her is more flashbacks, though. Stepping back in time about fifteen years and finding out that not only has Murati always been like this, but she was equally loud and brash about matters of her gender is a wonderful thing. She went from "good" to "great" though when she gave her adoptive parent Deshnov shit about his goofy-ass "allowed you to go on tbose medications" spiel.

It's fairly uncommon to see trans kids in fiction, unless it's some kind of Young Adult, coming-of-age story I guess, likely because the vast majority of trans people now still transition in their 20s or 30s. I'm weird though, and so the idea that an indignant, righteously angry 12 year old Murati had to lash out against Deshnov (and probably everybody else Idk) to get her way and be who she is? Wow, she just like me, fr fr. That's something I can really relate to, and even just hinting at that kind of hardship for her has me deeply invested basically for free. I feel a great affection for the First Officer, the Brigand couldn't ask for a better Diver Leader and I'm always excited when she is onscreen. Murati, my beloved โค

[โ€“] Cromalin@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago (6 children)

::: spoiler murati my beloved! i had a whole thing written but fucked up and somehow deleted it orz

but yeah she's so good and the ways she develops and deepens as the story unfolds is tremendous. i could see an autistic read of her, special interest mordecaist theory and political structures. her naivety is so good, thinking about how it would be to live your whole life in a communist state and then be exposed to the horrors of capitalism for the first time is so well drawn

and that flashback is a standout moment in a story full of standout moments, i really love murati so much. her firm self knowledge from the very beginning makes so much sense

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