morte

joined 4 years ago
[–] morte@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

I want to understand math but my adhd makes it hard to study (plus i dont even know like, how to study effectively on my own with no direction)

[–] morte@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Can someone walk me through how to move states???? I need to leave my current sooner rather than later

[–] morte@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I lost my job haha

[–] morte@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Learning to draw so i can draw guys smoochin other men

[–] morte@hexbear.net 20 points 3 months ago (2 children)

sadness, transphobiaWelp i went NC with my parents. They tried to get me to read a book on detransitioners and i just cant do it anymore. I feel awful. They dont even try to understand and just dont want to listen to me. They use every BS argument in the book and point to bogus studies and it's so,,, frustrating. I have yet to receive a proper apology for my mom calling me a man to my face multiple times either. I hate this so much

[–] morte@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago

I still feel weird calling myself a woman. Im kinda non binary though. I feel very comfortable calling myself transfem

[–] morte@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Another conversation with my mother repeating every GC talking point and saying I'll always be a man.

Almost used to it at this point

[–] morte@hexbear.net 9 points 4 months ago

Yea laser places tell you to stop waxing generally

[–] morte@hexbear.net 25 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Surgery really scares me as much as I want it

The transphobic ppl in my life dont understand that we go into these things fully understanding what its going to be like

Like i know recovery is going to be hard, so why are you making it harder for me instead of supporting me through it

[–] morte@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Have u tried an electric shaver?

[–] morte@hexbear.net 13 points 4 months ago

It doesnt surprise me that tesla's demo was teleoperated. Tesla's hardware capabilities seem like child's play compared to literally every other robotics company on the market. Their optimus walking was laughable

[–] morte@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Been debating whether i actually want bottom surgery or not. I definitely want FFS - but I'm worried about the recovery being really hard and going into a depressive episode.

I think in the long run i wouldnt regret it, but i am really prone to catastrophizing and I can see myself spiraling out of control during recovery, especially when all my family does is tell me how these surgeries make "a mockery of women"

 

Also videos from gender criticals. It's so incredibly upsetting. One thing I've noticed is that there is simultaneously a claim that we are being lied to, and yet when trans content creators talk about their surgery complications it's used as ammunition against us and our care. Which is it? I have always found that trans creators are fully open about the risks and complications that can happen from surgery and yet I still desperately yearn to have it even though I know recovery is going to suck. I have to hear this GC rhetoric from my parents and it breaks my heart. I just want to live my life as the woman I was always meant to be. To grow old and die as a woman. To finally have a chance at happiness. Why do we have to justify our existence? Why can't they just leave us alone?

 

Is there literature I can give my conservative parents to try to assuage their fears? It's mostly for my dad as I still feel like I have a chance to convince him. But every now and then he still brings up things like detransitioners and regret rates and I want to push back on that in a constructive way. What can I give him to read?

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