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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 23 points 1 month ago (5 children)

This might be just a me thing, anyone else not celebrate their birthday? Never have when it was up to me and I always felt uncomfortable even when I was a toddler

[–] thirtymilliondeadfish@hexbear.net 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Always been funny about it, these days I try to do something small and nice but it still feels more like a formality than anything. Working on it lol

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I do that for the day I socially transitioned! Gave up on birthday. Plus, now I'm a Virgo~

I can't remember my dates! Got an idea of the year-ish span in which it started, could maybe narrow it down to a season or month, but that's it lol

I much prefer the idea of celebrating milestones and memories you make yourself, with others etc, rather than those set out for us, idk

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago

My birthday is gone, instead i celebrate my rebirthday, the annual celebration of the day i started hormones dubois-finger-guns

[–] magi@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I've never had a party or celebrated it. I wanted one as a kid but I had no friends and my family didn't. Similar thing as I got older, now I just treat it like any other day.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh, yeah, I know like Jehovas Witness people don't celebrate their birthdays.

[–] magi@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Except my parents weren't religious, just abusive

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago

Oh awful, well now I wanna celebrate a special day for you just to spite them ♡

[–] Ambii@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Yeah i was always kinda ambivalent about it. The most exciting part was getting to play video games with friends, everything else was a formality to me.

[–] keepcarrot@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

I've stopped since moving into sharehouses. Too many crossed social groups and people uncomfortable with each other

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago