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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

That's interesting, thanks. Did you want hrt or just not really feel like it?

But presenting female as a 6'3" AMAB person is a ton of effort and since detransitioning I have 100% fewer people stare at me on the bus and yell at me in public.

:yea: can't wait. Glad you don't mind going back to presenting masc, trying drag might be fun though!

[–] UmbraVivi@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I didn't feel like it because I wasn't 100% sure. Also my face already has somewhat feminine features, my biggest hurdle to passing were my height and my voice and HRT wouldn't have helped with either of those.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

That's very fair, thanks again!

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 4 points 1 month ago

I didn’t feel like it because I wasn’t 100% sure.

I'm curious how many would say they were 100% sure when they first started HRT. I know some people who say things like "I wasn't really sure until like a year after starting", which seemed weird to me at the time, but I might be on that path myself.

my biggest hurdle to passing were my height

Its unfortunate how many trans women have that problem. We just need to make cis women taller, so in 20 years, 6'3" seems normal for women!