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When I decided to host the mega again a bit ago, I had no idea what to make it about (of course). So it fell between two topics: a post on the importance of sleep, or a post on just how much I love Fire Emblem: The Sacred Echoes. Well, I felt like the importance of sleep was well-known, and could always wait for the next time I host a mega. I wanted to make sure I hit the Sacred Echoes iron while it's hot, because I've almost finished my play through at this point, and it might genuinely be one of the best games I have ever played.

Sacred Echoes feels so polished, considering it's a fan-made romhack of Sacred Stones, with the goal of bringing the 3DS game, Shadows of Valentia (SoV), to the GBA. Everything about the game aesthetically is very well-done, from the portraits, to the battle sprites, and literally anything else that could be thought of about a game. This includes new character writing, which helps the game in areas where Shadows of Valentia was a little, well, off. That's what I want to go over first, and although I've made a post before, I had only played a little bit of the game. Being at the end, I've noticed more things, and grown to appreciate this game even more than I already did.

Let's start off with the relevant (and interesting) bits: Sacred Echoes actually does a really good job at representing a variety of backgrounds, while also being diverse in a way that doesn't feel like it's simply to have a token character. This game doesn't suffer from the cracker curse, for example. Although most of the characters are white, there is more than one person of color (congratulations) . In terms of LGBTQ+ representation, it's even better. There are many gay/lesbian characters, whose sexuality actually plays a role in the plot and how they interact with others. There's also an aroace character, Lukas, who goes through a whole arc of self-discovery in his support conversations (support Python). It's good stuff, and not things I would normally expect from a Fire Emblem game. I hesitate to bring up the (possibly) only trans character in the game, Jesse. HOLD ON, NO HESITATION AT ALL! I just decided to do more research, and I wasn't just projecting. He is 100% trans, and it's in supports, and it's relevant to his plot and backstory, so it's just like the rest of them, thank goodness, I was worried he was a token. So yeah, support Clive and Jesse. Good stuff, and good luck getting to the end of the game so they can actually meet, one fights for Alm and the other for Celica...

This is Jesse

Here's some dialogue between Clive and Jesse, in the context of a will:

Clive: Only the following will be yours - your mother's wardrobe, her jewelry box, and all corresponding contents.

Jesse: Urgh. Even from halfway in the grave he's trying to tell me what to wear. So yeah, he's still the same tyrant he always was. Hasn't changed a bit.

In terms of character background, it's more diverse than one would think, and it addresses the issue of feudal class. Not all of the characters are nobles, and one of the main characters is a commoner from a random village. The plot regularly deals with the fact that nobles and commoners do not get along. However, it does not try to redeem most nobles. If they aren't proving themselves with their actions, they're probably shitty. Even if they are supposedly "one of the good ones", there's usually some underlying prejudice that comes out when you might not expect it. I love it so much, and I am extremely impressed that the plot doesn't try to redeem nobility as a whole, but rather allows the noble characters within the cast to have character development that feels less like justification and more like re-education.

Pictured is the class traitor Lukas absolutely destroying Fernand

For other details about the story, I'll link my original post. I don't want to drag this on too long, and I mention most of the improvements there. It also includes where to find the patch for the game, and how to play the game for yourself. If you enjoy SRPGs, or are new to the genre, I recommend this game. It has an easy mode for the newbies, and hard mode for those of us who hate ourselves (/s), and a normal mode for everything in-between niko-happy

The Echoes cast is amazing, and I love how they interact with each other and the world. Each character stands out, and they feel unique in their relationships with the other characters. Even characters that suffer in SoV, like Faye and the Masked Knight (has a name but it's spoilers), benefit from the Sacred Echoes writing, making them actually enjoyable characters. The villains of the game are also great. I don't want to go too deep, because I don't want to spoil too much, but they aren't just pure evil, and for that I applaud the SoV writers. Berkut is probably the highlight of the game, being the heir to the throne of the empire. I am once again asking you to play the game, because IT IS SO GREAT, and I would not have expected these good of villains to pair with Alm and Celica, as well as their armies.

Pictured is the Masked Knight being a gay little guy. The other guy (Saber) is threatening his life...

Everything about the game design is also amazing. It's GBA Fire Emblem, so the animations are peak and the pixel art is stellar. The maps are improved from the original SoV maps, and they are definetly much better, and much less repetitive. Classes in the game are fun in how they work, each character being able to promote 2-3 times. Mages also work really uniquely and well in this game, with spells costing HP to cast. They learn spells as they level up, rather than by purchasing tomes, which makes for (in my opinion), better gameplay. Sacred Echoes also adds the GBA weapon and magic triangles!

All in all, Sacred Echoes is a great game, and even if you never ending up playing it, you now know of its existence. It stands out as a great romhack, as well as a great Fire Emblem game, AND it has the gay. Can it really get better than that?

If you want my original (and more in-depth) analysis, check out my original post. It's mostly about what Sacred Echoes improves upon the original Shadows of Valentia.

Hope you enjoyed my little nerd-out session, and have a good week everyone! niko-dance

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

spoilerUm lea-think I do not like null that much, because why am I ridding myself of nerve endings? I still like sex now and then.

Any vulvaplasty, I am instantly distressed that some omnipotent force cisnormified me. I don't need the canal for any sex reasons, so that's not up to much, but then... why is the zero-depth option still a vulva though? Where's my flat anatomy that isn't one of two? Where's the one that doesn't have a weird gender connotation at?

Not tucking sounds handy but why not just get orchi for that? At that point even undersized underwear would do, right?

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoilerWhat would you ideally like that isn't null or vulva? Don't forget orchie but no other op is a completely valid choice.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

spoilerUh I dunno, something that's flat enough for miniskirts but doesn't carry weird connotations I guess. Maybe if you could get just a clit? just a really small version of what I have now sans balls, even. Idk. I'm also not that fussed on the "erection" part, so nix that too if we can.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoilerI bet it could be done. They do (apologies for the term, I don't know a different one) partial penectomy for cis men when indicated (cancer). I would search around - causee gender affirming partial penectomy should ABSOLUTELY be possible.

Okay, so, you go to sleep tonight and wake up - you look down, it's what you were picturing, smaller, more clit-like, no vulva, optionally orchie. All recovery is done, it's working as intended, there's no concerns. Next to your bed is a pill that can turn everything back painlessly. Go through your daily routine in your mind, shower, put on a cute skirt this time without any concerns about bulge, you go to work or school and its not like anyone knows, (this next part is optional cause you mentioned you like sex sometimes) maybe you meet someone and they go back to your place that night and actually they kind of like what you have and you use it however you mean to and it's good and fun.

How do you feel about this scenario, when you imagine this? Do you think you'd want to take the pill to return to what you had before the day after? We're doing this hypothetical to put the active choice in KEEPING what you have, in reality you have to make a choice to change of course but it sounded like you felt a little stuck. We're also doing the hypothetical to eliminate all the anxieties about surgery, those are valid but they might be getting in your way of making a clear-headed decision. If you imagine the scenario and you actually kind of dig it and would flush the pill - I'd say go for it and find a surgeon to get you started on that path. If you think it'd be neat to try maybe for a while but you'd ultimately reverse it, then don't bother with surgery.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoiler"Penectomy" is forever imbued with a comedy meaning for me che-smile uh I wonder if anyone actually does that though... lil thing...

kel-what I am married and monogamous... But yeah at that point I would never return to something larger with fuckin balls and erectile tissue, those are the annoying parts.

So we figured it out for me, together: Gender Affirming Surgery that gives you a really lil transfemme clit badeline-heh Unironically this rocks lmao. "Micropeen surgery" lol

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

spoilerPerfect! Yeah, I'd start researching surgeons and hospitals and stuff! You can absolutely get an orchie with no issues too before (be nice if they can just combine it all in one day but whatever). The clinic/hospital you get an orchie in or a gender clinic or support group should hopefully get you a head start on figuring out how to actually get that all squared away.

[–] naom3@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

spoilerI know there’s surgery you can get to just remove the erectile tissue if that’s something you’re interested in. Might also make it smaller idk

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] naom3@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

spoilerYeah, apparently it’s called “bilateral corpora cavernosa ligation“ and they don’t remove it but instead just do something to the veins so that they can’t provide enough blood to get erect. I was only able to find this reddit thread sadly, but apparently it’s actually a pretty simple procedure, and it’s also a precursor to nullification, so there are surgeons who do it

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

waow-based Saved, thanks.

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[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

spoiler

I do not like null that much, because why am I ridding myself of nerve endings? I still like sex now and then.

Pretty sure I'd seen people talk about keeping the ability to enjoy sex. So went and found a thread on reddit where someone talked about their own experience:

spoiler sexual stuff.

So old thread, OP fucked off, but for the benefit of anyone curious I have a more comprehensive answer. My experience comes from >a perspective of dorsal nerve preservation, and a partially underdeveloped wolffian tract.

I can orgasm fairly trivially, I would actually say I’m significantly more sensitive given that my sweet spot isn’t rubbing against my >underwear all day. I mainly orgasm from neoclitoral stimulation, though I have also orgasmed from phallic root and prostate >stimulation.

I’m unsure how to qualify what exactly comes out. Mostly seminal fluid, I don’t make a lot of prostate fluid. No gametes obviously. A >good amount of bulbourethral fluid also comes out. It’s clear, sometimes slightly cloudy, about the consistency of typical semen, >maybe a little thinner. It comes out of my urethra, which has been rerouted to about 2 inches above my anus.

It feels a lot better to be honest. I think the extra sensitivity combined with a lack of dysphoria really lets me just let go a lot more >than I could pre-op.

I primarily have sex with women, cis and trans, and really it’s quite varied. I have a variety of marital aids and the associated >hardware. If the lady in question is a little more phallic penetration averse, I can usually get by with performing oral/fingering/etc. >When it comes to stimulating me, again its really quite trivial. I enjoy manual stimulation, oral stimulation, genital to genital contact, >anal intercourse, vibrators, etc. Honestly it’s a very depressing question I get frequently, “how do you have sex without a penis?”

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/agender/comments/11gs6z3/comment/kwb6ecc/ :::

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

niko-wonderous Waow that sure could be cool, why have I never heard of this???

I gotta fucking say though "nullos" kinda sounds like a slur, wow.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Cause society is boring and doesn't talk about cool stuff.

Yeah... Not sure why you'd use an 'o' instead of an 'i' when it's null**i**fiction.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

FR FR soviet-huff we need more talking about cool stuff.

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