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When I decided to host the mega again a bit ago, I had no idea what to make it about (of course). So it fell between two topics: a post on the importance of sleep, or a post on just how much I love Fire Emblem: The Sacred Echoes. Well, I felt like the importance of sleep was well-known, and could always wait for the next time I host a mega. I wanted to make sure I hit the Sacred Echoes iron while it's hot, because I've almost finished my play through at this point, and it might genuinely be one of the best games I have ever played.

Sacred Echoes feels so polished, considering it's a fan-made romhack of Sacred Stones, with the goal of bringing the 3DS game, Shadows of Valentia (SoV), to the GBA. Everything about the game aesthetically is very well-done, from the portraits, to the battle sprites, and literally anything else that could be thought of about a game. This includes new character writing, which helps the game in areas where Shadows of Valentia was a little, well, off. That's what I want to go over first, and although I've made a post before, I had only played a little bit of the game. Being at the end, I've noticed more things, and grown to appreciate this game even more than I already did.

Let's start off with the relevant (and interesting) bits: Sacred Echoes actually does a really good job at representing a variety of backgrounds, while also being diverse in a way that doesn't feel like it's simply to have a token character. This game doesn't suffer from the cracker curse, for example. Although most of the characters are white, there is more than one person of color (congratulations) . In terms of LGBTQ+ representation, it's even better. There are many gay/lesbian characters, whose sexuality actually plays a role in the plot and how they interact with others. There's also an aroace character, Lukas, who goes through a whole arc of self-discovery in his support conversations (support Python). It's good stuff, and not things I would normally expect from a Fire Emblem game. I hesitate to bring up the (possibly) only trans character in the game, Jesse. HOLD ON, NO HESITATION AT ALL! I just decided to do more research, and I wasn't just projecting. He is 100% trans, and it's in supports, and it's relevant to his plot and backstory, so it's just like the rest of them, thank goodness, I was worried he was a token. So yeah, support Clive and Jesse. Good stuff, and good luck getting to the end of the game so they can actually meet, one fights for Alm and the other for Celica...

This is Jesse

Here's some dialogue between Clive and Jesse, in the context of a will:

Clive: Only the following will be yours - your mother's wardrobe, her jewelry box, and all corresponding contents.

Jesse: Urgh. Even from halfway in the grave he's trying to tell me what to wear. So yeah, he's still the same tyrant he always was. Hasn't changed a bit.

In terms of character background, it's more diverse than one would think, and it addresses the issue of feudal class. Not all of the characters are nobles, and one of the main characters is a commoner from a random village. The plot regularly deals with the fact that nobles and commoners do not get along. However, it does not try to redeem most nobles. If they aren't proving themselves with their actions, they're probably shitty. Even if they are supposedly "one of the good ones", there's usually some underlying prejudice that comes out when you might not expect it. I love it so much, and I am extremely impressed that the plot doesn't try to redeem nobility as a whole, but rather allows the noble characters within the cast to have character development that feels less like justification and more like re-education.

Pictured is the class traitor Lukas absolutely destroying Fernand

For other details about the story, I'll link my original post. I don't want to drag this on too long, and I mention most of the improvements there. It also includes where to find the patch for the game, and how to play the game for yourself. If you enjoy SRPGs, or are new to the genre, I recommend this game. It has an easy mode for the newbies, and hard mode for those of us who hate ourselves (/s), and a normal mode for everything in-between niko-happy

The Echoes cast is amazing, and I love how they interact with each other and the world. Each character stands out, and they feel unique in their relationships with the other characters. Even characters that suffer in SoV, like Faye and the Masked Knight (has a name but it's spoilers), benefit from the Sacred Echoes writing, making them actually enjoyable characters. The villains of the game are also great. I don't want to go too deep, because I don't want to spoil too much, but they aren't just pure evil, and for that I applaud the SoV writers. Berkut is probably the highlight of the game, being the heir to the throne of the empire. I am once again asking you to play the game, because IT IS SO GREAT, and I would not have expected these good of villains to pair with Alm and Celica, as well as their armies.

Pictured is the Masked Knight being a gay little guy. The other guy (Saber) is threatening his life...

Everything about the game design is also amazing. It's GBA Fire Emblem, so the animations are peak and the pixel art is stellar. The maps are improved from the original SoV maps, and they are definetly much better, and much less repetitive. Classes in the game are fun in how they work, each character being able to promote 2-3 times. Mages also work really uniquely and well in this game, with spells costing HP to cast. They learn spells as they level up, rather than by purchasing tomes, which makes for (in my opinion), better gameplay. Sacred Echoes also adds the GBA weapon and magic triangles!

All in all, Sacred Echoes is a great game, and even if you never ending up playing it, you now know of its existence. It stands out as a great romhack, as well as a great Fire Emblem game, AND it has the gay. Can it really get better than that?

If you want my original (and more in-depth) analysis, check out my original post. It's mostly about what Sacred Echoes improves upon the original Shadows of Valentia.

Hope you enjoyed my little nerd-out session, and have a good week everyone! niko-dance


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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

Eco* (10/7 - 10/13)
oscardejarjayes* (10/14 - 10/20)
HelltakerHomosexual* (10/21 - 10/27)
GayTuckerCarlson* (10/28 - 11/3)
Luna* (11/4 - 11/10)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

i'm putting you back on...

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago

:lets-fucking-go:

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 21 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (22 children)

chat, i'll be doing another trans survey soon, though this time it will be much more in detail and hosted on cryptpad (for security) and anonymous. do you have any questions you're dying to ask your little trans friends here?

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I'd like to see a question about how strong people's conceptions of gender are. Like, are certain actions and appearances more "masculine" or "feminine" to people?

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Might have to be a separate thing sounds like a lot of questions

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 2 points 45 minutes ago

thats fair, no worries if it cant make it into the survey

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 2 points 19 minutes ago* (last edited 19 minutes ago)

She cream corn in my jeans and we get into a huge argument because this has happened before and I tell her to stop cream corning in my jeans but she doesn't listen but she's says I don't listen because she can't control it so I ask her to stop wearing my jeans and she says no so I ask her to at least not wear the nice jeans and she still says no so now we are at an impasse in our relationship

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 1 points 11 minutes ago

HE SAID THE THING!!!

Also have to admire the work on his portrait. Berkut goes from being normal to looking like this when he says UNCLE!!!

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 1 points 16 minutes ago

I love Devil Axes so much. Just had a boss completely kill itself with one badeline-heh

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 5 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

surgeryWhat if you were in a car wreck with your best bud and to save their life their head had to be sown on to your body and you became gay buddy cops solving mysteries out of a van with a dog but its not Scooby Doo because that's still under heavy copywrite protection

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

spoilerwhere is it being sewn on? like on my shoulder? because maybe i could live with that if said best bud also wanted the procedure. anywhere else and they can get fucked tbh

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 5 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

spoilerI was thinking they would br attached mouth to penis

spoilerThe mouth isn't attached to the head or the base of the penis, the mouth is attached to the side of the shaft so it doesn't even feel very good

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

managed to fuck my back up at work biden-pain

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 4 points 1 hour ago

Re-irritated an old wrist injury the other day and it's still bugging me yes-honey-left

spoilerNo, I didn't injure it at my job at the hog cranking factory

I got laid off as retaliation for trying to salt the floor there

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

My little sisters moved to my old city! I loved it, I told them about how one of our distant cousins runs a cool metal bar, about some of the neat spots, or the haunted house this month, the good summer festivals, etc.

One of them started wearing a day collar. Which... good for her, but its weird for me to see anything like that - I held her when she was a baby, I dont want to know ANY side of her like that. I know what it was and I knew she liked being marked by her former boyfriends (cause she liked having displayed hickeys etc).

Then I had the most horrible fucking image of me returning to the scene in that city, going to some munch and seeing my little sister there. Oh my god. I don't think I can ever return to the scene until they both move 💀

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

spoileri didn't even know getting marked was a thing...

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 4 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 57 minutes ago)

spoilerIt's real. I'm a marked man. The woke mob is after me for not falling for their brainwashing. All free thinkers in this society are marked for censorship. In the days of when ever that book about the dames whats sleeps around was made it was an Arizona Diamondbacks logo. Now it's a "banned" tag next to your profile

[–] ValenThyme@reddthat.com 8 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (2 children)

Hello lovelies.

I'm a week away from my 3 month HRT anniversary now.

I have lost 50+lbs and now fit into a lot of the femme clothes i bought my wife that i secretly wanted. She's been teaching me how to dress and it's so wonderful being so soft and loving myself limitlessly.

Went back to being a vegetarian which makes me happy.

I grew my own boobs and am v chuffed about this. They show no signs of stopping!

I discovered that some colors of purple shirts make my eyes look magnificent. I almost went to my grave not knowing that!

I am getting pretty good at putting on the false eyelashes and my voice is slowly getting there.

I don't really like shaving but i'm learning to epilate and i like that a LOT my arms are soooo smooth now.

I love how differently i get treated now. I love seeing myself in the mirror.

I love being trans. I love being a woman so much. I love and treasure all of you little bears for helping me get here. <3

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago

50 pounds in 3 months??

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Whenever I'm in a loud place, I instinctively hum. Not a song or melody or anything, just a low vibration. I'll often notice that my voice is strained despite the fact I haven't actually spoken because I'll do it for hours sometimes.

Is that stimming or just a quirk?

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 1 points 54 minutes ago (1 children)

Are you overwhelmed in these loud places? It could possibly be a stim, especially since it's not a melody.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 2 points 24 minutes ago (1 children)

Are you overwhelmed in these loud places?

Big time

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 2 points 21 minutes ago (1 children)

It's likely that it's a stim, then. I believe it's a pretty common one as well izutsumi-idea

this might be wrongDidn't you say you thought you were neurotypical a month or two ago?

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 2 points 2 minutes ago

Didn't you say you thought you were neurotypical a month or two ago?

Not even that long ago peltier-laugh

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 7 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

brain stuffi spent the past few hours crying on and off but things worked out. for now, i think. still making peace with the fact that everything is temporary. i think the thing that hurts the most is being happy right now and knowing there's a chance that gets taken away

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

spoilerThat's the old curse/blessing, "this too shall pass." The one phrase that makes the joyful weep in sadness and makes the distraught laugh in happiness.

In Buddhism, it's called Anyita and it's our attachment to all these impermanent things that is the root cause of all suffering. It's in Ecclesiates too, everything is utterly Hevel/dust/meaningless. The sun rises and sets and rushes to rise again, generations toil but the earth stays the same. The rivers empty out to the seas endlessly but the seas are never filled.

There's an oooold sory of when Achilles met a gymnosophist (a naked philosopher/guru) when he came conquering the world up to India, he told the gymnosophist he was going to conquer to world so the gymnosophist said to climb the highest mountain, Mt Everest, and place his flag at the highest peak so he could proclaim himself king of the world. So Achilles did, and when reached there he was surrounded by flags of all the other would-be so-called conquerors of the world with flags he didn't recognize.

Of course, the flip side is no one will ever remember all the embarrassing stuff you did in middle school lol

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

pee pee braini hate it. i want to plant the only flag and call it self-fulfillment. i hate the concept of good things leaving and never being replaced. i hate change. i love routine. i love my routine. the thought of radically shifting my perspective and behaviors because of something important is making me anxious and sad

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 3 hours ago

This, too, even this, shall pass

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 5 points 4 hours ago

brain stuffwould it be wrong to give live updates of me losing my shit and turning into the joker as time goes on? i can feel the cracks forming as we speak and i'm just waiting for them to erode enough to finally let the dam break

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

nsfw, hormone shitRealising that I would be much happier if genital atrophy was a real thing instead of a myth from imageboards

omori-neutral

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

spoilerive been on hrt for a long time (10+ years) and i can tell you it definitely does and i have the pictures to prove it. long term spiro use meant no boners this whole time

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