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Sanity check chat, is a parent saying "you can do a b c transition things, but I don't want you doing x y z while you live here, I'm just not comfortable with that/goes against my beliefs", abusive? Like assuming its strictly transition related. I don't know what specific things are being thought of either. Personally, I'm assuming that to mean hrt/pronouns/name/clothes?
Yes, definitely. The parent is clearly treating the child as property, doing so in a cissexist manner, and attempting to destroy the child's sense of self. However, it's super normalized.
Thank you, and yes it is very normalized :/
What goes against their beliefs and why? If something you need goes "against their beliefs" (cultural revolution against kkkhristianity when) then I would say yes to this question.
I should confirm what is being thought of, I'm thinking just normal transition stuff as I ask for/need it. Unlimited revolution against kkkhristianity absolutely
I get the sense that bro is just thinking of ways to bargain with christofascists lmao. UNLIMITED REVOLUTION
If xyz were something like "hang trans flag in window facing the street," I think I could accept fear of being hatecrime'd as sorta-kinda acceptable given how unimportant that is likely to be for the person doing it. But not respecting/allowing things like name, pronouns, presentation, and hrt would all be shitty behavior at best and definitely abusive with for minors and/or those with disabilities who are much more dependent on parents.
Anything relating to your body and identity is your purview, and they should be respected
Is this a hypothetical you think they’d say or something they said?
This something my therapist has said multiple times, almost every session lately tbh. Asking like, how I'd feel if that's what my parents said. I mean I guess anything would be better then nothing, but I'm still not a fan of that.
I guess I would ask why ABC is fine, but not XYZ and I’d ask if I have to follow every single one of their own beliefs to live there or if it was just an excuse because they are personally uncomfortable with XYZ
I definitely don't have to follow their other beliefs, any sort of issue would literally just be because I'm trans.