i'm harvesting a great crop of jelly beans today
it's my birthday this week and you have to post a lot okay? :^)
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i can either be an out and open, clocky as fuck trans woman
or i can be a very sad awkward "man"
i'd much rather be pretty and passing, but I don't have that option yet. maybe i'll never get it. oh well. but given those two option, why on earth would i pick the second?
I guess I’ve come at this from being a kind of cigarette-y boy, so I partially had an outlet for my femininity and never really felt like a man.
So that status quo was more comfortable to me than claiming womanhood for myself when I felt like the world wouldn’t see me as one (or I myself fully)