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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 21 points 2 months ago (7 children)

I can’t tell how much of my attraction to men is real and how much of it is rooted in making me feel more feminine by being bigger, taller and more manly than me. madeline-stare

[–] frankfurt_schoolgirl@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This is so real. Im honestly totally confused about my sexuality but I guess it doesn't matter and I can just do what feels right and hopefully I don't end up in a serious relationship and then realize I'm gay.

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Honestly. If I wasn't already confused about my sexuality, realizing I was trans threw quite a wrench into the whole thing.

[–] Gay_Tomato@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago

Clearly you need to experience a variety of increasingly large people of different genders to compare notes.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The latter is so not worth it. "Comparative smallness" is kind of a bad bit honestly. Source: fucked around with a series of tall men, not that fun, dudes icky women pwetty bottom-speak

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

True, why tall woman are superior

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

big fan of tall women

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

No wonder why "tall stronk lady" is such a popular archetype among transfemmes madeline-smug

[–] magi@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

I'm the smol stronk enby

Need more rep for short doms, seriously mari-smug

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

It's a very common thing, I think it's down to comphet and now you're a woman and subject to that external and internalized pressure too. It's not impossible to find out you're bi or straight after transitioning (plenty of trans women dated women as beards before transitioning). You're allowed to experiment!

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I really don't have any interest in dating men tbh (or anyone beside my gf for that matter)

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago
[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

Meanwhile I like men even less than before and women more.

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I keep reading your name wrong. I'm not sure if my brain really wants it to be tomboy moder, as in mother in danish.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

It’s moder like “boymoder”

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

"Tomboy mother" goes so fucking hard bridget-vibe

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

no, I am not a mother of tomboys

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Are you a Mother who is a Tomboy???

[–] nathanfieldertulpa@hexbear.net 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

that reminds me of this post