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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Oh my god, you poor thing, wish I could literally reach far enough to comfort you.

your spoiler, self harmWhatever it is that you did to yourself, clean it up, take some tylenol, put on bandages if you need and if the bleeding is bad go to emerg. If you're scared you'll do more, go to emerg - psych holds suck but it can also get you a doc and resources to help deal with what youre going through.

Self harm is a reaction to intense emotions, it's not the best possible reaction obviously because of the harm part but it's understandable. No you're not being an "attention whore" you're dealing with VERY INTENSE emotions and feelings that a lot of people probably couldn't handle. If you feel ready and have the financial ability, find some therapy especially CBT. It will help you work through this in a much healthier way. You may need medications as well to help you through this patch but that's up to a psych.

You're worthy of love and care, I know it's weird to hear from an internet stranger but I really believe it...

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

I wish you could too.

spoilerBeen doing therapy for a while. I was feeling better for a while but with all these fucking gender issues its not doing much. No replacement for your situation and society sucking I suppose.

Thank you.