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[–] Babs@hexbear.net 31 points 1 month ago (2 children)

News mega: country is at WAR and fascism is RISING and weeks are becoming DECADES!

trans mega: it is fun to be cute and take estrogen

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

is nice to have a space where we can talk about other things at times. as trans folks, we know how dire things are. is nice to have a space to embrace some queer joy online too!

[–] Babs@hexbear.net 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Even pre-trans thread Hexbear was the best trans website. Now we are even bester.

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

all thanks to the efforts of our great comrades of before like TC69 leslie-shining

I only came after the great transphobe purges. purge-1 purge-2

[–] Babs@hexbear.net 15 points 1 month ago

Never not embrace tc69 thought.

[–] citrussy_capybara@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

and kristina stepping up and making this comm happen

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Honoring a hero among us comrade-raccoon

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (4 children)
[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Which mental illness? Being trans fortunately isn't a recognized mental illness anymore, just as we stopped viewing homosexuality as such decades ago. Dysphoria / gender incongruence still counts as a mental illness, but that doesn't apply to all trans people and regarding it as a mental illness in those were it shows up seems highly debateable, given that the only way to cure it is by altering the person's body and attempts to treat it psychologically instead fail as reliably as HRT or surgery work in treating it. Any state of the art trans healthcare leaves psychologists out of the equation and goes straight for gender affirming care. So logically i'd say that we're talking a physical condition that leads to mental health symptoms if untreated, but should be cured by somatic means. You wouldn't call a cis woman with PCOS mentally ill, you'd just give her laser hair removal if she requests it. How is that any different from being trans?

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

Hearing "mental illness" deployed this way takes me back to 4chan threads in a really bad way honestly.

[–] rayne@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

The DSM is gaslighting transpeople and reinforcing the gender binary.

A gender psychologist explains.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7FmFcQ0a4jY&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fduckduckgo.com%2F

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Didn’t mean that non-conformity is itself illness. Just that we talk about mental illness here.

[–] rayne@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

Yeah, I thought that was were you were coming from.

I was more making an addendum to what acid smiley was saying about the DSM. I think she did cover it well. And that it would be helpful for people to hear the gender psychologist giving her opinion on gender dysphoria as a mental illness too.

I was cranky and maybe short, but I didn't mean to direct that at anyone here. Was feeling frustrated with health care stuff.

[–] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

Gender nonconformity is sick as, yeh? Ayyyy

[–] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I don’t mean we’re all mentally ill, or that being trans is synonymous with being mentally ill. I just mean we talk about dysphoria/depression/anxiety/ocd/adhd and so on a lot.

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

True, but i honestly don't think that's a bad thing. Mental illness and neurodivergence are extremely common, we're just being honest about it because we already share so much personal stuff.

[–] Babs@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think that can apply to both megas.

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

I’ve only peeked in the other one once. It’s boring.