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WE BEAT THE NEWS MEGA
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busy day. drove down to see my parents, helped in their garden for a bit, visited grandfather, took the opportunity to clean my car as my dad has a jetwash and polish and stuff, went out to eat, then played rummikub with my mum
today was p great. partner made pasta w/ nettle pesto, we went to sauna & then watched Gremlins together w/ the offspring :3 Alone Time time now. not sure if i'll be able to finish this movie, but y'know, that's really not something i'm looking to sweat over right now.
kinda feels like the air is tar lately. hopefully things will get easier soon. we've still got some figuring out to do re : injections, but i think maybe the change of scenery alone will have a positive impact on my well-being.
I get thrown off whenever someone uses this emote because it is clearly not a shrug. She's getting ready to give me a hug if anything
When I start getting recognized at a store or a restaurant, I stop going. I want to be anonymous to you, retail worker. You don't have to make small talk, it's alright, I remember my retail manager being on my ass about "being friendly and approachable" and how much I resented it. Unless you really are just naturally outgoing, I guess, but even then.
all this talk of levels has made me think about how I've never thought much about my levels even checked them after the mandatory blood tests 
(maybe I should)
I need to go cute clothes shopping. I have a lot of normal boring almost-unisex clothes that I look super cute in, and some dresses that wouldn't look out of place in a church, and a lotta flannel and sports bras. I need to have a cute, modern arc.
Whining about work
I'm so tired of burning myself out at work for a salary that's about 15% shy of breaking even.
So I'm hunting for a new job, which is its own sort of nightmare. The only companies that are hiring full-remote SREs or technical analysts at a pay rate I can live with are either banks or businesses that would require me to get a government security clearance, neither of which I want to do.
Today I remembered how much I love hanfu. I should hanfupost in here some time.
OKAY NERDS 
Who has some good GL webtoons? Can be manhua, manwha, donghua... american comic stuff, weeb comics, anything works but I need good quality comix about girls kissing.
EDIT: I ended up compiling a list of slop I like.
list of finished series
I Love Amy by Unun - sad doggirl tomboy gets dragged around by a yandere stereotype. Pretty good.
After the Curtain Call by ASSAM - uh this one is ok I guess, been a while, some TV/actress slop.
Always Human by walkingnorth/arielnorth - transhumanist lesbians, it's sort of about disability as a subtheme. Good stuff.
Blooming Sequence by Lee Eul - more film/TV/actress slop, been ages but thought it was okay.
Getting to Know Grace by Seo Rim/Mokma - ohhhh this dreary gothic elizabethian maid/lady romance kinda slaps. Love the art.
Ghosts of Greywoods by LetINK - weirdly the sams as above, also very good. I like LetINK's second series more but it is unfinished.
It Would Be Great If You Didn't Exist by Carbonara - this tanks in the last third but the art is cute and the leads have such an excellent love/hate.
Mojito by Fute - I forget most of this but thought it was decent. Solid art, I liked both leads.
Soulmate by Ke Ran Bing/Wenzhi Lizi - one of my favs, the time travel and chronic illness shit, it just hits. Love it.
here is some shit that's unfinished but I like
Aerial Magic by walkingnorth - nooooo why ;_;
Hella Good by Chiipi - this never updates but I like it okay.
Love, Lila by YREZU - I want these two to kiss but it NEVER updates last I checked.
Re-Blooming by LetINK - NOOOOOO WHYYYYYYYYY LETINK HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME REEEEEEEEEEE 
MY FUCKING BELOVED WHYYYYYY
What Are The Chances by Chantsky - haha look it's an age gap, sure hope that's not a trend wow, that wouldn't be cute. Chantsky is in college or something so it never updates.
How Do We Relationship by Tamifull - I have been meaning to reread this, the one yuri manga I have liked.
Idiot question but how do you nerds read pronoun priority here? I always assume the first one is the primary, though I sometimes swap back and forth between them. I have long discussed bear website goings-on with my wife enough that this is worth considering tbh.
sadposting
Feeling bad leaving not supporting a trans communist friend who’s going through a rough time at the moment because I don’t have any spoons. Feel really useless, ugh. 
Continuing from the other thread
So speaking of saying something then worrying about it @ashinadash@hexbear.net when I said “To be honest I don’t care enough to read through the struggle session again to see what you said” I’m worried it sounded like I was saying I didn’t care about how you were feeling instead of saying that I didn’t care about the struggle session which would’ve been kinda rude 
so sorry about that
I had some valerian root tea and an edible. I'm hoping it kicks in soon as I wanna go to bed early tonight. And by early I mean by 1:30ish instead of like 3 or later like I've been doing the last few nights
I was standing in the shaving aisle with wifey, we were mulling over which razors to buy, what was on sale and such. We were gonna get the four pack of 4 blades, but she wanted to save with the 3 blades ($1 less) at which point I turned to her and said "Anything more than three blades is for rich people." and she grinned a lil.
Chat, I have never felt more complete in my life, the elation I felt is indescribable. Me, making Orange Book injokes with my wife. This is what victory feels like.
So many fucking libs showing there asses for the the vapid empty souls completely sidling Gaza and accusing lefty people of “muh division” “can’t get things done like that” Im going to scream