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dysphoria, boy mode, depression
Daily body aches and pains are especially bad today and have been pretty horrible all week.
Financial stress hit me hard this morning. Boy mode/manager part is trying to do it's thing.
Two days until clinic appointment. Feeling anxious. Hopeful.
And overwhelmed generally.
Hiding in bed because I'm afraid I'll be cranky with my very sweet girlfriend. Eating edibles and melatonin and prescription adrenaline blockers I take for nightmares.
Listening to the trainspotting playlist on InnerTune.
Neck is tight as fuck. Self harming thoughts not too bad. No SI. Occasional urges towards self harm but they seem pretty controlled by the medication.
Right now giving myself permission to just ride out these last few days in a depressive little bubble. I did some chores this morning and tried to take care of things. I feel good about that.
Napped after, slept bad and woke up in more pain than when I went to sleep. It is starting to feel like a pattern and I feel really sad and not very much hope for my body to ever stop hurting me all the time.
maybe sad
The ups and downs are hard. I need to remember this when I'm doubting myself though.
I want hrt so badly. Thank you all again for being with me, especially in the past.
I'm getting eepy, so good night everyone! Wherever you are, whenever you are, get a good night's rest tonight, because good sleep is important and you all deserves it.
Okay trying to limit myself to just one to avoid flooding the mega when you unspoiler the text, but did some dress gazing during lunch and I must dresspost
::: spoiler Dressposting So this is one that I love but definitely wouldn't buy for myself since I don't think it suits me, Infanta's Deep Sea Mermaid JSK, specifically version 2 since the original lacks the bit I want to gush about
So this is the dress! I adore how they created the 'scales' for it to imply the mermaid tail rather than just go for nautical theming like every other mermaid dress tends to (including the first version of this one, hence my preference for this version). The scales add such a nice depth to the dress and I love them so much.
That's not to say there isn't other nautical theming to it, the bust is obviously a shell motif and I like how that calls to mind the stereotypical mermaid shell-bra motif without bringing attention to the cleavage and risk sexualising it. Instead you get the larger single shell and some pearls to bring in even more nautical aesthetics.
The roses might be a bit of a departure from that aesthetic, but they provide a good colour complement to the dark blue and the roses on the bow look like they're trying to vaguely be shaped like a fish? Idk might just be me looking into it too much.
God and the blouse! I almost want to buy this blouse on its own it's so pretty. I don't really have much to say about it I just really like it.
Overall the dress is just a very cute take on a mermaid dress that looks good from every angle, I like it.
i think im off to read wlw fanfics in my bed before falling asleep, goodnight everyone. 
more dumb navel gazing
I have always aspired to have the type of gravelly femme voice you associate with dykes who are mechanics and smoke, but it occurs to me suddenly, maybe I am already there. Maybe that's just what my vocal tone sounds like, what people actually see and perceive now. Am I truly the scary dyke I always wanted to be, right this minute?????
It also occurs to me that a friendly New Zealand dyke one described my voice as "smoky", which was cool, she did not know I was trans or anything so like maybe!
(My vibe is so dorky and harmless I doubt I'd scare anyone but y'know) (I do not think about how I am perceived that much due to my monstrous autism)
Finally free~ gonna go lay in bed now. I need to make sure I don't work so hard at job 1 on days when I have both from now on, especially when I hardly slept last night.
GETTING MY WIFE TO READ NEVADA
(she is right next to me in bed reading it rn!!!!!!)
@ashinadash@hexbear.net So itβs been a while since Iβve finished a book (yay adult ADHD) but funny enough I actually know about Manhunt and other modern trans classics from this one booktuber I watch sometimes. I thought you might be interested in her content: she goes by Willow Talks Books on youtube.
I have a question for the trans mascs in the thread. What kinds of things do you like to do for gender euphoria? I have lived my life up until now as a man and I have very few ideas of things a trans guy/masc would want to do. Just wondering, nothing serious.
Late Night Nevada Posting:
But still, Maria is like, I'm supposed to have some kind of insight? Here is my insight: gender is stupid and annoying and I don't want to talk about it any more ever.
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Kate Bornstein was right when she said none of this gender stuff is real, but she didn't go far enough. All of this gender stuff is stupid and it's so complicated that it's impossible to make sense of.
she jus like me fr fr
What does it take to be comfortable around people while in a crop top? Itβs crazy to me that people can like just wear sports bras. I donβt mind how my belly looks, but I donβt want other people looking at it. Augh.
Had a house viewing and it looks nice? But I wasn't out to the landlord family who live upstairs so I'll have to come out if I rent the place. Strongly considering it though.
beat sekiro for the fourth time. sequel when
I wish I could just skip to the part of playing the keyboard where I can do cool shit.
I also wish I could skip to the part of transition where I was happy (so it's a trans post)
