this post was submitted on 22 Jul 2024
107 points (99.1% liked)

traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

1097 readers
190 users here now

Welcome to /c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, an anti-capitalist meme community for transgender and gender diverse people.

  1. Please follow the Hexbear Code of Conduct

  2. Selfies are not permitted for the personal safety of users.

  3. No personal identifying information may be posted or commented.

  4. Stay on topic (trans/gender stuff).

  5. Bring a trans friend!

  6. Any image post that gets 200 upvotes with "banner" or "rule 6" in the title becomes the new banner.

  7. Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.

  8. When made outside of NSFW tagged posts, comments about dysphoria/traumatic/transphobic material should be spoiler tagged.

  9. Arguing in favor of transmedicalism is unacceptable. This is an inclusive and intersectional community.

  10. While this is mostly a meme community, we allow most trans related posts as we grow the trans community on the fediverse.

If you need your neopronouns added to the list, please contact the site admins.

Remember to report rulebreaking posts, don't assume someone else has already done it!

Matrix Group Chat:

Suggested Matrix Client: Cinny

https://rentry.co/tracha (Includes rules and invite link)

WEBRINGS:

๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ Transmasculine Pride Ring ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ

โฌ…๏ธ Left ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Be Crime Do Gay Webring ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ Right โžก๏ธ

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
 

bridget-vibe WE BEAT THE NEWS MEGA bridget-vibe

As a reminder, be sure to properly give content warnings and put sensitive subjects behind proper spoiler tags. It's for the mental health of not just your comrades, but yourself as well.

Here is a screenshot of where to find the spoiler button.

(page 17) 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[โ€“] Zrc@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago (11 children)

how do I do subcutaneous injections in my belly without the needle going all over the place when I breathe? is there like a trick? this shit hurts

load more comments (11 replies)
[โ€“] khizuo@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I got my copy of The Left Hand of Darkness back and I'm going to try to finish it this time.

load more comments (1 replies)
[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Does it matter what mascara I get, or can I just get anything from the convenience store?

load more comments (2 replies)
[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 5 months ago (12 children)

Armored Core gave me the 'tism... Well not really, I've been suspecting it for about a year now, but between how obsessed I've gotten with Armored Core and some of the posts here in the last thread that helped me think it through I am realising that I am probably way more autistic than I thought I was. Like jesus christ I started spreadsheet optimising this damn series less than a week after I got into it. I am the densest motherfucker alive yet again.

load more comments (12 replies)
[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (11 children)

cw weird sex related questionDoes anybody have any trans inclusive/focused zines, books, whatever about sex? I'm thinkin like Fucking Trans Women but even cooler and funnier idk. I have not found a lot on this outside of like, old tumblr.

Transfemme preferred I guess but tbh I'm game to read whatever, if there is a transmasc equivalent to FTW I would devour that too just for fun.

load more comments (11 replies)
[โ€“] khizuo@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (5 children)

I'm going to make a gender playlist and fill it with weird post-punk cat-vibing

load more comments (5 replies)
[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago

Can I please make it another 5 hours without having to make another decision on the unit always scared it's gonna be the wrong one

Just 5 boring hours, please, if you wouldn't mind

[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago

I feel like this piano book wanted me to start reading it closer to the holidays.
First it taught me Silent Night and now Auld Lang Syne

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

looking forward to my progesterone turning up, but if the results are particularly obvious that might be my days of plausibly boymoding over lmao

load more comments (1 replies)
[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (11 children)

Nevada-ing

People have called Nevada "ground zero for modern trans litera- ture," and while I get that-before it was published, I don't think I'd read a novel with a trans character (much less protagonist) who I didn't at least sort of hate- I don't really feel like a genius visionary who invented literature centering marginalized experiences. At the very least, this idea occludes the work other people had done that made Nevada possible. So rather than focus on my own brilliance, I want to use this afterword to name and appreciate a few of the things without which Nevada could not have happened.

HOLY FUCKING SHIT, CHAT, SHE IS REALLY GONNA DO IT.

Edit: this is utterly deranged, this afterword is written in almost exactly the same tone she writes Nevada in. That's not a stylistic flourish for her fiction, I guess she just actually talks like this? Fucking rad, I guess her blog posts were like this too actually.

MORE, ft. Shitty takes abt trans men

This, by the way, is context for some of the things that Maria says about trans guys that seem fucked up a decade and a half later.

Oh yeah, so she actually WAS just bitter and angry and shitty at trans men and she's running defense for it, because she lived with trans guys who did transmisogyny at the time. My initial read was bang-fucking on badeline-jokerfied

If I seem gleeful, it's not because I wanna beat up Binnie or whatever but rather because this Afterword is finally confirming a bunch of weird shit I had assumed about Nevada, or had to gather vaguely in discussions like the ones we have here. I was right I knew it!!! All along!!!!!!!!

I guess at least she's owning up to it? But lol. I wonder if this book is responsible for any Tumblr flame wars, it has to be.

Also seeing Binnie say "nonbinary" is a break in the timestream. That's not fucking "genderqueer", what the fuck! You exist outside of 2008???

The reference to This Bridge Called My Back is surprising and pleasant, you kinda wonder how Nevada still ends up doing what is basically the "white-people-anti-racist-work" equivalent of Land Acknowledgement. Like, Otros Valles by Jamie Berrout stands in really incredibly stark contrast to Nevada, they have to be a pair y'know.

I would have to read all of this stuff, Junot Dรญaz and Dennis Cooper and Joanna Russ probably to see where Nevada's signature lovable style came from, but also maybe that is just Imogen Binnie herself.

More of this to come.

load more comments (11 replies)
load more comments
view more: โ€น prev next โ€บ