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Toyosatomimi no Miko is a character in the Touhou Project series introduced in its 13th installment, Ten Desires.

Miko was once Prince Shoutoku, a Japanese leader in the 600s known for promoting Buddhism and streamlining the Japanese government. In the Touhou lore, she was visited by Taoist hermit Seiga Kaku, who had heard about Miko’s longing for immortality. Seiga introduced her to Taoism, but she rejected it as a religion unfit for placating an entire country. She was intrigued by its promise of immortality, however, and privately converted to it, advocating for Buddhism to keep Japan stable. After drinking an β€œimmortality elixir” (mercury sulfide), however, she was forced to let go of her body and become a supernatural hermit like Seiga, notably taking on the form of a woman, making her a canonically trans character (lets-fucking-go).

After convincing a hermit from a rival clan (Mononobe no Futo) to sleep without decaying, Miko followed in suit, waiting for a time where a Taoist Japan would revive her in search of guidance. However, Buddhist monks were able to keep her mausoleum sealed, and the legends surrounding her were slowly brushed off- which led to her transportation into Gensokyo, where the folklore of old is a reality of everyday life.

When she awoke in Gensokyo, it was right after Buddhist monk Byakuren Hijiri opened her own temple, however, leading to a surge of divine spirits across the realm, setting up the events of Ten Desires.

What look like headphones on her are canonically earmuffs- Shoutoku was allegedly able to discern between ten questions asked at once, an ability carried by Miko (although with her enhanced abilities, she can also analyze each person and determine their inner desires (thus the title of the game))- although it means her hearing is highly sensitive and has to be muffled to prevent pain.


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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Unbothered. Moisturised. Happy. In my lane. Focused. Flourishing.

(Gorging myself on untold quantities of quality gay slop feral-hog )

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[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 16 points 11 months ago (4 children)

chat, i cut my own hair, i took off a LOT more than i thought i was going to, but it looks super cute now!!!!!! i think that this is the first time i've liked my hair in its naturally curly state and not tied back. i still have no idea what to do with the fringe though.

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

egghead I am swiftly moving toward a solution which pleases nobody!

[–] goaway420@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Figuring stuff out

spoiler

So this is me, I do not want to ever lose my hair, I've had it long for a long time and I enjoy how feminine it makes me feel me even if I otherwise look and feel anything but. I just wanna be pretty but I'm so scared but also kinda numb? Even though I think most of the people in my life would be accepting. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it so advice or nice emojis are welcome


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[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I wanted to go to a local queer meetup today, but my social anxiety and low self esteem stopped me. Idk how I'm ever gonna make new friends madeline-sadeline

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (11 children)

About 3 weeks after my second laser session, and my beard definitely isn't growing in the same way. There are some empty patches.

Idk, kinda scary, ngl folks :/

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Socializing, loud noise, and bars delenda est. Istg i will never leave my room again.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I guess i really am just disposable kitty-cri-texas

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 11 months ago (6 children)

It's time to take the nail polish off :cri: it was a good vibe, but now we gotta be a girl with plain nails.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (8 children)

ah fine, fuck it. if weight can't cycle down, then it's time to cycle it up. I can feel my tits crying out for something to build with and my ass could use more padding so fuck it. Had a big fuckin milkshake for lunch about it

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

imagine how different the world would be if people had likened elon musk to sheldon cooper instead of iron man

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (6 children)

A major pet peeve I have in fiction is when super smart characters can just predict the future in detail, especially when it relies on correctly guessing complete stranger's irrational choices. Like, that's just not how human intellect works?

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 11 months ago (2 children)

"why do you want to join us? please say in your own words."

i'm applying to wash dishes, fuck off with this shit

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I look so fucking good today. I'm really proud of my make-up β€” I tried a new-wave-ish style of dramatic eye makeup using red eyeshadow. I'm also wearing an outfit that I've had planned out in my head for the past week β€” it's a frilly white shirt with bright red pants. First day of classes and I'm a bit nervous but also excited!

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thinking about shaving my arms. I wonder if they'd be smooth 🫒

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 16 points 11 months ago (2 children)

The problem with buying clothes is it makes you want to buy even more clothes ohnoes

At least I have som cute jeans on the way, praying they fit well

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I'm glad we started getting little paragraphs for the trans mega text like the other megas get. I like when people share their passions. never really gotten into Touhou but, WIIHAPPYFEW, thank you for that little character bio :)

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Something has shifted today. I’m going to make it.

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I have achieved an hourglass figure without hormones.

spoilerTo be fair I have an bmi of like 15, but you gotta look at the good side of things.

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 year ago (4 children)

My friend is going to help me call the student health center to set up an HRT appointment tomorrow. It's setting in that it's finally happening, I'm finally doing this. I can't help but wonder if the 4 year wait that's led up to this was made this lengthy because I was dealing with so much dissociation that I didn't realize was dissociation. I think I'm learning to reinhabit my brain.

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[–] dismal@hexbear.net 16 points 11 months ago (3 children)

I’ve resorted to presenting feminine again and I’m not really a fan of it but at the same time what else can I do I’ve been off testosterone for a minute and my fat has started to redistribute itself again Need to get back on it real soon

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Does anyone still play palworld? I remember hearing about it a lot for like 2 weeks in february, and then nothing at all since then.

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

me moping about the difficulties of coming out to family, so CW for that if you're not in the right headspace I guessThe more I think about how I'm going to come out to my parents, the more I'm sure I really am trans, but the less I think I'll be able to do it sadness

They're US republicans, so they've been drinking the kool aid about "woke gender marxists", so I don't think coming out and saying I'm going to start dressing like a girl and acting more feminine just because I "feel like it" is going to work, even if I assure them that I'm not considering anything medical yet, and probably won't for several months at least (I want to get to a point where I've socially transitioned and am happy with it first)

So instead I thought about approaching it by explaining gender dysphoria, and gender roles, and performance and all that, but I feel like I would just be infodumping and they wouldn't pick up on it quickly enough to understand. How do you get anyone who hasn't experienced gender dysphoria to understand it anyways?

I know them well enough to know that at best, they'll probably just brush it off in the passive aggressive way they do when I make a decision that doesn't align with what they want for me. They've done it for less serious things. "Well you're an adult now, it's time you learned from your own mistakes". But if they don't receive it well, I don't know how they're going to react to it in the long run, which worries me.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (17 children)

>post about fruity lil twine game

>realise Famous Gayhaven Enjoyer is fr touching grass.

> desolate

NO COME BACK PLEASE asagiri who else will I be annoying at?!

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (4 children)

tfw most of my friends are +5 or 6 hours ahead of me. I wish it was easier and took less time to move countries

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (40 children)

Omg the gay tension in this gayme is so, uh, gay hyperflush

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (5 children)

good news! I was approved for the time off I requested at work. worried about nothing as usual comfy

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Walking around the campus reading theory in my elaborate outfits to advertise the fact that not all MLs are cis men with no style.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

I really cannot believe that like, a guy made up binary genders a thousand or a few thousand years ago, and that shit's still around

leslie-feinberg

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

intentionally gaining weight after starting E and feeling your ass get thiccer in real time. There's no better feeling on earth

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think the fact that I cannot play both Knight of Lodis and Gayhaven Chronicles at the same time is transphobia kel-sad

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'm not MtF I'm MtGG (male to goofy goober)

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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago

Just found out an appointment I thought was tomorrow is actually next saturday bocchi-party

gn transgenders! imma try to break the stereotype and get good eepy

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