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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").  Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

an NSFW joke a tad too far, tbhhow can i ever even earnestly call myself a trans girl? i've never fucked a pumpkin before

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago (5 children)

i am in sight of 99 agility in runescape madeline-stare

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 5 points 22 hours ago

if you liked the ps2 tenkaichi games then you'll dig it, definitely brings me back to being a kid and playing those games with my brother

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

you know how like sometimes you know a thing is true, but you're kinda annoyed it's true and would rather it wasn't? I feel this about giraffes and horses. like ok you look at a giraffe and you're like oh, it's a tall horse, I get what's going on here, it's related to horses. but no! horses are odd toed ungulates and giraffes are even toed ungulates, and their last common ancestor was like 60 million years ago in the early eocene!!

and like I know this, it is a factual truth, but I don't want it to be! my brain sees a giraffe and is like na mate, that's a big horse. the bastards are more closly related to fucking dolphins than they are horses!

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

somehow the inconsequentual nature about the taxonomy of giraffes is something that my brain doesn't like. which is weird as like the fact that birds are dinosaurs is a thing I never shut up about, as with other odd species relationships, like cetaceans (whales and dolpins) are ungulates and evolved from a deer looking thing, I like this sort of thing in taxonomy

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 17 points 1 day ago (2 children)

two weeks later, I finally did my fr*ckin injection

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

Just like in the famous novel doggirl-smart hopefully your next one is more regular.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Oh boy, a lot more people are pissed off by the contract offer than I thought there was. We're probably gonna strike

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Negotiating committee wants us to accept it but uh... members are pissed

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Negotiating committee wants us to accept it

Ugh. Hate this

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago

They're at least all front line nurses, not just union leadership

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Finally found panties that can contain my giblets kel-bliss

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

cw: angry (but important) dysphoria rant thing, kink (but not kink actually) talk, transphobiaplease dont call therian identity "a kink" like seriously wtf,,,,, das not okay

please actually educate yourself on stuff and dont decide what is a kink for someone else (das pretty weird)

just because you think something is a kink doesnt mean it is to everyone, and that honestly sounds a lot like transphobic rhetoric "oh its just a kink" like no

going to maul the next person who calls it a kink *grrrrrrrr*

(this is not to say it or at least stuff adjacent to it cant be a kink, or that you cant be therian and have a petplay kink of somekind, but that you shouldnt just assume)

edit: also this mightve been a slight overreaction to a comment we misinterpreted but we are gonna keep it up anyway because we wanted to say this and its important!!!

edit2: also dont call therian identity just being a furry either, also not the same thing, at all

[–] Zvyozdochka@hexbear.net 17 points 1 day ago (9 children)

cw: dysphoria, ventIt feels wrong calling myself a woman when my voice and body are the way they are, like, it feels like I don't deserve to call myself that when I haven't really done anything doggirl-tears I know this is all just brainworms and I don't owe anyone anything to be able to call myself a woman, but it still crosses my mind frequently and it bothers me a lot. Hopefully I can get out of this living situation and get to a point to where I feel comfortable transitioning, but it's really looking like I'm going to be locked into this for another couple of years at least. trans-sad

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 19 points 1 day ago (2 children)

shout out to trans therapists

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago

Need more of those

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago (3 children)

my wife has never seen shrek and I still can't get over it. no, she does not want to watch it

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Shrek is a monster ergo Shrek is a Halloween movie ergo we can force her to watch it for Halloween. doggirl-smart

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago

you want to watch shrek for the movie night? I can add it to the list

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Trying to mass download the puppygirl line emotes but every website I try just gives me the default emotes

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 19 points 1 day ago (6 children)

I went out yesterday in the most fem stuff I've ever worn out. Went to the park with my wife after dark. Was wearing a n95. For the first time, I wondered if I was actually passing.

I was holding hands with my wife, and another couple walked by, and for the first time ever, my first though was not, "what if they know I'm a guy?" Instead, it was "what if they think we're gay?"

I told my wife, and she said, "oh, I had the same thought, except I was hoping they thought we were gay!"

meow-hug

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

Unironically.

It's a big step for me! It was the first time my brain ever defaulted to woman!

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Me in 2022, an egg listening to the Town Inside Me:

"Yeah, this is okay. Kind of weird and disjointed"

Me in 2024, transitioning:

"This is the most important song I've ever heard in my life"

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 6 points 1 day ago

I wasn't even an egg back then and somehow I don't really recognize the lyrics. I'm almost certain I'd have checked it out back then.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

Today in Too Late, Who Gives A Shit news:

Cuckoo by Gretchen Felker-Martin fucking rules, not surprising. I'm diggint this pattern of authors coming back with second novels that rule, May Leitz, uhhhh Lily Seabrooke Idk.

Like, Imogen Binnie did not write another novel, (yet) Torrey Peters has not written another novel, Hazel Jane Plante did and it wasn't good, rip. Maybe the new Alison Rumfitt is good, at this rate!

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife wife

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Oh, you're so bad. This is why I didn't tag you! meow-cactus

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