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Final Fantasy XI

Final Fantasy XI is the eleventh numbered installment in the… Okay, you know what it is, I’m just going to tell you about one of the storylines!

During the Wings of the Goddess expansion, adventurers will be sent back in time to experience the events of the Crystal War, a cataclysmic event that is the foundation for conflicts of the modern-day timeline. Should an adventurer choose to serve the Kingdom of San d’Oria, they will be immersed in the story of the Young Griffons—a group of children who would see themselves knights, many of whom grow into prominent characters later in life.

Among the Young Griffons, the player will find Bistillot, a shy boy who doesn’t like to be seen. With his penchant for engineering, shy demeanor, and lack of combat potential, Bistillot prefers to spend his time inside of an orcish war machine that he was able to repair to working condition.

He is often seen before he is heard, with his signature phrase, “HAAAALLOOOOOOOOO” being used to hail the adventurer. Through the course of the story, Bistillot finds his way, even contributing to the war effort with his engineering skills.

However, when another member of the Young Griffons is kidnapped and taken to the present day, the adventurer must return to the present day and reunite with the Young Griffons’ present selves! The adventurer’s first contact in the present day is Bistillot. When the adventurer hears the signature “HAAAALLOOOOOOO,” Bistillot approaches the player, but what the player sees is… a woman?? She introduces herself as Bostilette, a “friend of Bistillot.”

After the rescue mission, Bostilette comes clean. She is, of course, the very same Bistillot who was a little boy twenty years earlier. She explains that she was very sick as a baby, so her parents gave her a boy’s name so that she would be stronger and survive the illness. Once she overcame the illness, she was comfortable to reclaim her name and gender. Well, that closes the book on that story, except… I’ve decided that’s bullshit!

I have unilaterally decided that Bostilette is trans, the sickness she had was dysphoria, she stayed in the orcish war machine because she was an egg, and I hope you all agree!

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[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 13 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Finally told parents I changed hormones today after one of my moms asked if I was wearing a bra today. Only questions were how long I've been doing it and where I was getting it (as in prescribed or DIY) then conversation topic was changed.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (11 children)

today is a certified "crawl under the weighted blanket and cry about girls" type of day

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

Whipping Girl quote:

Let's face it: if cissexuals didn't have a subconscious sex, then sex reassignment would be far more common than it is. Women who wanted to succeed in the male-dominated business world would simply transition to male. Lesbians and gay men who were ashamed of their queerness would simply transition to the other sex. Gender studies grad students would transition for a few years to gather data for their theses.

nia-you-what Julia, you must know better than this, I'm sure of it. It's not like subconscious sex is the only thing standing in the way of this... the example of "succeed in the male-dominated business world" bears that out pretty clearly. They're not just unfathomable because on a profound, subconscious level, sex... This is so weird, is she going to go into Gender Accelerationist theory about gender fascism and shit or do I have to fill that part in myself?

Also some of those examples are like, step away from the fucking lathe, miss.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

By contrast this quote fucking slaps:

Perhaps the most important conceptual change that has facilitated the gradual acceptance of LGB folks over the last twenty-five years is that straight people are no longer able to take their attraction to the other sex completely for granted, to assume that it is the one "natural" form of sexuality. They now recognize that, like queer people, they have a sexual orientation too-they are heterosexual. Similarly, I do not believe that trans people will be fully accepted in this society until cissexual people recognize that they also have a subconscious sex and that, if they are not battling a constant barrage of subconscious thoughts about being the other sex, then their subconscious sex most likely matches their physical one.

This makes me pause and think about all the shrieking cis people do about the label cisgender, or even spicier cissexual. That's right cissies, it's a SEXUAL THING! Does this mean I should be going even harder and bullying every cissie who rejects it? Probably...

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[–] starkillerfish@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (12 children)

I've been seeing TMA and TME in bios on tumblr lately, and Jules Gill-Peterson talk about it a little. I know what they mean broadly, but was wondering what's the story behind them? What's the reasoning behind using them? Kinda afraid to ask, but online searches haven't been very helpful.

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

I have multiple mid granolas in my cupboard. I just discovered the one good one says it has fucking dairy derivatives in it. Should’a taken note of the “protein” label. angery

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Love when all dopamine, energy, social battery, and sensory tolerance has been used up and my only option seems to be staying on my phone. With one last ounce of discipline I will attempt to say good night and log off. Gn!

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

why do we bother

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

[venting, advice wanted] For the last two months, I been putting up an old friend from a punk house since I moved into my house and couldn't leave out my lease. This friend has a lot of energy and motivation issues, and generally needs a lot of support. Beyond putting him up, I helped him leave out the punk house we used to live in that was getting evicted, got him a storage unit, and have helped out with about an errand a week. I was the first person he saw when he woke up from top surgery. I thought we were tight.

I asked him if he would help me clean out the apartment since I had been putting him up and he basically shrugged me off. On top of that, now he's trying to change the timeline for getting out, but I need to do it this weekend when I am off work otherwise it will never get done. He knows this and we discussed it weeks ago.

Thankfully, some friends have agreed to put him up for a week as an 'off ramp' but it still feels like I am evicting him sort of.

I feel shitty because he don't have a real place to go in the city. At the same time, I have done as much as I can with the energy and time I have available. It also feels shitty that we would probably be better friends right now if I had just left him on the street.

Some help sensemaking is appreciated right now.

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

CW: Dysphoria, mental health, questions about medicationAfter spending the last couple of days in a depressive/dysphoric hole, I have decided to go ahead and try SSRIs, and to get an HRT consult scheduled sooner rather than later. Obviously, dysphoria and depression are two different things, but I wanted to know if there were any issues with beginning the two around the same time, and if it'd be better to start one before the other.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (5 children)

spoilerWake up, immediately dysphoric, scared, crying.

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

New mega thread!

Up with trans

Down with cis

Everyone have a great day

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Holy shit there was a group of people in American revolutionary uniforms banging on a drum while waving Trump flags next to a commuter route.

I retract my statement about liberals being just as passionate/energetic as conservatives, this takes the cake. These people also set up a giant (largest I've ever seen) sign at the end of the road accusing democrats of stealing freedom. I was shocked at first, but by the time I was turning off of the road I was laughing my ass off.

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

✈️ weee

feel like I mess up a lot and could stand to be nicer to myself. things I suppose I'll think about while I'm stuck in the air for a while

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Doing my best Elvira, Mistress of The Dark for a Halloween party tonight and look so fucking hot. sicko-power

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Saw a really cute hockey player crush

thirsty shitpost(To the tune of St. Vincent's "Sugarboy")

🎶 Hockey twinkkkkk 🎶

🎶Tickled pink🎶

🎶Give me two minutes of roughing🎶

🎶Outside the rink🎶

🎶 Hockey twinkkkkk 🎶

🎶You artic fox🎶

🎶High stick me please🎶

🎶Get in my box🎶

🏒panting

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (12 children)

Apparently altered time perception is a symptom of dissociation. I can still feel my senses for the most part, but I’m definitely dissociating. Wonder when the last time I wasn’t was.

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (6 children)
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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

light dysphoriaI look great in the mirror and in selfies, but for some reason pictures other people take of me always seem to make me dysphoric. I suppose it’s better than the alternative, but am I less attractive to everyone else than myself?

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[–] Wake@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Finally got an invite to the local trans discord group. Buuuuuut the discord isn't accepting new members and now the link is expired. doggirl-gloom

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Now that I have 2 names, I find genuine enjoyment in having them chat with each other in my head, like a simulation.

What if everything is just a simulation and we're in the matrix or something?

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

waking up with no power, and then discovering the fucking fuse for the oven is the thing tripping the breaker. I had to test so many god damn things to narrow that down meow-tableflip

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

There is so little going on in gender (for me) kitty-cri-potato Kinda feels like I'm never going to actually make the jump to doing gender irl.

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

If my mind controlled my actions I would be unstoppable.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I have been practicing/learning the minecraft 1.16.1 speedrun recently. I've mostly been practicing my bastions, but I also did a bit of one cycling practice today.
(video might take time to load, I wasn't sure where else I could upload)

First success, only five beds too! Still a bit off from doing full game runs, but I was pretty happy with this.

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

What is the difference between the 5 stripe and the seven stripe lesbian flags?

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I just got Fallout NV for a pc for the first time

lea-finger-guns

What are some mods I should get?

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