should i post to neurodiverse after I'm assessed for autism or before?
my birthday is wednesday
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should i post to neurodiverse after I'm assessed for autism or before?
my birthday is wednesday
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___Wish I could start testosterone. Wrote a corny poem and threw it away
there's almost 800 fanfics concerning the new Dragon Age, there's just one issue. It's all het shit 52 are femslash this is outrageous
i think the last of the storm passed late last night. we seem to have escaped relatively unscathed considering everything. but unfortunately today is the day i must dig my car out of the mud and go find out if it's still possible to drive to town.
CW: Transphobia, federal IDs, Trump
I've seen some people suggest getting their passport updated to correct gender markers, since that's something that's relatively easy to do right now and is likely to become much more difficult or impossible with the new Trump administration. However, that gender marker change is something that could easily be reverted by executive fiat, and could be used as a pretense to revoke said passport. On the other hand, trying to make those changes unilaterally would be challenged in the courts, and it could definitely be delayed/stayed.
So the question is, are the benefits of getting these gender markers changed worth any of the risks. As a note, I plan to move to a state that would allow self ID for state-level identification markers, and my birth certificate is from a deep red state so I won't be able to get that amended anytime soon.
I’ve been listening to “how to dress as human” again and it’s funny how even way before egg cracking it was one of my favorite songs because “it so easily conveys a feeling you’ve never experienced before”
Been playing shadow generations
venting name struggles
I don't know what to do anymore. I have a name I go by, and it's not bad, but it's extremely similar to my dead name (one letter off). So, I tried to brainstorm many different names, see if I liked any of them. What usually happens is, I find a few a like, and I pick one of them that I think suits me. It reaches a point where it no longer suits me, so I pick a different name, and the cycle continues. I guess I should ask all of you how you got your names, but I have a feeling I already know how, and that just hasn't happened with me...
I seem to be figuring most things out, and I'm glad I'm starting to feel better than I have in a long time. The name seems like such a minor thing, really, but my parents do have a point about having to choose something at some point
I just called my GP for bloodwork for my DIY HRT, and they actually want to look if they can give it to me! Now I have to wait until they send me a mail in which an approval for bloodwork will be given or not.
Finally found the time to do some of the thrifting I wanted to do. I got some women's jeans to try on (hopefully they fit. If not, I'll at least know how to size up/down) as well as some jewelry.
In an not particularly gender related note, also picked up a print copy of the Borealis Connection campaign for The Fall of Delta Green trpg. Not sure if I would want to run it with the FoDG Gumshoe system (which is fiddly but neat) or with the regular d100 Delta Green system, but this sort of late 60s conspiracy thriller is something that I've wanted to run for a while.
Anyone have experience with getting a passport? I changed my name many many years ago and don't know if my parents still have the court order, but I haven't changed my birth certificate because I didn't think it would be relevant. All my documents are in my legal name except for the birth certificate.
I've tried looking up my case online but wasn't sure what court it was in (somewhere in WA) or what year.
My state allows amending my birth certificate but it's a several month long wait and my family wants me to get this all done before anyone has a chance to fuck up the process.
genitals
i woke up with an erection, i don't think that has ever happened to me on e before. Could my t levels have gone up? Should I get a blood test taken? Last time I checked it was good, but that was 4-ish months ago.
A capybara's top speed is 20 mph, please remember this fact it could save your life.
why does fast food make me so sleepy? decided to have a treat and grabbed a burger for lunch and instantly fell asleep and had a 3 hour nap afterwards
Every time I give a video essay in my youtube feed a chance it always sucks ass. I clicked one about how modern mass media suck wich had 600k views and it's making literal cinema sins tier "critiques" about continuity errors. who tf cares?
I think the guy who explains dostoevsky and tolstoy on unsolicited advice is attractive and it's fucking annoying to me. Quit it.
misgendering
There is conistantly Mormons on my way home from work that call me a guy when trying to give me a bible
homestuck (spoilers)
well i finally made it to page 2495 and here i am reading about troll romance for a fourth time, lol
Getting older is finding lumps where there were no lumps before.
I wanted to be a smooth trans, not a lumpy trans -_-