Back on the dating market now that my ex left me, she gave me an ultimatum that either the hawk tuah merch goes or she does.
this post was submitted on 13 Jan 2025
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you'll have the last laugh when your millions of hawk tuah coins go to the moon ๐
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How many millions did you lose on the Hawk Tuah Coin, fellow Patriot?
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::: spoiler im overwhelmed
My friend has been so fucking weird with me and needing constant unending intense emotional support around her life and specifically around her jealousy of myself and one of our friends fucking. I keep trying to tell her that i cant be a suppirt person in this for her, but nothing changes, and i keep having the same conversation over and over and its fucking exhausting and i just want it to end. The convo isnt productive, and its sole purpose is for her to get reassurance that we wont fuck when im clear and adamant that that us stopping wont happen, because us fucking is none of her business. We all live together and she wants me to text her any time we are gonna fuck but also doesnt ever want to know about it and i keep telling her that its not appropriate or healthy for us to have that depth and style of communication and she agrees with me and then a couple days later asks for it again and we have the exact same convo all over again 
Anyway i keep asking for space and she doesnt give it to me and she gets upset and feels like im "leaving her" when i go to my room for distance and space. Im so done with this.
That's rough, I'm sorry
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Congrats on the fuckin' tho
Yeah, ive ended up enmeshed with someone im not even seeing and i hate it. And its all cause my parents trained me so well to not say no so i keep engaging.
::: spoiler sex
Thank you thank you ill be here until the sex stops rocking my world 
Oof, yea... 
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Again though, congrats on the world-rocking
ZA WARUDO
QUUERU SEXSU DA
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Does the house have zero soundproofing or something so she can hear everything? Because then I guess I understand why someone might get really uncomfortable, but otherwise that's extremely weird and not appropriate behaviour.
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Every once in a while, we get an adult patient off serviced to my unit (there are some caveats, nobody with complex hip repairs, nobody with stroke, nobody with complicated mental health needs, etc).
I have to give them an IV or a shot of some kind every once in a while, like SQ morphine or heparin or sometimes some grody IM shot. And, without fail, I will say "good job" or "good girl" or "good boy" ๐คฆโโ๏ธ after the shot/IV start is over. I try not to, I really do, some of em get a kick out of it, some are stoically silent and I apologize - I swear its just because I work mostly with kids and that's what I do after they're done the tough painful brave thing. I'm not trying to infantalize, I've taken to warning them now because even when I was trying my hardest not to I'd still slip up lol
as an adult who frequently goes to hospitals i thought its pretty normal for medical people to say good job after getting an injection or whatever, good boy/girl would make me laugh tho
talking about some medical stuff, nothing serious but I talk about some, uh, not as attentive nursing care
We found out the hospitalists like our unit for a couple reasons.
Apparently the patients get more care, which is kind of scary cause like I swear we just do the standard level. But we advocate the docs for med changes, we advocate for consults, we push the patients to be more independent and to be discharged and we're kind of a pain in the ass about it all (at least I thought). We had a patient who had potassium in 2 different ways that was started at her admission 10 days ago to treat hypokalemia, since then she had recovered - so we asked the doctor if they really needed both nevermind at all. But until us, for the last 5 days inpatient adult medicine had just been... giving her both despite the reversion of her potassium levels - luckily, your potassium has to get pretty high before you see bad effects and mostly people just pee excess out. But I shudder to think, like, what if it was a more serious med. I get adult medsurg is way busier than us, they end up with 4 patients (when they're lucky! It's usually more) with a lot of needs but this kind of thing is what we're paid for? Like, that's why we did a degree and had all those pathopharm classes. Nevermind how often they're left in dirty briefs and clothes, despite the fact that they get care aids for there floor and we don't. Like, cmon...
Anyway, the other reason the hospitalists like us is cause when they come up here they can chart for 4 hours and no one bugs em lol. Swear to god the nurses on other units thinks peds is haunted or something, no one ever comes by (including the time we had a code and had to page an ER doc to actually come when code blue wasn't enough on nights...)
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Hello dears I love you all so much. Thank you for helping me find my true self and for helping me learn how to live my life for me, fearlessly, happy at last. โค๏ธ
I'm still thinking about what I'm going to be doing shortly after I'm done the 2 year return to service agreement up here in my home town
Long term, I do want to get something called an NP (masters degree, nurse practitioner, you get to prescribe with doctors supervision, they end up taking on a lot of care on more remote and rural areas cause we just don't have enough family GPs so it's like an NP is in town and a GP helps remotely that one and a few others). I do want to get into family medicine - it's a specific stream: neonate, family, adults - and I was hoping to focus on trans healthcare in particular up here where there is literally none. The closest is a 5 hour drive and he's retiring in short order but holding on purely for his trans patients...
I think I'd need some mental health nursing practice hours for my long term interests. When we did mental health in nursing school, it was really hard - I ended up identifying a lot with the patients and I'd get pissed we didn't let them smoke when they wanted or let them roam a little more freely, I even yelled at the nursing staff about it lol. I'm not looking forward to inpatient mental health care but I don't know what else to do, I still have like 8 months to think about it and look anyway. Otherwise, I could just keep working with kids. Pediatrics emergency, pediatrics ICU, maybe public health (lots of vaccinations and well baby visits etc).
down with cis
down with cis
up with trans
up with trans
up with trans
up with trans
up with trans
up with trans
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