hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

oscardejarjayes* (3/31 - 4/6)
JohnBrownsBussy2  (4/7 - 4/13)
peanutbuttercupola (4/14 - 4/20 (weed))
Eco* (4/21 - 4/27)
EstraDoll* (4/28 - 5/4)
SadArtemis* (5/5 - 5/11)
yewler* (5/12 - 5/18)
AshenWolf* (5/19 - 5/25)

AshenWolf* (6/2 - 6/8)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

I've hit a transition milestone in coding as some kind of queer to most people. I'm getting side eye from cishets. I'm getting gay men flirting with me (and complimenting my fits) and cis women including me into gossip (I think probably in a "gay man" way, but nicer to be perceived as safer). Not the area I'd necessarily want to stay perceived and contradictory at times, but overall I'm enjoying it.

The election was called in Australia and as I was leaving somewhere there was a pair of very persistent Liberal party supporters (in Australia they're the Tories) were trying to convince everyone and anyone to take their leaflets, and one of them a blonde lady around my age, just sort of looked at me and withdrew the leaflet from my direction almost subconciously.

(I did have an random episode of some sort of phobioa, not sure trans or homo a few weeks ago that was jarring because you know things suck)

Finally hexbear and lemmygrad are federated again so I can post here again :D.

On another note, I met up with some trans friends who I hadn't seen in a half year for a drink, which was nice. I was the one who initiated it which I'm proud about since I mostly just wait to be invited. I'm stepping out of my comfort zone

I’ve been married for a week; when do I start to hate my wife?

(get a bunch of cool used games I've always wanted at a cool local used games store)

(play the same handful over and over)

did I cook with making this chart?

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Thinking about that time I was at a restaurant in a notoriously crunchy city in the US and the signs on the bathrooms were she/they and he/they. They were so close to something and made the funniest kind of bathroom.

Trying to figure out which plush to keep on my bed tonight. This is a serious decision.

So do my good boy points convert over to nb points or did I lose those

So long and thanks for all the lemons

who wants to help me come up with discussion questions about i saw the tv glow that tie the themes of the film into a conversation about socialism? lol jk ... unless?

::: spoiler sex, kink

I just had such a wonderful impact session, with so much sting. I finally got to try my other toys, which i bought to, uh, expand my boundaries. I tend to prefer thuddy, im very much a thuddy girl, and these floggers sting like no tomorrow, and tbh the sting is growing on me... it doesnt hurt that my domme really knows how to use them (and me)

If the next mega isn't a fruit mega I'm actually going to cry

am eeeepy

why are cis women told to put progesterone cream (and even gel, I think) on their breasts?

i'm really enjoying all these different lemon paintings. i was cross stitching this lemon pattern forever ago and while i never finished it (think i did a few lemons and a bunch of leaves in the top half so far) i find myself wanting to break it out again thanks to all this lemon inspiration