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Heya Everyone, new Mega time and for it, I'm gonna advertise a TTRPG system called Thirsty Sword Lesbians.

A sword duel can end in kissing, a witch can gain her power by helping others find love, and an entire campaign can be built around wandering matchmakers flying from system to system.

Thirsty Sword Lesbians is a roleplaying game for telling queer stories with friends. If you love angsty disaster lesbians with swords, you have come to the right place.

In this book, you’ll find:

Flirting, sword-fighting, and zingers in a system designed for both narrative drama and player safety.

An innovative take on the Powered by the Apocalypse family of games.

Nine character types, each focusing on a particular emotional conflict: Beast, Chosen, Devoted, Infamous, Nature Witch, Scoundrel, Seeker, Spooky Witch, and Trickster.

Guidance and support for running the game, including how to make appealing adversaries, set the tone, pace the game, and structure play.

Tools to create your own settings and stories, alongside a dozen pre-written options including the cyberpunk Neon City 2099, steamfunk poets battling oppression as Les Violettes Dangereuses, laser swords and intrigue in the Starcross Galaxy, and more.

World building worksheet for custom scenarios and starting scenario seeds to play with: Best Day of Their Lives, The Constellation Festival, Gal Paladins, and Sword Lesbians of the Three Houses Variant rules to highlight different identities, emotional connections, and setting elements.

Strategies to adapt any setting where swords cross and hearts race for Thirsty Sword Lesbians.

Here's a link to their website, I did copy everything over directly from it because I put off writing the Mega this week. I was drawing a blank on what I wanted to talk about. catgirl-huh

https://evilhat.com/product/thirsty-sword-lesbians/

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I’m gonna look at myself tomorrowtho I fear I won’t like what I’ll see and I will never want to leave the house again and I’ll feel like a fucking idiot thinking about all the times I went out in public in girlmode and want to do bad things

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (4 children)

naruto would be better if naruto was a woman and sasuke was a woman and. shikamaru was a woman and neji was a woman

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

naruto would be better if masashi kishimoto didn't hate women

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I will never be as pretty as Princess Peach

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

Waitress complimented my hair in a very sweet way and asked if it was my natural color doggirl-happy Very uplifting after the staring child incident

[–] buh@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Is it corny to get a shoulder bag with flowers the colors of the trans flag

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[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (3 children)
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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Was watching a tiktok where this one lady was explaining how bad hetro dating has been getting among the zoomers. Perverts/dehumanizing behavior etc I think it might have to do with all the sexism. Shit seems grim for straight women fr I do not envy them one bit

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (5 children)

They're breaking out choking in casual sex. It's crazy, not even asking just jump to choking.

When I've been out, I inevitably spot a couple of young people on what seems to be a first date - shes dressed up fancy, makeup, looks nice. He shows up in a trucker hat and pyjamas 😩

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[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Oh my god, she messaged me back!! She did just have a situation come up, lol.

Although I've really gotten a lot better at flirting and stuff like that recently, I remain a dumb anxious bitch lol

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

~~Political~~ girl power grows out of a barrel of a gun

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

Ugh, now I gotta find a roommate and/or a new place to live cause I got hired. What a pain in the ass

[–] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

sad venting

I'm working on this new bit where instead of sighing and saying I want to die, I sigh and say I dont want to feel like this

so thats something

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[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Lays chips fucking suck. Wy too fucking greasy for a chip, very bland flavor compared to all other brands

Any other brand of BBQ potato chip is better than lays

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Got done with a game night with friends and just feel... really bad? Like i had a good time, and they want me there, but i also feel so unwelcome, talked over, and like i just shouldnt be there. Like i have nothing to contribute, im just a set dressing.

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Looking into trans groups in my region is just like: "here's one gay bar** in distant city, idk that's all I got there really isn't much to do here".

Edit: I should clarify, everything I put in quotes is roughly what websites tend to say, I'm not just saying those are my thoughts.

Society is making me become the organizer, and I don't know for the life of me how to organize. I even caved (since I had already), and looked to see if there were any regional trans discords. Absolutely nothing. I am now convinced that trans people actually do not exist here, and that I am an enigma in the face of some sort of anti-trans weapon of mass psychological destruction.

Another edit: I hate discord with a burning passion, but I already had to create an account for something, so I checked.

**Best part is that I would absolutely hate a bar, and would choose not going even if it was my only option doggirl-lol doggirl-tears

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Oh damn I've heard of sword lesbians

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Love wearing cute nails, but I definitely underestimated how much harder anything that involves using myfingers would be doggirl-sweat Like opening a soda can or doing the buttons on my blouse is kind of tricky now, hope it gets better with practice

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[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (10 children)

hornyWell, not really. I wasn’t as lucky as EstraDoll, unfortunately. trans-sad

Shoving prog up my bum just left me with this warm, fuzzy feeling, which is nice, but not what I was hoping for. Seems like my libido will continue to be shy for a while and then suddenly come at me in full force out of nowhere. But it’s been over two weeks now and I’m kinda missing my hornyness.

Oh, well. Guess I just have to be more patient then. emilie-shrug

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[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

https://www.xiaohongshu.com/discovery/item/68066363000000001d01f81e?xsec_token=CBhXIyO33juN52Sfi_Ac21n97BbBjd3v_OFZfgbFZid2w%3D this cat is literally me. anxious.

unhealthy (?) coping mechanismsmsi dont want to transgender anymore, i want to transmogrify. become a cat and be pet by someone. just watching vids on xhs of cats and kittens, and occasionally lesbian slice of lifes (giwtwm one day) because that's a genre of video on there?

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

spoilerI dated a girl who was more or less a cat. She was very cute. We didn't break up because of the cat thing lol, I liked it. She purred in my ear when we cuddled the first time which freaked me out a little but I got used to it. We're still friends, she's still a cat. I pet her like I pet regular cats, on the cheeks or chin scritch, pat pat, that kind of thing.

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

Thinking about creating a witch coven but i don't believe in witches it just sounds cool

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Finally, a mega topic I can relate to catgirl-salute

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

under communism omegaverse where the man is the alpha and the woman is the omega will be made illegal

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Just ban all straight omegaverse

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] RION@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Speak on that for a little bit

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (4 children)

dysphoria + mentions of suicide conceptuallyI’d hoped if I looked in the mirror I would see a girl, but instead I saw a boygirl-thing.
I saw if Harry Potter was a boygirl-thing.

I kind of hate my lower face, I don’t think it’s anything too manish, but there is something off about it and my lips are weird and I don’t know how to rest them and I just feel like an awkward freak.

I don’t want to completely kill myself I guess…I feel like I could potentially look again. Maybe getting used to myself and learning more about make up and hair will fix things…idk.

I don’t know how to feel right now, I don’t know how confident I am to keep girlmoding or not.
I was expecting to either be blown away and happy or just want to cry and jump out a window…but instead I am just in this weird middle place and idk how to process it.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

We sentence you to a fate worse than death

You shall henceforth be a redditor, for eternity less a day.

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

Bought some press on nails today, can't wait to try them on tomorrow catgirl-heart i watched like 4 tutorial videos and it doesn't seem that hard, but i'll pick up some cuticle remover before I try putting them on

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I'm quite worn out, but hopeful I can lock in for my interview later. catgirl-peace

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I know I've been doing this for a year, and this is the question of one who's been doing this for a week, but what gender-affirming stuff can I do? I really need to get back to taking care of myself in some sort of way, and I don't have energy to do much, but I really need to try.

cw: dysphoria, anxiety, depressionI really need to get better, because I hurt. My anxiety was already a mess, and I was feeling particularly depressed, and my dysphoria has been worse and hasn't really gotten better (I feel like I'm backsliding in that regard, I look and feel disgusting). Now though, I see one thing, and I did have some body dysphoria I feel like, but it was the kind of thing where it wasn't a priority, and I felt like it would depend on that partners might want. Anyways, I see this thing, and it sets me off, and now it's really bad, and I can't get it to go away.

I have work to do this week and I'm struggling to get it done, this is all really so overwhelming. I really just want to lie in bed and sleep it all off, probably while wishing I had someone there with me because I've been feeling really lonely again. I was genuinely excited to make a mega post on my coming-out tranniversary, and how much I've done, and how much better things are now. I can probably still do that, it's just now I have the looming context of this. I really hope this goes away by then. I love how I'm thinking about a megathread post and not myself.

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[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

Bad brain is gone!!! elmofire

All hail normal level of anxiety brain! very-normal

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Makin' ramen, maybe itll help soup (idk wtf the emote is but its called soup and ramen is soup)

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Meant to do some shit last week but haven't had a good day so haven't done it. Not going to do it today either. Uh hopefully soon though. I'm sure any day now I'll be able to. Ignore the other shit that I haven't done in months. Any day now.

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