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Heya Everyone, new Mega time and for it, I'm gonna advertise a TTRPG system called Thirsty Sword Lesbians.

A sword duel can end in kissing, a witch can gain her power by helping others find love, and an entire campaign can be built around wandering matchmakers flying from system to system.

Thirsty Sword Lesbians is a roleplaying game for telling queer stories with friends. If you love angsty disaster lesbians with swords, you have come to the right place.

In this book, you’ll find:

Flirting, sword-fighting, and zingers in a system designed for both narrative drama and player safety.

An innovative take on the Powered by the Apocalypse family of games.

Nine character types, each focusing on a particular emotional conflict: Beast, Chosen, Devoted, Infamous, Nature Witch, Scoundrel, Seeker, Spooky Witch, and Trickster.

Guidance and support for running the game, including how to make appealing adversaries, set the tone, pace the game, and structure play.

Tools to create your own settings and stories, alongside a dozen pre-written options including the cyberpunk Neon City 2099, steamfunk poets battling oppression as Les Violettes Dangereuses, laser swords and intrigue in the Starcross Galaxy, and more.

World building worksheet for custom scenarios and starting scenario seeds to play with: Best Day of Their Lives, The Constellation Festival, Gal Paladins, and Sword Lesbians of the Three Houses Variant rules to highlight different identities, emotional connections, and setting elements.

Strategies to adapt any setting where swords cross and hearts race for Thirsty Sword Lesbians.

Here's a link to their website, I did copy everything over directly from it because I put off writing the Mega this week. I was drawing a blank on what I wanted to talk about. catgirl-huh

https://evilhat.com/product/thirsty-sword-lesbians/

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

anxietystarting work at a new place that'll hopefully continue after the summer vacation is over and i feel awful, i already took a pill for anxiety and that shit is working too fucking slowly. i wish i could have like normal reactions to anxiety inducing things instead of whatever the fuck this is

spoiler suicidal ideation just wanna die tbh, would be so much easier goddamnit catgirl-flop

:::

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

anxietyMy anxiety used to be so bad that certain mundane unavoidable things would send what felt like electrical shocks throughout my whole body. Felt like I was just being electrocuted throughout the day. It affected my heart rate, blood pressure, metabolism.

Got addicted to xanax. Had to quit, go through withdrawal. Total brain fog, couldn't focus. Had no control over my thoughts. It's a wonder I survived.

This is all to say that I'm better now. I know how it feels to be in your position, but you can get better, too. You have a future. Regardless of how strong that anxiety is, it doesn't have to last forever. You have the potential for an anxiety free life. Try to keep sight of that even when it seems impossible.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

hornyFuck I wanna pounce on a trans guy RIGHT FUCKIN NOW

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I remember trying to get through some judith butler and thinking this is some advance gender stuff. I can appreciate nuanced discussions of course but sometimes my brain is blob-no-thoughts I'll give myself some credit tho got through 1/3 of gender troubles at least when I started it. Gonna have to restart it but it'll only make my brain stronger beefbrain-shield-pro

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I was too sad to mention Friday Rice yesterday

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[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

mental healthMy anxiety is through the roof :( I’ve been getting a little bit more in touched with my feelings through therapy but right now I just can’t pinpoint the source of my anxiety at all. I feel completely dissociated and without emotion but there clearly is something because my body is having an extreme stress reaction.

[–] woodenghost@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

I played a one shot of thirsty sword lesbians, set in a steampunk setting, and really liked it. I love the "string" system, where you can have something on another player character or npc (knowledge/shared past/ etc.) and use it to "pull their strings". It can be used in a friendly, supportive way too.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

One day I swear I got a feeling my nephew is gonna trans to niece. I talked to them before about this stuff and they got a lot of signs but I don't know how soon it'll be. They alongside their younger brother and mom moved out to texas and are living with some more conservative family members. Idk if I'm just thinking too much of things that might not be there but idk.

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

hi yall. please tell me the best underground switch emulator rn

i want to replay totk the-boys-are-back-in-town

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I don’t think I like the shampoo/conditioner they use at the hair cutter.

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Sees human kibble article curious-marx looks inside to see it's just basic meal prep internet-delenda-est here I thought the doggirls would finally won one catgirl-smug yall gonna have to get your bachelorette chow elsewhere

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[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Having a bad brain day and could really use a hug catgirl-cry

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I don’t know how to enjoy any media anymore.
I can’t watch videos, I can’t play games.
Seeing normal people makes me depressed. madeline-sadeline

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[–] SockOlm@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm not just feeling cute. I AM cute screm-pretty

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I was so excited to finally live my life, but now I feel more lost than ever aubrey-rage-cry

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

bad mental health, suicidal ideation
spoiler also work stress related stuff

so found out my current limit for stress, and it was this current job. spent the last night crying in bed, eventually fell asleep and woke up with an elevated heart rate and suicidal ideations. did a tearful call to the boss to thankfully get moved into a less stressful familiar place after two days in the new place. god i wish i had like normal responses to these things and was not so messed up :::

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

catgirl-flop i don't know how much more energy i have any more. i am so tired and being an out and open trans woman who doesn't at all pass is so very hard

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

we lost to the news mega, we didn't ~~post~~ beep hard enough trans-sad

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

dysphoriaweather's getting nice and warm and sunny and I'm just dreading needing to wear shorts and short sleeve shirts feeling awful about my body

I don't wanna have to take off my hoodies and pants that make my butt look good

I can't find the hair removal cream that actually worked for me and thinking about having to wear short sleeves and shorts with how gross I feel about my body hair makes me just wanna become a hermit again

I should just shave but it's so much and so dispiriting and uncomfortable and feeling shitty about it in the first place drains me of the energy I'd need to actually go through with it all

catgirl-flop

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Tonight I'm a soy drinking choccy milk having piss baby and that's... alright πŸ˜‘

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

It is very achievable, and desirable to many, to get a big butt. Getting a small butt? Much harder. And that is sad. Small butts must be lionised

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

For some reason I was worried that my partner wanted to stay in the town they were living in long term, and that we'd have to make tough choices if I got an out of state job offer, but they clarified that they also want to get out of this shithole state so that is one anxiety I can discard.

meow-bounce

Now I just need to get a permanent position.

oh-shit

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago (7 children)

What fictional character made you go "oh hmm hang on I'm not cis maybe"? For me it was Kris Deltarune. I saw them eating moss and being nonbinary and I was like. Hmm. Yes. I can get behind that

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Been watching this furry chick dance on Redbook and crush idk large furry masks are a lot easier to look at than not. Prob my creature more than anything

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

four today!! officer-down

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