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Heya Everyone, new Mega time and for it, I'm gonna advertise a TTRPG system called Thirsty Sword Lesbians.

A sword duel can end in kissing, a witch can gain her power by helping others find love, and an entire campaign can be built around wandering matchmakers flying from system to system.

Thirsty Sword Lesbians is a roleplaying game for telling queer stories with friends. If you love angsty disaster lesbians with swords, you have come to the right place.

In this book, you’ll find:

Flirting, sword-fighting, and zingers in a system designed for both narrative drama and player safety.

An innovative take on the Powered by the Apocalypse family of games.

Nine character types, each focusing on a particular emotional conflict: Beast, Chosen, Devoted, Infamous, Nature Witch, Scoundrel, Seeker, Spooky Witch, and Trickster.

Guidance and support for running the game, including how to make appealing adversaries, set the tone, pace the game, and structure play.

Tools to create your own settings and stories, alongside a dozen pre-written options including the cyberpunk Neon City 2099, steamfunk poets battling oppression as Les Violettes Dangereuses, laser swords and intrigue in the Starcross Galaxy, and more.

World building worksheet for custom scenarios and starting scenario seeds to play with: Best Day of Their Lives, The Constellation Festival, Gal Paladins, and Sword Lesbians of the Three Houses Variant rules to highlight different identities, emotional connections, and setting elements.

Strategies to adapt any setting where swords cross and hearts race for Thirsty Sword Lesbians.

Here's a link to their website, I did copy everything over directly from it because I put off writing the Mega this week. I was drawing a blank on what I wanted to talk about. catgirl-huh

https://evilhat.com/product/thirsty-sword-lesbians/

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (3 children)

weed, disordered eating, fitnessWanted to go to the gym today but my back's messed up so I didn't

Got really stoned and ate 6 mini cupcakes instead

ohnoes classic biggus-piggus 🧁 🧁 🧁 🧁 🧁 🧁

I mean I did go for a walk earlier and did my PT so there's at least that but jfc

catgirl-flop

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[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

awwww yeah shitpostin the 420th comment lol spider-mad

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[–] WoodScientist@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Do you know the right way do properly test the purity of your grey market or homebrew HRT? Obvious. Ranma spectrometry.

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[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago

Its a new day and I am yet again mispronouncing words intentionally and unintentionally while my wife is both concerned and amused by my antics.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (4 children)

spoilerI don't know what is wrong. It just hurts really badly.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Can someone tell me if this is something or help me understand this

dysphoriaI feel like feeling dysphoric and unsafe in other ways is correlated somehow. I'm not sure which comes first or if its different sometimes. But like, earlier I was feeling scared/unsafe about my family potentially finding out about my being trans and then I felt my bottom dysphoria a lot more then I was before. And a lot of the time I'm feeling dysphoric, I also worry about like how I will be perceived or the general transphobia of society. I don't know, maybe I'm not making sense I'm just trying to understand this a bit- earlier it really felt like one lead to the other and idk maybe its a more generalized problem. Maybe its just gender feelings leading to other gender feelings I have.

Also things are a bit foggy right now so sorry if this is a weird post

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

spoilerI think this is pretty common. Negative feelings about one thing tend to amplify negative feelings about other stuff

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[–] oscardejarjayes@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Fruity, but not a fruit mega

end of an era

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 2 months ago

It has been a week and my boss has already clocked my victorian romance lead vibes

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago

depression talk, basically just a stream of conciousness rambleits wild that i can feel myself changing, because you generally dont notice how much you change until later, but i can feel myself coming out of depression. ive only just realised how bad a place i was in. i was really socially isolated, i barely did anything with my time, i felt like i only had a few hours in a day where i could be "productive" and the rest of that was just devoted to doing or being on autopilot. and while i was going through it i didnt realise how unhealthy that was. but now i do, and i can feel myself wanting to be more productive, and more social, and have more time in the day to be a real person. im still not where i want to be. my biggest problem is my serious weed addiction. but i want to overcome that problem now, whereas before it didnt. it felt like a lifeline, now it feels like i dont need it anymore. dammit ive lived up to the depressed stoner stereotype. but i can recognise that that's bad, and i'm in a better place now! like i actually feel a lot lighter, and thats crazy!

[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

opens up wallet to cobwebs

shocked-pikachu

if the tech industry is doing so well then where are all the fucking jobs.

[–] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

i just want to wear cute clothes, eat well, program, and purse my hobbies. what the fuck

every time i eke out another month without work by living off my savings i feel a part of my future fucking die to line some rich assholes pockets. scumsucking parasites earning unconscionable amounts of money that they will never be able to spend before they end up the same way we all do: wormfood.

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago

Was feeling a boundless love for my friends and family earlier, still feeling it but also sleepi sleepi I pray everyone I love has sweet dreams too

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago (8 children)

doomer dysphoria suicideI’ve been operating on cope (hope?) for so long.
I was sure if I just lost a bit of weight, or went on a higher dose of E, got some laser or did my makeup…that’d I’d like myself.
That I would see a girl in the mirror worth fighting for.
But I don’t.

So what’s the next cope? Maybe I should gain some weight? Weight cycle. Get even better at makeup.
Maybe just a bit more laser.
Surely I just have to keep moving and eventually it will all fall into place /s

This all feels like it’s inevitably leading to the point where I’ve done everything, tried everything and I’m still just as much of a freak as I was before.
And then I know the only thing there will be left to do. aubrey-pain

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I joked about my double serve of pronouns, but I don't know how to make it just one, I can change the second set but not delete it.

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