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The Sudoku puzzle format consists of (usually) a 9 by 9 grid that must be filled with numbers. The classical Sudoku rules are as follows

  1. Each row must contain all of the digits from 1 to 9, with no repetitions
  2. Each column must contain all of the digits from 1 to 9, with no repetitions
  3. Each sub square (3x3 grids marked by bold lines) must contain all of the digits from 1 to 9, with no repetitions

The historical inspiration of Sudoku begins with the Latin square, a type of grid problem similar to Sudoku in that it consists of an N by N grid where N digits (or letters) must be arranged in accordance with rules 1 and 2 of Sudoku (the sub square had yet to be invented). The first known example of a 9 by 9 Latin Square is from a monograph over 300 years ago, written by the Korean mathematician Choi Seok-Jeong. However, the Latin Square was popularized in the west by the legendary mathematician Leonhard Euler, who independently invented it almost 70 years after Choi Seok-Jeong.

According to Christian Boyer (idk who this is), on July 6th, 1895, the french newspaper La France published the earliest known example of a "true" Sudoku puzzle following all 3 rules of modern Sudokus, although french newspapers had previously been publishing similar (but different) puzzles prior. The name "Sudoku" itself (meaning "single digit") comes from Japanese magazines in which the game was popular during the 80s and 90s.

In Modern times, the Sudoku puzzle scene has been blessed with the addition of numerous variants, that add on additional rules, elevating the puzzle. The puzzle in the provided image is one such example, known as the "miracle Sudoku". It comes with 3 additional rules on top of the 3 original.

  1. If 2 digits are separated by a knight's move in chess, then they cannot be the same
  2. If 2 digits are separated by a king's move in chess, then they cannot be the same
  3. If 2 digits are adjacent (left, right, down or top, none of the diagonal directions), then they cannot be consecutive (ex - 5 and 6, or 7 and 8)

As can be seen from the fact that only 2 digits have been provided to start with, modern Sudoku authors are big fans of making puzzles that appear to be impossible to solve. This of course, is my favorite part about modern Sudoku. If you want to try to solve the miracle Sudoku, here is the link.

Some of the other example variants add new rules, such as German whispers, Dutch whispers, Renban lines, Entropy lines, Thermometer lines, killer cages and many more. You can find a massive collection of these puzzles on the logic-masters website.


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[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (5 children)
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[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Been practicing with my tablet again after taking an extended break. It's a bit of a learning experience to draw without looking at my hand. Although the curves aren't as smooth as I'd like, I think I'm getting better.

tonight's practice

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Wait, did I post this too early? catgirl-huh

Oh well, it's the 14th of July in my timezone ... catgirl-smug

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[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (11 children)

hit a new transfem milestone today

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[โ€“] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I just received word that hexbear admins will ban all users who don't know how to play sudoku

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Good riddance

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Went to Seattle, watched MCR, it was kick ass! I was so happy with how much trans pride there is there!

Had to use a burner phone, going to the states feels pretty fraught ๐Ÿ˜ฌ. The customs guy was fine, guess it helped that I was going to a concert and leaving shortly after.

Smokes and booze so cheap in the US
But your money smells SO BAD

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I remember the last time my friends came around on their bikes without texting, unannounced, just to see if I was home and wanted to hang out. 2008, we had basic cell phones (parents got us them, we were out a lot alone, older teens). At the time I didnt think that would be it, but it was.

I dunno if I miss it, per se. But the spontaneity and closeness was nice. Everyone switched to text first before coming by for a reason though - it did suck to go somewhere and they weren't home or couldn't hang out and people were busy and so on and so on.

[โ€“] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

68 days until the first day of autumn do-something

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

When you're so shonen-pilled that you literally imagine Dishwasher cleaning as the final arc of an anime.

I even had a plucky protagonist that no one has any expectations for. A glass bottle with oil stains so stubborn I couldn't remove them with a steel scrub.

Combine the main protagonist with a red colored sponge, a bottle cleaning stick, soap and the metal scrub, you have your 5 man cast.

The metal scrub is the mentor travelling with the group. "Trains" the protagonist (removes some, but not all the oil stains), then is sidelined shortly after.

The bottle cleaning stick is the comic relief character. Does not help, but provides emotional support.

The soap is the unsung MVP.

And obviously the final arc consists of the deuteragonists (sponge and bottle) discovering the power of friendship (soaking up water from sponge, then putting it in the bottle) to defeat the enemy (the leftover water stuck in the dishwasher after rinsing it).

I even had a last minute death, fakeout/drama scene. Where I accidentally dropped the sponge in the hole and cannot retrieve it, except by using the magical artifact (tweezers).

Outside the main cast, you also have the

  1. Support character (gloves) 2.Love interest (bottle cap) for a love triangle between the bottle, the stick and the ... bottle cap obviously. Only one of the "girls" can file the hole of the bottle (peg him)
  2. Big bad monster (dishwasher), summed by the evil mage
  3. Evil mage (mom) that summoned the monster (dirtied it) and was destroyed by her own summon (she went for a walk).
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[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

CW pornIt really annoys me when I see something that looks hot but then it's ruined by the "step sibling/ parent" shit

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[โ€“] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Why didn't I get into T4T dating sooner? This girl is making me swoon so hard cri

She also thinks that it's hot that I'm a smoker lol

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[โ€“] other_platypus@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I've been reading Devon Price's "Laziness Does Not Exist" and it has been challenging and life changing. I am now refusing to feel guilty for taking breaks at work, even hours at a time, for feeling like if I'm not moving my mouse I'm not being productive, and for blaming myself when solutions don't appear in front of my face when I want them to.

It helps that work has been unbelievably dysfunctional the past month or so (before that too, but there's definitely been a recent rampup), since it pushed me to the point where something needed to change.

details about thatToday, I am quiet quitting for the day. I have a meeting that is possibly going to devolve into people being very angry at me for decisions made and poorly communicated by other people, who should be the ones making decisions, and who are on vacation. 4 days from a massive release and I'm still fighting with people over the stupidest shit and they all think they are in charge. My boss is beyond useless and is one of the people throwing a tantrum at me, but these aren't my decisions, I'm just implementing them.

I feel like at this point I am a lightning rod for all of these bad decisions and that everyone is taking it out on me. I can't help but think that they all think they're smarter than me and would have totally done things differently in my place. It's not fair to me and no amount of money is worth this kind of mistreatment.

I hope I get laid off, maybe I'll get decent severance, but since it's possible everyone is turning on me, it sounds like maybe I'll get fired instead. Either way, it's not worth my physical or mental health, so I'm trying my best to not push beyond my capacity.

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[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago
[โ€“] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

God I love being trans so much! Best thing that ever happened to me

Everywhere I go strangers come up to me to like tell me I look happy and shit like that.

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[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

blood levels are looking good with 690pmol/L for E and 0.7nmol/L for T. trans-hydra

hate how having to do conversions for this shit is necessary since every fucking clinic seems to use a different measurements to calculate the levels. will probably up the E a bit to get over the 730pmol/L to be in monotherapy range and safe from the T-virus party-parrot-science

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[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago

I don't think I'm cool but when I was in high school in 2000, a bunch of my peers were gathered excitedly around a library computer.

They said they were looking at the first image released of...and I misheard and thought they said "Snake"

I said "fuck yeah they're making a new Escape from movie?"

Then I saw Alan Rickman in robes. It was "Snape" and I deflated with disappointment.

[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

Feeling constantly on the verge of tears at my public facing job kitty-cri

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

CW: Joy killingMy mom has actually figured out I am genuinely unhappy being with my parents despite my efforts to hide it. She confronted me about it and I was just, stumped. Didn't want to admit it, but my silence spoke volumes.

My little brother is in a terrible mood these days and doesn't respond well. He also has too many temper tantrums which drain the emotional energy of the family.

My dad, I just feel sorry for him, he seems to be a struggling with a family that doesn't kinda care about him.

Yeah, I'm remembering now why I was so eager to leave, and why I had to leave before my relationship with my parents healed.

I know I shouldn't blame myself, but me being trans and repressing (then hiding) it for 10 years at this point has driven the family to dysfunction. It's just a fact. Any hope for a healthy family dynamic is permanently dead. And I don't feel at all like I ever want to come out to my parents, not because I'm even afraid anymore, but because the emotional disconnect is irreparable.

Also, I will just say it. I've grown up to be a nihilistic, sadistic and self-loathing type of person. And I say none of that in a romanticised way. I'm niethzche's last man (or last woman) (I refuse to spell that fascist's name correctly)7

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[โ€“] Des@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

a combo of horny stuff and dysphoria. let's call it hornphoria.


So I used to be into "forced feminization" as both a kink and erotica. It was basically all there was to find during the dark ages of extremely fragmented and almost non-existent online trans community. Most of it never sat right with me, because the stories tended to be about degradation and I wanted empowerment. So I wrote some of my own eventually. Since I have many, many kinks beside that I really feel it set back my own realization of being transfemme. Like, thought it was purely a kink (my gender identity) which was made worse by my gender dysphoria not hitting until puberty.

Now obviously it's diversified I suppose into spheres that include empowerment, or being helped by experienced transwomen (in a dommy way!), as well as the old school degradation type stuff. Not entirely sure, I only occasionally poke around. So I don't know whether that set me back like 10 years or was helpful, or it was purely a matter of being an elder millennial that missed the boat. Plenty of RL cis women partners that were into it, which at least gave me some validation but really twisted things up and left me unsure.

So yeah, still a kink, maybe it's because i'm a butch transfemme and like the idea of doing it to all genders, more of consensual "forced" make-over/dress-up or transform someone into an aesthetic that is alien to them. I think that's more what I'm into. Still hard to square this, maybe I should just consider it a learning experience and be grateful I was able to explore with partners even if it was a "set back".

I'm happy to hear anyone else's experience with this or if it was similar. Millennials and above or Z.

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[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

okiiiii there was some trans gaym about like... the mc just waking up one day with an alien or something in her chest and the art was like amazing and we cannot remember the name of it at allllll so if that rings a to anymany can u tell us what gaym that issss.......

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

dysphoriaGot a sudden surge of dysphoria about part of my face and no clue why. Normally I wouldn't post about it but weirdly this time it's a part that I normally really like, so doubly confused on why I feel so fixated on it being awful rn. Ugh

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 1 month ago

spoilerIt's not even a fucking gendered trait at all like whyyyyyyyyyyyy

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

feelin' bad about gender today

catgirl-flop

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