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[-] limelight79@lemm.ee 7 points 1 day ago

A guy at work did something like that. Went on vacation for a week, just never returned. Didn't return phone calls or emails. Eventually he popped up on social media about 6 months later and some coworkers spotted him and got the story. If I remember correctly (which I may not), I think his girlfriend convinced him to stay, so he did, and he just ghosted his job.

[-] lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 2 days ago

Living the dream or not living anymore, we'll never know

[-] mightyfoolish@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

This post is actually scary. Probably should get in touch with the embassy or something and get a courtesy check done on him?

[-] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

If he, or the mafia doesn't want him to be found, there's not much you can do.

But in all seriousness: yeah, when someone is missing they should be reported as such at the local police, who can contact the embassy's office in the country they were going on holiday. Many parts of Italy are very safe, rich, modern. But there are also parts where you will get hurt, especially as a tourist. Loads of poverty, gangs, mafia, corruption (particularly the south).

[-] mightyfoolish@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I'm sure you are correct about who to contact first but I would get worried the police would say it's out of their jurisdiction.

[-] LordWiggle@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Ah ok. I thought in freedomland it wouldn't be much different, but usually a missing person claim should be passed onto the missing persons division of the responsible police force with a unit like that. But if anyone says "nope, bye" you can always try somewhere else. Or Google it, or ask chat gpt.

[-] Fedizen@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

moved to somewhere with healthcare instead of health control

[-] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I seriously almost did this. I visited the Netherlands, and fell absolutely head over heels for their way of life. It's so damn peaceful and free! You don't have to worry about getting shot when you're running errands. You don't have to worry about going bankrupt through medical expenses. You don't have to worry about going to jail over weed or mushrooms. You don't have to buy a car, because bicycling infrastructure and public transportation is AMAZING.

While I was there I met a lovely chap who is originally from England. He told me that he spent a holiday in Amsterdam, and broke his leg. So he stayed at the hospital, and afterwards, just didn't leave. He's been working/living there ever since.

When it came time for me to leave, I had accidentally missed my train, and it was going to be some extra money to switch around my flight/train to get back home, and a part of me was seriously considering just being like "fuck it" and staying. The only thing stopping me from moving there now is the knowledge that I'd have to continue paying taxes to the U.S. if I wanted to keep my citizenship while living and paying taxes in the Netherlands. 😑

If anyone can tell me a way around this... please do, because I want to move to the Netherlands.

[-] sayitghoul@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I am Dutch but moved to England (for love) 16 years ago and I have never regretted it. Do it while you can, else you will just live with the regret. It is such a life experience moving countries, there is no way to describe it. The magical feeling that you have in the beginning does disappear a little over the years, but it never leaves completely. The memories you create are just so amazing that you will never lose the magical feeling entirely.

Just. Do. It.

[-] dice@programming.dev 2 points 1 day ago

Look at Foreign Earned Income Exclusion and Foreign Tax Credit

[-] collapse_already@lemmy.ml 35 points 2 days ago

I worked at a restaurant as a teen. One of the managers went to Hawaii for vacation and never came back. Food service jobs are not hard to find. The bartender he was occasionally fucking was pretty unhappy because he didn't even tell her or call.

[-] MoonMelon@lemmy.ml 18 points 2 days ago

Every time I've gone to a beautiful place, (Kauai/Virgin Islands/Moab etc) I've run into former insurance salesman types who just said fuck it, and stayed, and now live in an old school bus and fix outboards or whatever. Often it was precipitated by a big life event like a divorce or a child leaving the nest but sometimes they just bounced. I get it.

[-] KinglyWeevil@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

Makes me wish my career wasn't so fucking niche, for sure

[-] schwim@lemm.ee 145 points 3 days ago

Or he's dead.

[-] Toribor@corndog.social 147 points 3 days ago

Me, dead, deleting all my social media to make it a big mystery or something.

[-] schwim@lemm.ee 84 points 3 days ago

The majority of men showed changes in behavior before the suicide, especially social withdrawal,

Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10488060/

[-] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 55 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

If you’re considering ending it all, make one phone call. You’ve got nothing to lose.

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Edit: Apparently the link I posted above is not viewable by everyone. So, below is the content of the article in Markdown format:

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[-] SatyrSack@lemmy.one 19 points 3 days ago

I honestly can't tell if this is a joke or not

[-] RealFknNito@lemmy.world 28 points 3 days ago

The best meme is the one that can unironically help someone when the joke ends.

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[-] CoffeeJunkie@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Hey guys FTR, I am fine, I just wanted to check it out of pure curiosity & I was denied. The irony is making me lmao.

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[-] TexasDrunk@lemmy.world 41 points 3 days ago

That happened to a friend of mine. He deleted everything when he had a mental health episode. Took time off. They found his remains months later.

So yeah, could be.

[-] snooggums@midwest.social 30 points 3 days ago

Livin the dream.

[-] BearGun@ttrpg.network 4 points 2 days ago

Just minus the "livin" part. But hey, can't have everything.

[-] psmgx@lemmy.world 31 points 2 days ago

You sure he didn't get kidnapped or run out of money?

[-] Etterra@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago

I've had some coworkers that would have made my life better if they'd f'ed off to Italy and never come back.

[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 100 points 3 days ago

Take two weeks vacation. Get paid.
Miss two weeks of work. Get paid.
Get fired. Get two weeks severance and unemployment.

Homie quit and got six weeks pay plus unemployment benefits.

[-] Bassman1805@lemmy.world 106 points 3 days ago

Prob aren't getting severance nor unemployment if you get fired for 2 weeks of no-call-no-show.

[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 25 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Severance, you're right. Unemployment is likely still on the table depending on the state. In Texas, the person can file for unemployment. The company can challenge saying they were a no show but the employee can argue that it isn't true. It is just easier to allow unemployment to just cover it.

EDIT: I once had a guy work for two week as a 1099 and he still filed for unemployment. That got denied because he was never an actual employee, but had we not noticed the claim in the mail, he would have gotten paid.

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[-] iAvicenna@lemmy.world 53 points 3 days ago

or dead

[-] ameancow@lemmy.world 36 points 3 days ago

I used to fantasize about doing this.

When it got to a point that I was making careful plans for how to effectively remove all traces of my existence before walking into the sea or something, I realized that it was probably not a good thing that I was fixating on this "fantasy" and how attractive it was becoming, so I went to a nice little family mental health clinic in walking distance.

I was diagnosed with depression, PTSD and general anxiety disorder. A few years and a few rounds of therapy and medication later and I'm... still struggling. But at least I'm not planning my exit. There's a lot to live for, but you can't see it when your brain starts running away with your mental narratives. Don't ruminate, don't fantasize. Get some help and do something new with your lives.

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[-] Caboose12000@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

Is that not "living the dream"?

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[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 82 points 3 days ago

I quit my startup like that.

We were making it: we were eking by and just starting to turn the corner when one of the partners did some legal wrangling to grab power. FineYouDoIt.jpg because I'd had enough already and prepped my next job.

Hopped a plane. Hopped another. Hopped another. Three people on the planet knew where I was: Mom, GF, and guy who bashes bags at the local airport who saw my name on the flight manifest and checked my connection. Went to the waiting apartment to start the next day. Never looked back, didn't answer email except when Cop friend emailed and asked whether I was missing. Nope, so case closed.

[-] sangriaferret@sh.itjust.works 34 points 3 days ago

Wait, so you just bailed on your girlfriend?

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[-] James_Ryan@discuss.tchncs.de 34 points 3 days ago

But why

[-] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 69 points 3 days ago

Step one in his plan of stealing the declaration of Independence

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[-] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I, too, fantasize about my coworkers wondering where I am, cue comedy smash cut to my slowly swinging corpse

If/when I do kms it won't be by hanging but it's a funnier mental image

[-] Jackhammer_Joe@lemmy.world 32 points 2 days ago

That's nothing to joke about.

Get help!

Suicide prevention hotlines: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/suicide/suicide-prevention-hotlines-resources-worldwide

[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

That’s nothing to joke about.

Like hell it isn't. For some of us, joking about these things are how we stave them off.

[-] LiveLM@lemmy.zip 30 points 3 days ago

What to do if you win the lottery 101

[-] Tardil@lemmy.world 27 points 3 days ago

He dead

[-] cumskin_genocide@lemm.ee 19 points 2 days ago

Something similar happened to a coworker of mine a long time ago. This girl I used to work with, Adriana, her boyfriend, Christopher, called us at work one day one said that she went on vacation and she just never came back. It was a shame too because the guy died in a car crash like a year later. I saw it on the news.

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[-] Blackmist@feddit.uk 45 points 3 days ago

Living the dream from the bottom of the Tiber river.

[-] GiveOver@feddit.uk 44 points 3 days ago

Interesting that this is "Livin the dream". It happened at my friend's workplace and the leading theory is that he did some diddling and is escaping the repercussions. Guess it's a fine line...

[-] blanketswithsmallpox@lemmy.world 25 points 3 days ago

Cheated on his wife. Kid diddler. Embezzlement.

They're never as juicy as people like to think it is. It's usually something lame like depression or raising diddlers.

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[-] boatsnhos931@lemmy.world 16 points 3 days ago

He's been sleeping on my couch, smoking weed all day. Plz take him back

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