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WEBRINGS:
site's back, time to party 
I have an announcement to make: I have stolen my wife's sweatpants and claimed them for myself. They are oversized n comfy n gay. If you are not stealing clothes from/trading clothes with your significant other I recommend it 
i read that Kurt Cobain egg theory post again, and...
they didnt tattoo their skeleton with "I AM TRANS" so they're definitely cis. Sad shit, all around.
got she/her-ed by not one but two people at the shop the other day and i still cannot believe it happened
"never trust how you feel about your life after 9 pm" but that's the only time i ever bother thinking about my life
In my current just, I was a boymoding summer intern last year and am now out and working full time. Besides HR being totally incompetent it's gone really well and everyone has been very nice.
There's this one outspoken old guy with an office down the hall. He was described to me as "our one Trump supporter", and apparently has gotten in trouble for talking politics at work before, which most people avoid. He's also very friendly and talkative to everyone.
Since I've been back there, he keeps coming up to me, introducing himself, and asking if we've met bey. He seems really confused about it lol. I told him I was an intern, but I think he forgot and he asked later if we'd met in the new employee orientation meeting (he was a presenter). I assume he knows I'm trans??? But he can't figure out who I used to be lol.
ugh why am i doing my stupid straight job when i could be doing (things with) my stupid gay wife
so glad my one year old a/c unit died in the middle of this nightmare heatwave
it is so fun, i am having such a good time
Went out in a breezy dress because is hot outside and some kid stared at me from way up the sidewalk and as i pass asks "what kind of freaky shit are you into" and it has seriously withered me. I don't wanna go out femme anymore
I've made up my mind and I'm coming out to my mom today. I invited her to town and I'm taking her out for the day. The only problem is that now it's the day of and I'm panicking hahaha. I'm still going to do it though.
Edit: IT WENT GREAT! 
when the trans mega gets so big cleaning it up breaks the site like a 
Wore a skirt today. Skirts are great! It also allowed me to wear a unisex shirt I have that looked too masculine with pants and shorts. I've also gone through and taken out a lot of my older clothes, and I think I'm at a point where I have enough feminine clothing (or at least non-masculine) to wear without falling back on the old clothes. 
Finally playing New Vegas, currently fucking around and dying to bugs
pro tip: you can kill the bugs before they kill you
depression
Being crushed by depression as of late. Haven't been here lately. Can't handle a lot of the dysphoria posting right now as it throws me into a spiral. Being dysphoric myself at the moment kinda just piles on with the depression and it all kinda just turns into a perfect storm of hell.
Might have to step away from this site for a long time due to it.
Oh. I look like my mother now. I can see it when I take my glasses off. I don't know how to feel about this.
Looked at pics of me right before starting progesterone ~4mths ago and compared to today. Goodness gracious these things grew.
I was an A cup forever and they grew to a B in no time. Hope the increase continues linearly and I'm a D cup by next year 
Bottom Surgery Discussion
I scheduled a bottom surgery consult and it is for next week! I was so fucking nervous before making the call, and the assistant was so kind. I know the surgery will be far off from now, as I have a lot of hair removal to do, but I am so happy, ya'll. 
i should make myself a banh mi
not really trans-related but i'm hungry
my wife keeps texting me "deer anime?" and I don't know what it means. what do I say? is the anime going to deer my gender?
I am better than the trans pixel art platformer about anxiety. The trans pixel art platformer about anxiety cannot beat me, for I have defeated its nefarious crystal heart challenges.
To be real, people talk about how Artorias of the Abyss was too out-of-the-way and hard to find in Dark Souls, and yeah fucking off to the Duke's Archives to get the pendant or whatever was a bit roundabout. But out of the seven crystal hearts you need, maybe two you could find without a guide??? This is like, 1980s CRPG levels of cryptic. I would buy the strategy guide.
Why is nobody mad about this? I am mad about this. I am incensed that the trans pixel art platformer about anxiety forced me to paddle its ass for another six hours before I could continue. 
stupid bs
I think I finally decided that I really truly do not wanna touch grass anymore. Sure people are cool, I like them, and it's fun being A Genderβ’ outside, but I actually cannot handle the stress anymore. Let me stay inside and talk to the queer people inside my computer. Everytime I go outside it's a fucking expedition with required gear and terrible sensory problems and just, eeeehehehhrhgghhghgghh
It's fucking stupid because nothing bad even happened today and I'm still exhausted. I give, I don't have the energy to be outside, I'm exhausted and I give up. Do not make me leave my dumb little nest please 
I went to a makeup artist and asked if she could help with my cross dressing makeup.
She responded by saying, βI donβt help people with cross dressing because itβs against my religious beliefs.β
I then laughed in her face. She didnβt like that.
I have been coming to the realization that the only two things I used to like about my body were only because I thought other people would like those things about me. It was never because I liked those things.
I was gonna do some real pathetic depression posting today, but I feel okay now.
There's always tomorrow, though~
You like being trans because it has shaped who you are as a person
I like being trans because I would hate having a period
We are not the same
Yes I know some trans women have periods but I will simply not 
Getting a full-body CT bone scan, looking at the images and going Ooh ooh, aw yea boyee, look at that fuckin' hip tilt, oh baby that pelvis is SO DAMN TILTED, ooh damn you're so hiptiltpilled, just looook at how foward that pelvis is tilted!! 
Got laser the other day and now my shitty pencil stash is like pretty dark no matter how much I shave -.-
it would be rad as hell if the dark souls 2 gender swap coffin was real
Love when the anime has actually good transfem representation, BUT THE CHARACTER IS TOTALLY JUST A BOY, GUYS!
and then an anime with canon "transfem" rep is just a literal fucking man. 
I canβt tell how much of my attraction to men is real and how much of it is rooted in making me feel more feminine by being bigger, taller and more manly than me. 
what do you mean HRT didn't instantly solve all my mental health???? 
fr tho the injections will continue until morale improves
I know I've been making a lot of these types of post (others are in the works!) but I am literally laying here thinking about how I would listen to edm/festival type music for hours and wish I could be a festival girl.
Literally death to society for not educating me better :agony:
I was eating out earlier and they had a cute little bow for the women's room and like a top hat for the men's. I look at both of these and it clicks where I'm supposed to go.
Chat I almost went in the women's room (I have not done a single thing to fix my presentation)
making moves for myself and it feels good. i'm in the process of becoming "that bitch"
