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Due to recent concerns regarding this post by @ashinadash@hexbear.net, I felt compelled to issue a statement to this community.

There were a few people who responded to this post by acknowledging some degree of validity to Serano's pretty damn explicitly enbyphobic analysis. I just want to start and say that I don't entirely assume bad faith here, as some people often get sucked into holding bad beliefs in good faith with no malicious intent. However, let me just make something totally clear here: Serano's ideas presented in this passage, especially if uncritically given a thumbs up, are very harmful.

As a person who has been harmed very harshly by enbyphobia in the trans community, I see through bullshit. I've seen disingenuous efforts at masking enbyphobic statements as "I'm just concerned about the oppression of binary trans people!" before. These kinds of takes are often thrown around myopically by people who think that there is, within the trans community, some degree of disproportionate hate against binary trans people compared to how enbies are viewed when, in actuality, it's the inverse.

Truscummy rhetoric and non-binary erasure have damaged more enbies than any of this so-called "binary-phobia" has damaged binary trans people. This notion of "binary-phobia" being rife in the community is laughable, as this position is such a niche that you seldom hear about it seriously being exercised and you'd especially never see whole online forums dedicated to it. You, however, cannot say the same thing about transmedicalism. Transmedicalism has pushed many false narratives about non-binary people that aim to be prescriptivist and thereby wholly inaccurate in describing the non-binary experience.

To give a common example, truscum often believe that enbies are inherently non-dysphoric and never undergo any form of medical transition. This is demonstrably false, and the enbies who are dysphoric and/or undergo medical transition are not just some tiny, obscure percentage of the non-binary community. These enbies are far more common than one would think if they go beyond watching bigoted cringe compilations and actually take some time to interact with non-binary people.

However, with that being said, even if a trans person is non-dysphoric, that doesn't make them not a valid trans person, and just to make my point totally clear here: not all non-dysphoric trans people are non-binary, and not all non-binary people are non-dysphoric. Either way, both groups, non-dysphoric trans people and non-binary trans people, whether someone is one, the other, or both, are not invalid in their gender identity. Gender identity is a deeply personal thing, and every single person who is not cis inherently subverts the system that keeps cisheternormative and patriarchal oppression in place. It is about as valid for a binary trans person to be enbyphobic as it is for a cis person to hate trans people in general, but in this case, it is far more hypocritical.

To go back to Serano's concerns, I'm not saying that I've never seen non-binary people give bad takes on binary trans people and gender transition altogether. I have, but these are rare cases that don't make this notion of a major problem with "binary-phobia" any more legitimate of a concern than something as silly as "anti-white racism." I sensed that a lot of users were trying to sniff out good faith in what Serano is saying, but it is nowhere to be found, so you can stop looking. If there were, at the very least, some fair understanding for the current day, she would've done a fair revision of this horrid passage, but she has not.

The bottom line is that gender identity is incredibly personal, and as leftists who absolutely do not want to validate systems of oppression, anyone who is gatekeeping certain kinds of trans people or being bigoted in some other way towards them is going against some of the core, fundamental principles of leftism by validating reactionary, oppressive structures. Whether someone is medically transitioning or not, dysphoric or non-dysphoric, binary or non-binary, gender-conforming or gender-nonconforming, or existing in any way that a trans person can exist whatsoever, and there are a lot of those, they are welcome here, and this is a judgement-free zone for all transgender, non-binary, and genderqueer comrades.

If you have yet to do so, please read The Gender Accelerationist Manifesto by Eme Flores and Vikky Storm, and I have an old effortpost comment that takes down transmedicalism and actually references this work in the process right here.

You are all valid in your gender identities and experiences as trans, non-binary, and genderqueer people, so do NOT fucking tell anyone else here that they aren't, even if you're doing it with the mask on.

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 25 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

feinberg-sicko Also if any more anti-transmed comrades would like to join the mod team please reply here and we can induct you into the cabal

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 15 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

I would be willing to join fidel-salute

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 10 points 4 hours ago
[–] kristina@hexbear.net 9 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] propter_hog@hexbear.net 2 points 10 minutes ago

As an enby, thank you for this. I feel seen. 🫶

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 5 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 43 minutes ago) (1 children)

One of my mothers is a super chuddy conservative truscum POS who is also MtF.

I'm as confused as you probably are about it. It seems to me like she should explode in a puff of contradiction.

[–] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 4 points 49 minutes ago (1 children)

Are you calling this community no better than my reactionary mother?

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 5 points 45 minutes ago

No god no

I mean to say I don't understand​ her at all let me edit that

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 8 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

order-of-lenin thanks for taking the time to make this post. glad to see this is gonna be (hopefully) taken seriously going forward as it is a really damaging form of intra community prejudice especially, as many of us were trying to explain on the serano post...

[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 12 points 3 hours ago

Its always frustrating to deal with enbyphobia. Cissies will they me if I tell them I'm nonbinary and put me in the designated trinary box instead of understanding what nonbinary is (and will continue to be bad when I call them out,) and binary trans people will say I'm fake for not using they/them while being nonbinary, again somehow not understanding what being nonbinary is.

[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 13 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago) (1 children)

Thanks for linking that post. It gave me a lot of food for thought. I just recently read Whipping Girl and have to admit that I read the parts being criticized by @ashinadash@hexbear.net more or less uncritically.

I don't spend much time in queer spaces irl (always felt too gay for the straights and and too straight for the gays rip), I don't have a reality check to compare Serano's take to. Anyway I appreciate the critique.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

See this is what I was worried about, wonder how many people have read that and then just carried it with them. Not a fan! And so I had to post.

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 8 points 3 hours ago
[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 10 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

How was this shit not already banned?

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 10 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Though the sidebar doesn't say it, it's kind of always been an "unwritten" rule that's just never been properly addressed, y'know?

This was actually my very first post here, so it's quite funny that you mention it.

[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 9 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

The rules need hammered out something fierce then. While I'm not a part of the community, bullshit such as you mentioned should've been crushed a long time ago.

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 8 points 2 hours ago

We've removed for it before but tbh yeah good point, added a new rule to make it more clear

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 20 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks for making this post, I was dismayed at the reaction, frankly. I had expected to make my big, bold shitpost and have people go 'haha yeah, what a silly passage to put in this otherwise cool text', not... that.

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 9 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I only ever read selected passages from Serano's work- I can see why the people in my life would have skipped those parts, really disappointing to only be finding out about it now.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 9 points 3 hours ago

"Selected passages" is probably the right way to do it sadly yea

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 12 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)
[–] PapaEmeritusIII@hexbear.net 10 points 4 hours ago
[–] magi@hexbear.net 10 points 4 hours ago
[–] buh@hexbear.net 15 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

what if we had transmedicalism but it's a femmed version of medic from tf2

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 8 points 4 hours ago
[–] Luna@hexbear.net 12 points 4 hours ago