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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pidgin_Delaware#Treatment_of_gender
More of linguistic interest, Pidgin Delaware, a simplified amalgam of local, indigenous languages used for trade with Europeans, used two linguistic genders. Unlike European languages, however, the genders aren't masculine and feminine but rather animate and inanimate.
I got gendered correctly today. Had someone calling out "sir, sir", trying to ask me for directions. I turn to face them, and they look confused. "Sir, Ma'am, I can't tell with the mask on". I took my shot, put on my best fem voice. I had mastered the talk-no-jutsu, my voice training was about to pay off. I looked at the person, and proceeded to ignore most of the training, just changing pitch and speaking more softly. It still worked, I got called ma'am. They later apologized for getting it wrong, and I just said no worries. No eyebows. No stare. No disgust.
I've done it, I've won :keikaku:
Miaut voran mit festem Schritt
Arbeitercatgirls, kommt ihr mit?
Wir sind die queere Garde des Proletariats
Wir sind die queere Garde des Proletariats
surgery stuff (positive)
finally argued my case hard enough that the surgeon I'm going with says he feels comfortable moving forward with insurance authorization
lost respect for him over the last month, but I don't really need to respect him for him to do surgery. I'll take the W
now back to electrolysis once again. π
I've also learned all the hiragana and katana characters and can remember them without reference
need to learn more words and kanji now. it was really intimidating to finally start learning japanese, but it's really not so bad once I got used to it. I can slowly start reading words in media I like and that's so exciting, even if it takes me so long for now
unsolicited and frankly overbearing excitement about learning japanese
i found some success with anki + flashcards in the beginning after learning the hira/kata. there was a deck on anki web (or was it anki connect? you can just download them) that had voice lines and slowly introduced kanji and vocabulary, so you're learn full sentences. on the back side there'd be furigana.
i soon moved on to watching a lot of shows with japanese subs and a dictionary open (using the mpv script to make flashcards and auto-clipboard the text subs for faster lookups). i watched Non Non Biyori (for easy language), then Bocchi this way (only saw it with English subs for the first time last Friday...) as well as re-watched a couple seasons of Kaguya-sama (this one was much harder language...). it was kind of both incredible and also kinda depressing that a single 20 minute episode turned into a 3 hour affair, but i think when I finally got the jokes I appreciated it way more...
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You have to do electrolysis again? Ouchie. I did not expect that after already having so much hair removal!
Congratulations on moving forward with the surgery. So glad you got a surgeon that is on board for you to get the body youβre comfortable in.
I saw my mom for the first time in a few months today, and she asked me if I'm aware I'm starting to look just like her and that seeing me was basically like seeing herself
Officially in the estrogen making you look like your mom gang
I still look like my dad but more and more yassified and femmed up at least. I do a lot of the same stuff my mom does which is horrifying, lean my head back the same way she does to read, same jokes, etc.
i love my fatness! i love my queerness! my fat queer body is beautiful and sexy!!!!
I'm no longer a kissless virgin, just a regular virgin π
Once again just woke up and drinking coffee
she zuck my mark till i erberg. this reads like a fucking eco post
she jack on my dor till I sey
I did a module on social anthro and women's history and it covered similar bits. Best part of uni and it was only a side module.
My gender today is girlrotting fail witch.
real
i love my wife ngl
I love third sexing in anthropology. Progressive win
I read this is sexting and was very confused. But yeah awesome topic!
I was being sarcastic unfortunately. https://taliabhattwrites.substack.com/p/the-third-sex
Ugh I was aware of that book but not the contents :(
Tempted to write books about cis people's identity while invalidating it the whole time but I don't I won't be able to out do:
CW: misgendering and further invalidating transphobic cis nonsense
Neither man nor woman (but actually men who just dress garishly as women)
How do you talk without your vocal chords deciding to randomly sound like they're sick for the next 24 hours sometimes
TTS
How do you talk with your vocal chords without your vocal chords deciding to randomly sound like they're sick for the next 24 hours sometimes
I think you might be hooped, girlie
What does this mean!
omg my western canadian slang slipped out noooooo
To be hooped = "to be beset with unfortunate circumstances that seem difficult or impossible to overcome; screwed"
This is almost as bad as when I say taco like a Minnesotan or when I let "beaking off" out or bavvin'
Yeah I'm cooked but I was hoping it's just a skill issue!
edit: oops meant to reply to the previous comment but whatever!
i had "lady" like not only are you misgendering me, i feel both old and condescended to too. a triple! why wont people stop. sob.
A while ago, I had been flirting with a girl for a few months. We finally got to meet up about a year ago. I felt all my attraction drain out of me when she said she 20 years old. I'm so sorry but you're so, so fucking young.
i love learning about anthropology, i dont do it enough