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I stood up for myself and my gender for the first time today. A friend kept degendering me and I asked him not to.
Kind of a small thing but I feel proud of myself since I've always had a poor self esteem
Congrats!!
We need an emoji of the Soviets hoisting the red flag over Berlin but it's a trans pride flag
You should feel proud, that's a big W. It's something I still struggle with myself.
Fuck yeah, love to see it. Never stop standing up for yourself
LIFTING UPDATE
So I am STILL not lifting yet, it's been like a month. I stopped taking tramadol and like I wanna get back, but Idk if it will make it better. What if without the pain receptors being numbed, it'll just hurt and be excruciating and I die? What if I rot instead???
I like that my chronic pain/fatigue is maybe stopping me from doing the thing that could make my chronic pain/fatigue less bad.
I am never going to be the beautiful muscledyke........ tfw not athletic........
In other news I have the most creeping feeling that Fallow isn't a one-run game and that stuff changes, more than just the sealed door, if you play it again. I'll have to go back and puzzle over it. Give it more kisses, my beloved.
Feel like I need to stop using this site because I need IRL friends since I'm very lonley, but all the queer groups in my area are full of radlibs and Zionists :( Like its unhealthy to have my main form of social interaction outside of my job be this website, but there is very few people who will click with my interests and queerness
its unhealthy to have my main form of social interaction outside of my job be this website,
Universally or personally speaking? 'Cause I ended up in your situation, for so many reasons.
maybe this is weird of me, but i kinda see bearsite as a means to an end these days; I see it as a place to find people with my interests and who i like talking to, and hopefully I can build something deeper with them. I also find tracha a little overwhelming so i don't chat too much, but I do like me some small groups or 1-on-1 things.
The trans group chat is pretty cool. And there's a decent level of separation from how hexbear is. Join us sometime
I joined it briefly when it came out but the volume of messages was too much for me, as I was either feeling like I was missing out on something, or I would be flooded with notifications. Thanks for the recommendation though
cw yankee electoralism
i got the most pathetic liberal comment on youtube after i said the blue team are just doing blue fascism and it's beyond pathetic how libs start waking up now again when the red team starts doing red fascism (it's the same fascism)
" you realize the βblue teamβ is not for that? You do realize that right??? And this song was during when βthe red teamβ was in power still. "
each question mark just fills me with more joy this was under a RATM song because it's topical to fight against the machine again for the next four years
the song was released while Clinton was in office too! like goddamn
I got gendered correctly today. Had someone calling out "sir, sir", trying to ask me for directions. I turn to face them, and they look confused. "Sir, Ma'am, I can't tell with the mask on". I took my shot, put on my best fem voice. I had mastered the talk-no-jutsu, my voice training was about to pay off. I looked at the person, and proceeded to ignore most of the training, just changing pitch and speaking more softly. It still worked, I got called ma'am. They later apologized for getting it wrong, and I just said no worries. No eyebows. No stare. No disgust.
I've done it, I've won :keikaku:
Just according to keikaku
It is fuckin awesome when you can slack and still get gendered correctly, which for me came with time, feels great tbh...
Miaut voran mit festem Schritt
Arbeitercatgirls, kommt ihr mit?
Wir sind die queere Garde des Proletariats
Wir sind die queere Garde des Proletariats
surgery stuff (positive)
finally argued my case hard enough that the surgeon I'm going with says he feels comfortable moving forward with insurance authorization
lost respect for him over the last month, but I don't really need to respect him for him to do surgery. I'll take the W
now back to electrolysis once again. π
I've also learned all the hiragana and katana characters and can remember them without reference
need to learn more words and kanji now. it was really intimidating to finally start learning japanese, but it's really not so bad once I got used to it. I can slowly start reading words in media I like and that's so exciting, even if it takes me so long for now
unsolicited and frankly overbearing excitement about learning japanese
i found some success with anki + flashcards in the beginning after learning the hira/kata. there was a deck on anki web (or was it anki connect? you can just download them) that had voice lines and slowly introduced kanji and vocabulary, so you're learn full sentences. on the back side there'd be furigana.
i soon moved on to watching a lot of shows with japanese subs and a dictionary open (using the mpv script to make flashcards and auto-clipboard the text subs for faster lookups). i watched Non Non Biyori (for easy language), then Bocchi this way (only saw it with English subs for the first time last Friday...) as well as re-watched a couple seasons of Kaguya-sama (this one was much harder language...). it was kind of both incredible and also kinda depressing that a single 20 minute episode turned into a 3 hour affair, but i think when I finally got the jokes I appreciated it way more...
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but i think when I finally got the jokes I appreciated it way moreβ¦
Such a fun reward for learning more of the language. Like, I barely know anything, but its fun being able to point out things like how the hair color and names of the generation of miracles in Koroko's basket relate and makes their names a lot easier to remember. Given how little I know, yet sometimes notice things like that, I'm sure I'm missing a lot of other things just because of the language barrier.
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You have to do electrolysis again? Ouchie. I did not expect that after already having so much hair removal!
Congratulations on moving forward with the surgery. So glad you got a surgeon that is on board for you to get the body youβre comfortable in.
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the surgery site itself is fine, but I need to clear the donor area. for me that'll be forearm, so hopefully it goes quickly. not looking forward to the cost of that again lol
thank you tho
I saw my mom for the first time in a few months today, and she asked me if I'm aware I'm starting to look just like her and that seeing me was basically like seeing herself
Officially in the estrogen making you look like your mom gang
I still look like my dad but more and more yassified and femmed up at least. I do a lot of the same stuff my mom does which is horrifying, lean my head back the same way she does to read, same jokes, etc.
I expect to see my half-siblings for the first time since before covid soonish. Last time we met (was the first time I met any of them), the sperm donor also was there (and his son), and people seemed to agree I was the offspring that looked most like the donor. Kinda curious if people will think the same still. I think I look more like my sister now than pre-E, but not really sure if I look anymore like my birthmom and I might actually look less like my actual mom (whom is not related by blood) as a result.
i love my fatness! i love my queerness! my fat queer body is beautiful and sexy!!!!
Hell fucking yes, let's gooo αβ (Ν‘β Β°β βΏβ Β Ν‘β Β°β )β α
I'm no longer a kissless virgin, just a regular virgin π
Once again just woke up and drinking coffee
she zuck my mark till i erberg. this reads like a fucking eco post
she jack on my dor till I sey