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Hello everyone! Hestia here with a new Megathread! Years ago, before I transitioned and when I was still in college I took an anthropology class. My favorite part of the class was when we were covering different gender customs across the globe and got to make a report on one of them. I can't remember exactly which one I chose for that project, but what I do remember is a map with different pins scattered on it with various forms of gender-queerness. I decided to track it down and share it with you folks!

https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?ll=8.016975588774075%2C64.4248907814756&z=2&mid=1zDWxhBN5aOofwpE-FkZWQsiFDlE

Edit: you have to open this in a browser, if you're on a phone it will automatically try to open it in Google maps and won't bring up the info.

This map provides a brief summary of these genders, but does not go in depth. If you find any you're interested in, feel free to do some further research and share your findings here. I'll pin a comment to this post you can attach them. I'm going to share a couple that I found interesting and decided to look further into myself, both of them are non-binary and native american in origin.

The first one I want to talk about is the Winkte, which is a third gender role that was particulatly notable in the Lakota tribe The Winkte are seen as half-men, half-women, and considered sacred. They are typically AMAB and historically have served unique roles in matters of romance and matchmaking and often served as intermediaries for prospecting couples and their families. They also participated in war parties, functioning primarily as witnesses to battle and as doctors to care for the injured. They were also seen as seers, able to forsee paths to victory.

https://www.sdpb.org/blogs/arts-and-culture/the-winkte-and-the-hundred-in-hand/

This next one I'm going to talk about seems mostly local to the Zuni people called the "Lhamana" and I find the Zuni culture to be particularly fascinating, even just doing a cursory glance at it.

Gender roles were well defined in Zuni culture, but the Zuni also valued the concept of a "middle" as it represented stability. This originates from their creation myth, which I won't go in detail here because I don't feel qualified to summarize it, but it's in the link down below.

The Zuni culture is pretty neat and they don't refer to gender when talking about children. They believed that gender wasn't an inborn trait but something you acquired as you approached puberty. I wish this was the western approach, but alas.

As children approach puberty they begin to differentiate through different hair styles or clothing choices. AFAB Lhamana would grind corn and make a bowl of stew when they get their first period. There's probably some cultural significance to this, but I'm not going to do a deep dive on it right now. AMAB Lhamana would start to wear dresses once they hit puberty and start performing women's work. Both AMAB and AFAB Lhamana were allowed to switch between male and female gender roles as they pleased.

https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/The-Middle-Gender-in-Zuni-Religion

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

a fanfic I just started following dropped 5 chapters coming in to 6500 words, all of them in the last six hours, fuck i wish i had that level of energy in anything anymore tbh

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 12 points 6 months ago

Watched Moana with family for the first time yesterday. I long associated the 'How Far I'll Go Song' with trans experience (not necessarily that it was specifically intended to be interpreted that way), well before realizing I was an egg. I'm sure others self-insert in other ways, just like with Frozen's Let It Go. And plenty of people just think of them as being cute movies without thinking of anything being a metaphor.

Either way, was kinda funny watching a movie I personally associated with trans with the family on Thanksgiving. I should ask my brother why he picked that one out for us to watch.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (2 children)

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[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

instead of working i have successfully absorbed 3 days of missed megathread posting into my cranium centrist

sappyi parasocially love you all trans-heart

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (1 children)

technically a good problem to have but I'm kinda at an annoying stage with laser. i can't quite justify shaving once a day, the growth just isn't there and I know it's bad for my skin. so like a day and a half is optimal but i still want to shave as soon as i can feel those teeny hairs even if they're literally not visible. and the day and a half schedule is inconvenient if I have to do stuff so I just end up over-shaving because i know it's gonna be an issue by the second evening, you know? once I get a few more sessions and I can comfortably wait 2 days between shaves it'll be fine, just an annoying in-between that's no good for my skin.

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[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

Miaut voran mit festem Schritt sabo

Arbeitercatgirls, kommt ihr mit? catgirl-salute

Wir sind die queere Garde des Proletariats left-unity-4

Wir sind die queere Garde des Proletariats trans-hammer-sickle

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (3 children)

just shaved the side of my own head that was scary

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (11 children)

I lifted arm-L madeline-smug arm-R am on drugs today so tbh why not. Long may it continue...

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[–] ScreamoBMO@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

I fucking love my trans comrades so much trans-heart

[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 6 months ago

Since I have to wait on the estrogen to arrive again I was thinking of already taking the bicalutamide I have.

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

Edie has had there social position, personal integrity, leftist credentials, and gender credentials savaged.

Jokes on you. You can never savage the gender credentials of the pronoun cat meow-shining

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (4 children)

I don't know if this counts as news, since there's no ruling yet, but this case is probably worth paying attention to, especially for our UK comrades. cw for transphobia.

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (2 children)

dysphoria, social anxietyHave a (free, yay. well, included in membership cost) consultation with a personal trainer/physical therapist guy at my gym coming up to help me design a better routine and diet and stuff

I talked to him yesterday but I'm not out at the gym and idk if I wanna out myself but I don't want to make things awkward there since it's like, the only "third place" I have rn

I dunno if telling him "yeah I really don't want bulky arms and shoulders and I'm trying to grow my hips and ass" would give him the hint or that'd be weird and don't really know how I'm gonna navigate that conversation

I guess I can come up with a plausible alibi about training for hiking and that I have a job offer to work for the forestry department so I'm wanting to work on my legs a lot for steep hill hiking for that?

The staff there all seem cool and it's a pretty inclusive gym (seen multiple other queer ppl there) but for some reason it's way less nerve-wracking thinking about just vaguely coming out to someone as just broadly queer than saying "uh, I have The Genderβ„’ actually"

I dunno

I feel like I'm more nervous about it than I should be but that's like always the case for me (GAD)

I'm doing a lot better overall the last month or so than my usual though? Idk, any thoughts? Thank you nice internet ppl cat-trans

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[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Last week I started eating healthier and working out. I'm not comfortable with going to a gym, so I'm doing indoor cycling instead. So far it's going great, and I'm noticing that I feel better mentally after doing my workout doggirl-thumbsup

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (9 children)

::: spoiler life is weird Meds have been helping... But still have all the (lack of) executive capacity, and seriously feeling the avoidant side of myself, getting very anxious about bringing people further into my life. Ive been so social lately, i feel like i may be overdoing it, and im trying to deal with that without overcorrecting and cutting all my friends and new aquaintances out of my life for the next 3 months catgirl-flop

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

I'm in overanalyzing mode again doggirl-sweat

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (5 children)

I'm disappointed that I started so strong on my vn project but now progress has slowed to a crawl. I feel like self-doubt has set in and I can no longer judge if I'm doing something interesting that people would want to engage with. I'm also fighting myself, or more like trying really hard to reign in the excited inner child that's like "add this! and this! and wouldn't it be cool if this!!" so I can maintain a manageable scope and actually release something one day. Ideas come easy. Execution, not so much.

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago (7 children)

nicotine, drugs, eatingGym closed for Thanksgiving I think

Don't really know what to do with myself since I don't have work and have nothing really going on

Feeling bad about smoking again and trying not to overeat and squander some of my gym progress

Shroomin' a little bit shroomjak

Might do a little spa day at home for myself but I don't wanna have a dysphoria spiral idk

Hope everyone has a lovely gay ass Thanksgiving

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The kitties said you're all lovely and hope you eat a yummy lil feast for yourself

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