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I'm not at all exaggerating when I say this. The bar is so incredibly, incomprehensibly low everywhere else that I'm about ready to call literally anyone who can join this community, be genuine, and still not get banned an actual saint.

And that's no diss at the admins for being ban happy or whatever, that's literally just how you create an online community full of good people and somehow Hexbear has been the first to realize it

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[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 73 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The internet used to be packed with these. Then everything became 4 different giant websites.

[–] GrouchyGrouse@hexbear.net 37 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yes and in the process it made a handful of insufferable dorks impossibly rich.

Truly, a very bad thing happened. A modern tragedy.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 26 points 2 days ago

It was a bad thing that made other things even worse. Web 2.0 and it's consequences have been a disaster. The internet used to be genuinely a fun place. I'm not learned enough, but I don't see why it can't be done again behind the scenes of the scroll nightmare. Not like early 2000s websites were coding miracles. People may need to get over everything being s video to get off the YouTube but I can recall being considered a digimon prophet or having an uncle that worked at Nintendo digimon equivalent cause I browsed fansitesnin 2nd grade and drew digimon thst wouldn't be on TV for mo ths cause fans it's had Japanese episodes. Being internet learned was cool as hell

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 40 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Hexbear has quite literally saved my life before. Yall are the best and im never leaving.

You fools are stuck with me now.

[–] GrafZahl@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I witnessed your creation (online). It made me want to improve so i can maybe create something of my own eventually. I hope it is going well for you! Phrasing is probably weird i just wanted to keep it vague lol

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago

It is indeed going well! Leaving for a little tour next week, putting out some records this year. DM me if you wanna explain what you mean, now I'm curious!

[–] tocopherol@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago

Care-Comrade

This post is true, it's "funny" to see the comparison directly above this post:

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 29 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Never before have I been in a space so tolerant of my being utterly embarrassing all the fuckin time, gotta say.

[–] LaGG_3@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not just tolerant, but even encouraging sometimes lmao

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Personally I kinda wish hb would not encourage me, but it's good that it encourages others I think.

[–] LaGG_3@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's fair! I find it nice to have an online place to talk about weird stuff I enjoy that nobody I know IRL cares about, but I can see it easy to fall into a time trap (like any other social media).

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 4 points 23 hours ago

It can be easy to fall into a time trap, but I am capable of self control surprisingly. It's more that it serves as an outlet for embarrassing myself and putting my foot in my mouth and shit badeline-bruh

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 42 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I don't post much because I don't have an email job and can't sit on here all day but I love checking in on my internet commies who are also like 50x more trans than the global average.

If it wasn't for this site I would be way more doomer and definitely still in the closet wondering why I'm depressed literally all the time. thonk-trans

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 31 points 2 days ago

I'm a cook, I just post on the shitter and smoke breaks and then stay up too late posting after.

[–] grandepequeno@hexbear.net 20 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It is if you're in the right space between weird and extremely weird.

[–] SkingradGuard@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)
[–] Sickos@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

Lol left space

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 50 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Who’d have thunk that banning chuds instead of the people calling them out would create a somewhat healthy community? thinkin-lenin

[–] SerLava@hexbear.net 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

but what about freeze-peach ??????????????????????????????????

[–] GrosMichel@hexbear.net 38 points 2 days ago (1 children)

When my wife wouldn't stop listening to a loud and looped version of the Reba TV show opening, Hexbear was there for me.

When my wife covered me in honey while I slept and then laughed as I struggled to get out of my cocooned state, Hexbear was there to call me misogynist at first, but after I explained myself most of the people who laughed at me got banned.

Thank you, Hexbear.

[–] GrosMichel@hexbear.net 31 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

And when I asked for $50 on here to get food delivered because I was too tired to cook after I had to spend 2 horus inchworming my way to the bath tub and arduously turn on the hot water tap with my face to dissolve the honey-infused bedsheet straitjacket I was trapped in, I got it. Hexbear has my back.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 21 points 2 days ago

Tagline! We've got a tagine!

[–] SkingradGuard@hexbear.net 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I try.

I'm insecure tho and think y'all hate me 😅

[–] tocopherol@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago

If you post here and you're not a lib or nazi you're good in my book stalin-approval

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[–] Inui@hexbear.net 38 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I know some people will disagree and have had different experiences, especially recently, but its the only place I'm not bombarded with obnoxious takes about things I care about literally all the time instead of just occasionally.

An imperfect sanctuary is better, for me, than none at all.

[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 26 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Classic horror game save rooms have shown me that an imperfect sanctuary is the more beautiful for it's flaws

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[–] sisatici@hexbear.net 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

One of the last posts in r/cth I remember was from a trans person saying this sub is the only non lgbtq sub they felt safe in as trans. I will always remember it fondly

[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 26 points 2 days ago

I like it when i don't feel like the smartest person in the space im in and good grief is that not something i have to worry about here

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 37 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

This is probably the only english speaking place that feels sane sometimes

[–] Hermes@hexbear.net 30 points 2 days ago (1 children)

and still not get banned an actual saint.

I have an empty modlog alex-supplements

[–] TC_209@hexbear.net 22 points 2 days ago

My modlog is hilarious.

[–] LibsEatPoop@hexbear.net 33 points 2 days ago

It’s the only site where I actually post or comment. Everywhere else I just lurk/exist cuz this place is too small kitty-birthday-sad

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 41 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Even like the stinky owls?

Even the smelly raccoons like @TankieTanuki@hexbear.net ?

Even the beanis?!?

[–] TankieTanuki@hexbear.net 39 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Some people happen enjoy my trash smell FYI. smug-explain comrade-raccoon

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 28 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] cosecantphi@hexbear.net 26 points 2 days ago

Especially the stinky owls! And the smelly raccoons! The more dishevled and filthy the better! And yeah the beanis too, I guess!

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 day ago

Really glad I found this place, I had just got my nth reddit account banned after October 7 and finally said fuck it and switched to Lemmy.

[–] dogerwaul@hexbear.net 22 points 2 days ago

I have only been here a couple days and I am enjoying myself quite a bit. I am finding this refreshing. I was on the verge of exhaustion with popular social media. I'm glad I found Hexbear.

[–] HakFoo@lemmy.sdf.org 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

When the grand Third Party App Fracas Schism took place, I joined another server, but I definitely feel very at home here.

Who'd guess that communists understand something about communities? The world is burning, but at least we're here to roast marshmallows.

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[–] InternetLefty@hexbear.net 24 points 2 days ago

Yeah this place rocks. I'm glad I can get a reliably sane take on current events here. I do like that we're all fighting all the time too, it feels exciting! skeleton-guns-akimbo

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 35 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Having recently spent some time on reddit-logo yeah you're not wrong.

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 31 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

the base reddit-logo page is genuinely shockingly evil looking almost all the time. just ukraine nazi shit everywhere (including gloating at videos of russians being dismembered and exploded), subreddits for rating women on their looks, SV jokes, horrifying news paraded as 'uplifting', copaganda even in cute pictures of animals, transphobia in a post about a trans person being savagely killed (and its even way worse than i describe it, its so bad that its not safe to post here and includes racist shit too), and even pro israel shit. for the record this is all on a clean install of tor so this is the baseline reddit experience that theyre pushing to people. i havent looked at reddit beyond trans/left spaces in like 8 years

[–] Chapo_is_Red@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I kinda like how much of a gross shit hole twitter is joker-troll

[–] OgdenTO@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

But I wouldn't want to live there

[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

best place on the internet

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 24 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] GrafZahl@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago

Outside of my Job i Talk to one Person. Whenever i don't Talk to them i stalk you guys. :*

[–] RangeFourHarry@hexbear.net 25 points 2 days ago

My trick is just never posting

But yeah you’re right

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