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[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

Behold! As of today, I’m both biologically and legally female. So fuck you, fascists! Victory is mine! bridget-pride-stay-mad

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[–] dragongloss@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago (2 children)

trans girls with deep voices are super hot

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

shout out to transgirls that sound like whiny preteens doggirl-hi

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm pan and nonbinary and trans feminine

You all know that already but just felt like reiterating

dracula-flow flag-non-binary-pride flag-pan-pride

I'M THEM

I'VE BEEN THEM

I WILL CONTINUE TO BE THEM

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[–] PopPrincess@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Going on a date on thursday, I'm so nervous🙈🙈🙈 First time I've been asked out by someone I met IRL, although he most likely doesn't know I'm trans, so I'm not excited for that conversation😖 Idk what to expect😫

[–] egged@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Having top surgery 1 week from now, I'm very nervous but excited !!!

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[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago

depressingthe state government here are pulling a terf island and pausing puberty blockers from being prescribed through the public system for under 18's deeper-sadness

since there was literally already a review done last year (that found kids were in no way being coerced into hormone treatment but instead that wait lists were way too fucking long - at 577 days for some patients), i'm guessing this is just an excuse to defer to the Cass review. i kinda guessed something like this would happen soon but shit's really making me want to niko-cocktail

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Yet another injection done trans-ferret

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[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I somehow drummed up the courage to get fitted for a bra at a local boutique. Holy actual fuck what am I doing? I'm terrified.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's after work today. Gave them a call on my lunch break.

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[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Clothes are fun. They should be free for trans people for the first few years of transition.

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[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

i've made 5 or 6 attempts to write a post now so i'll just keep it simple:

GAY sappho


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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I wish there was HRT that made you less wide doggirl-tears

Tbh, I wish HRT worked the way it does in something like Trials in Tainted Space.
Where it’s like a delicious candy and it rapidly alters your bones and muscles and can turn you completely cis if you overdose. doggirl-sweat

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (2 children)

edward elric and winry rockbell are a straight t4t couple

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

venting about transphobiaIt’s fucked up and annoying how people who as recently as a couple years ago were hardcore anti-feminists (and probably still are, but just aren’t as vocal about it) suddenly spouting TERF talking points and pretending they give a shit about “protecting women”

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Got a treat for doing the chores. Jealous? doggirl-smug

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[–] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Bit idea: when a cis guy talks about having a vasectomy, refer to it as bottom surgery.

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[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The woke left doesn't want you to know this but you can just make your own gender and make a flag only you use and be sick as hell

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (13 children)

Are my nipples supposed to feel kinda sore on week 2 of the good shit or am I placeboing nipple tenderness?

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

discussions of transphobiahow to tell a cis person that trans people should be allowed to compete in sports because sports are arbitrary competitions they've attached excessive weight to and they should get over it

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[–] Bearlifter@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago

All I have playing in my head is, what am I supposed to do.

I feel like crying but I can't.

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (3 children)

::: spoiler need some advice (cw institutional transphobia)

Just saw something from a person saying they went to renew their expired passport and werr told that they could not be issued a passport, under any gender marker, because they updated their marker with social security.

Ive done that, and have a passport thats still valid for a couple more months now. Am I facing a de facto travel ban? I think i am, but im really unsure.

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I could see myself in a lesbian relationship tho

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[–] crosswind@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I started doing voice training exercises, and it feels really good and I’m already seeing changes and I’m crying a bunch.

Does anyone have tips for not having to keep stopping to yawn?

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[–] PopPrincess@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (5 children)

So like how do you best come out to someone (when dating)? How early in the process? Like I'm semi-stealth it seems, so idk how to go about it😩

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’d probably do it early instead of potentially wasting time and getting attached to someone it might not workout with.
Plus if they are inclined to take it badly, they might read you waiting so long as a way to “manipulate” them.

[–] PopPrincess@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

Yeah I think that's the best course of action. The first date is tomorrow so in any case I'll see how that goes before deciding on anything. I just hate that I even have to think about and deal with situations such as these😭😭😭

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

spoilerI wanna frot with a trans guy. I wanna measure up week by week as he's taking T and I'm taking E, see when he inevitably gets bigger than me 🤤🥵

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

Hell yeah, my new clothes unexpectedly arrived just now after waiting for almost a month. Nice quality, look amazing and I got them for a really good price:

Some fancy white jeans with a big floral print

and a translucent, black shirt that I can nicely combo with a spaghetti-top

So fucking happy with both of them. catgirl-heart

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

Gotta do my transplaining gender presentation for nursing students again but I'm so sleepy, finished a night shift only had 4 hours of sleep 😴

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (5 children)

More men should show me their soft bellies with their little treasure trails

They would if they weren't cowards

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

Got an appointment for orthopedic for my broken hand

Uninsured lol

This is gonna fucking suck catgirl-flop

dysphoria(boymoded for the appointment before this and X-rays)

(Nurses assistant) "Any medication changes? Are you still taking.... estrace and spironolactone? (??)"

(spaghetti floods the exam table)

fuckkkkkk that was awkward

She was really nice about everything but ahhhh

I looked like absolute dog shit and my voice was all hoarse and gravely from smoking a lot and screaming when I broke it and fuck

Probably the most masc I've looked/sounded in ages and it's the one time I get directly clocked lmao

I gotta work on voice training

Otherwise I'm just gonna have to go for "futch tomboy Dr. Girlfriend"

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

uhhhmuhmuhmuhhmuhmhhm >~<

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (4 children)

looking through my old discord DMs, I can pinpoint the moment my egg cracked drunkenly venting to a friend about my gender with a margin of error of about 15 minutes

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (10 children)

Thinking about wearing something like this to my sister’s wedding.

Top:
Bottom:

Idk about fashion

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I haven't come out to anyone about being agender which is weird because I like being agender. But I absolutely hate having to come out. I've still barely told anyone I'm pan, and I've never done that sober.

And I'd like to say my friends will all be supportive and loving but I'm not sure that's true.

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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Read I Love Amy, was good but very sad at parts

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[–] Zorothamya@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I've been thinking about what name to call myself. I have one name in mind that I really like, but it's literally my birthname with two letters added. And I don't know how to feel about that. And while it sounds good in most of the languages I speak, it sounds like it was ripped out of some fantasy novel in english, because that's the only context where I have heard the english translation of that name being used.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

I don’t think I could’ve ever been comfortable with the feminine version of my deadname. I would’ve constantly had the feeling of getting deadnamed even when they get it correct.

Instead, I got both my first and middle name from Greek mythology, which could pass as fantasy novels, I guess. doggirl-smug

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hello trans mega friends, I think you’re all very cool and I’m glad that you’re here.

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