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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 7 points 1 hour ago

I'm pan and nonbinary and trans feminine

You all know that already but just felt like reiterating

dracula-flow flag-non-binary-pride flag-pan-pride

I'M THEM

I'VE BEEN THEM

I WILL CONTINUE TO BE THEM

[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 4 points 2 hours ago

Had a dream featuring a cute robot lady and she kept threatening to bite me, but like in a threatening way and I just kept swooning for her

[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 12 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I did get measured today fora bra after work. It was terrifying, but I did manage to do it. I now have a definitive bra size and I love it and hate it. 38I/40H. I didn’t expect that large of a cup size. Kind of gave my mind rest so I don’t have to worry about them being too small. Also, I will never buy another bra under $70.

I was terrified and nervous, but the shopkeeper did an excellent job taking care of me. I’m shocked I was able to do it. Maybe things are turning around. I hope so.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 5 hours ago

A good bra is absolutely amazing, my first few I got from Walmart because I knew I'd be going up a size soon enough and while it worked - as soon as I spent some good money on one the difference was night and day. Plus the old ones wire would eventually make it's way out and scratch my tits, very annoying

ran out of prog for almost 2 weeks and got back on, how long are these intensified mood swings gonna last it's exhausting doggirl-gloom i went through the same thing when i hopped on initially and it lasted for a good few weeks but ultimately settled down and i decided the drug was worth it. but if I'm in for another month of this cause i took 10 days off I'm gonna be pissed.

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 10 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I had such a long and exhausting day but I got a permanent cast for my hand instead of a splint held on with an ace bandage wrap and the lady that put it on for me was the nicest person and really good about explaining everything and was so sweet, I'm gonna have to bake her some brownies or something and get her a nice card

sadI think that's the first time someone's (sort of) held my hand in like 5 years lmao catgirl-cry

After all this stressful shit, when I got home all I could think about is how nice it'd be to have a partner to come home to and just cuddle me

I'm so fucking lonely lol, it physically hurts sometimes

catgirl-flop

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 11 points 6 hours ago

Oh but on a happier note, went to the park before the appointment and saw lots of nice dogs and a very cute (assuming?) gay couple and the way the one looked into the other's eyes was so adorable

Like you better be good to that boy, I can tell he fucking adores you

[–] crosswind@hexbear.net 15 points 8 hours ago

I started doing voice training exercises, and it feels really good and I’m already seeing changes and I’m crying a bunch.

Does anyone have tips for not having to keep stopping to yawn?

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 10 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

The actual puppygirl struggles they don't tell you about

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 2 points 1 hour ago

β€œI call every puppy good boy”

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 2 points 4 hours ago

cant say weve experienced this one before owo

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 9 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

There's such sweet adorable guys in this world

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 10 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Oop meant to post this in the general mega. Oh well, guess they'll never know i'm gay

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 4 points 6 hours ago
[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 8 points 7 hours ago

Dreamt I was having the intake for bottom surgery ;-;

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I think time limits are interesting.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

You have 5 minutes to reply

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago

Trying something new

[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 8 points 8 hours ago

Gonna have to remember to ask my therapist if I was able to adequately tonally convey pissed the fuck off while maintaining femme voice doggirl-gloom

[–] TheGenderWitch@hexbear.net 12 points 9 hours ago

Victims of Transphobia Foundation

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

edward elric and winry rockbell are a straight t4t couple

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 10 hours ago

Winry does his T shots cause he's secretly needlephobic

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 14 points 13 hours ago
[–] PopPrincess@hexbear.net 16 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

So like how do you best come out to someone (when dating)? How early in the process? Like I'm semi-stealth it seems, so idk how to go about it😩

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I’d probably do it early instead of potentially wasting time and getting attached to someone it might not workout with.
Plus if they are inclined to take it badly, they might read you waiting so long as a way to β€œmanipulate” them.

[–] PopPrincess@hexbear.net 18 points 13 hours ago

Yeah I think that's the best course of action. The first date is tomorrow so in any case I'll see how that goes before deciding on anything. I just hate that I even have to think about and deal with situations such as these😭😭😭

[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 15 points 14 hours ago (9 children)

I like to name my characters in video games and ttrpgs the name I veeery nearly chose for myself, as like a little joke that literally only I find funny.

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 14 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

One girl in my Vampire group decided to name her character with a new name she wanted to try out. Turned out she really liked that name and now she and her character have the same name, which is confusing at times.

[–] retrozombi@hexbear.net 7 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I used a name I was considering for my Mage, but I decided to go with something different. Still like it though. That character's very special to me

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 6 points 10 hours ago

I'm at the point where i've used up all the names i was considering, so now i go with names that didn't occur to me until after my name change.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 11 points 12 hours ago

which is confusing at times.

Yeah, a real pain in the neck.

Aaaaaaand I’m out. secret-technique

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