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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago
[–] yewler@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Caves of Qud is so much fun!

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

We will always have Friday Rice doggirl-kiss

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (6 children)

can't spell "sonic the hedgehog" without "he hedgehog"

people who headcanon him as transfem owned doggirl-smug

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

well yeah obviously shadow is the transfem

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[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

Dreamt I was having the intake for bottom surgery ;-;

[–] Ambii@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

oh my gods i did not expect Detransion, Baby to be so unabashedly horny and raw. I read content warnings beforehand but I wasn't expecting this

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

My mom read this πŸ₯΄

Is it like, not transphobic? Wanna know if it had a good influence on my mom wrt trans ppl

[–] Ambii@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It's pretty good so far; like the other commenter said, Torri Peters is trans herself. This really shows in the text imo as there's too much intimate knowledge in regards to the thought processes and motivations of trans women when it comes to gender relations and relationships.

The CWs are mainly there for how graphic the book can be with violence, sex, and (trans)misogyny but at it's core the book is a romance of sorts.

To me, so far, the book feels like as if I was reading a story that starts after what would be a bittersweet ending to a coming of age story. Like a "What happens next?" to a hypothetical trans romance that left you feeling hollow.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Statscan has been calling me lately, the first two times I thought it was a scam. I finally picked up. They were asking about my ex lol, it's almost been 2 years and every once in a while our very enmeshed lives still comes back

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[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

Gonna have to remember to ask my therapist if I was able to adequately tonally convey pissed the fuck off while maintaining femme voice doggirl-gloom

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

Well, the trans support group I was hoping to start attending isn't having a virtual meeting tonight since the subject is first aid (which makes sense for in person demonstrations), but because I still have the sniffles (and it's an hour drive), so I will have to wait until next week. trans-sad

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

At like 4 AM a few nights ago, sleepless, I frantically penned down an apparently brand new idea for a gender-neutral pronoun in Esperanto, despite not being a proficient Esperantist. It's like this:

  • geu estas neduuma esperantisto (they are a nonbinary Esperantist)
  • mi ŝatas geun. (I like them)
  • Δ‰u vi vidis gees katon? (have you seen their cat?)

To quickly explain the idea: Esperanto has a prefix that (unofficially) forms gender-neutral words, and a suffix that (mostly unproductively) forms pronouns, so I figured that the most obvious way to create a gender-neutral pronoun in Esperanto would just be to smash these two affixes together: ge- + -u = geu. Simple as that.

To me this seemed like such an obvious idea in hindsight, that when I looked into it the next morning, I was genuinely surprised to find that apparently no-one else had ever come up with this idea before me: all the other neopronouns coined in Esperanto thus far apparently just smash the gendered pronouns together, or take the gendered pronouns and replace the first letter randomly. This approach comes with its own advantages and disadvantages, but in any case my proposal isn't really trying to "compete" with these other neopronouns, any more than they competes with xe, you know?

Edit: A neat little coincidence is that Korean has a gender-neutral pronoun commonly romanized as geu. Maybe that was a subconscious influence!


In completely unrelated news, did you all know that Margaret McDonald (any/all) is non-binary? I don't know when xe came out as non-binary, but xe's an English-language anime dub VA who I have heard in a lot of different things over the years. I was just watching the movie Tamako Love Story with my mom, in which McDonald plays the titular Tamako Kitashirakawa: I couldn't remember the VA's name, so I looked it up, and that's how I found out that thon was non-binary. Among many other credits, ae also plays Miho Nishizumi in Girls & Panzer β€” which was frankly the only name I could pull out of my butt, I literally said, "Tamako sounds like whoever it was who did Miho" β€” and McDonald also voiced Rikka Takanashi in the ever-goated Love, Chunibyo & Other Delusions, and he also played Sachi Momoi in Maria Holic, which interestingly enough is an anime dub that just straight up drops the T slur at one point.

So yeah, nonbinary pog.

Also, e's pan.

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

ran out of prog for almost 2 weeks and got back on, how long are these intensified mood swings gonna last it's exhausting doggirl-gloom i went through the same thing when i hopped on initially and it lasted for a good few weeks but ultimately settled down and i decided the drug was worth it. but if I'm in for another month of this cause i took 10 days off I'm gonna be pissed.

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[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (4 children)

HRT QuestionOkay, so, I wanna get on progesterone and have been looking into DIY options as much as my anxiety allows, and I've been seeing some stuff about people snorting their progesterone... is this legit? I'm having trouble parsing if it's like a bit or if it's a legitimately viable option... I thought taking your prog pills as an anal suppository was a bit at first too, , and it's not, so, I just wanna make sure what like my actual viable options are. I've looked around and I can get prog powder a lot faster and cheaper than where I get the rest of my DIY, and I wanna get on prog asap but also a little hesitant to just kinda start snorting meds...

If it's for real, are there any differences in dosing or additional precautions that should be taken ... or is it really just as easy as "yeah you can just start railing prog?"

...sorry if this is, like, a dumb question or if I coulda just clicked on a resource that's easily available on the website for this. Anxiety might be getting the better of me on this one and my brain is just like "Just spew this shit out on the Mega that's the best course of action."

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