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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Bralettes acquired. I feel like I'm being gently hugged hehe. I underestimated how neat this would feel

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Before I socially transitioned I wore a bralette under my boy clothes~

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

Kinda wish I had done that now tbh. It feels sooooo nice and it's been like a constant source of euphoria today hehe

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Girl same. Best I can offer is a virtual one meow-hug

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] yewler@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago
[–] PeeNutButtHer@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (4 children)

(CW: Weight loss) This is a vent, not asking for advice, don’t give me adviceGod dammit why does weight shit have to be so one sided. Been trying to lose weight over this past two weeks, starting at 200.2 lbs I got down to 190.5 by only eating 1 meal a day, I was a little cranky at first but I’ve gotten into the rhythm and it was going great. Yesterday I made fried rice and had a bowl of it, later in the day I got high and decided to splurge a little and had a small portion of leftovers in addition to what I already had. Well today I went up 3 lbs because of that slip up.

I try and I try and lose only like a pound or less a day and then one slip up and boom there goes multiple days worth of progress.

I feel like I’m fighting the world with everything I do. Trying to eat less, trying to smoke less, trying to take better care of myself. Days to weeks of progress can be destroyed in a single instance, it’s so one sided and bullshit. Still very determined to lose weight though, even if this fuck up has frustrated me to no end

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

garbageToo afraid to do anything. Very sad day today. I don't know if its because I'm sick or what but I haven't cried like this in a while.

It feels like I'm just broken.

I don't even have a reason to be broken. My parents are kinda kooky and could have done better- both with having better opinions and with my autism. But that shouldn't be enough to ruin me like this. Obviously I'm dysphoric but again- is it really that bad to make me like this. Hopefulyl I can get E and cross that off.

spoiler self harm Relapsed recently. Want to do it again. I don't even have a reason right now other then being sad. stupid fucking reason. always a stupid fucking reason though.

can it please just stop. it hurts so bad today.

how do i get unbroken

self hate/unhinged, genuinely unwell and venting I guessPeople have come back from way worse. Do you know why? Because they aren't stupid, removed pieces of shit. They tried. They cared. APpparently I dont'. I dont know what's wrong with me. why am I not better.

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

meow-hug

self talk stuffI'm bad about that too, but you're not stupid or whatever removed was there. You're dealing with a really hard situation. Feeling shitty and dealing with all the mental shit that comes with it can prevent you from feeling capable of caring or trying, but reflecting on that like you are says to me that you want to get better, and that's important. At my lowest, I just shut down entirely and couldn't have written anything like that or even cared about trying to improve and just wallowed in apathy and anhedonia and alcoholism. You might not feel capable of being better now, but I know you want to bad enough that you will once you're able to. I think you're a sweet and funny and kind woman and I hope you can be kinder to yourself.

I know I didn't respond in uh- reasonable amount of time at all but this helped me last night, ty LocalOaf cat-trans

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Even though I'm taking estrogen (and spironolactone) I'm still taking finasteride. I think just it's neat. I'm surprised it doesn't get used as much in gender affirming care.

Obviously it's can't be a sole anti-androgen as it only blocks DHT, but like women trans and cis are meant to have some testosterone if only for energy, libido etc. I think it makes sense to have the finasteride there to sweep in and block the DHT part that only have negative effects (hair loss on scalp, increased facial and body hair, prostate enlargement). It's actually prescribed to cis women who are losing hair or are hirsute, a demographic with a lot in common with some trans women.

The major side "negative" effects are reversible (1:100) and irreversible erectile dysfunction (1:10,000) which is a YMMV and breast growth vivian-shrug

I pay 20 AUD for 30x5mg tablets, that I quarter, meaning I have 4 months supply at once and it costs me 5 dollar bucks a month.

Also seems like it has relevance for Trans Men who don't want hair loss from testosterone. IDK.

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Is there any particular reason you're taking fin instead of duta?

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Regional differences probably from being in Australia. I got the finasteride a couple of years ago for β€œhair loss”. Dutasteride is only for prostate enlargement here even though it’s also in the same family.

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ah, okay. Probably unsolicited advice, but you can look into the differences between duta and fin and whether to take one over the other.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

My understanding is dutasteride is stronger, in Australia though a doctor might refuse to prescribe it as it’s off label use, where as finasteride is common for hair loss. If someone will prescribe it’s a great option yeah.

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[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

pic of 2/3 of my recovery team

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

Taken to saying to myself "I'm eating for two" and lifting my breasts up.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I find it kind of wild that in the Altered Carbon books it basically says "Liberal democracy will inevitably become intrenched fascism to the point where people forget the concept of infranchisement, while unrestrained capitalism in the periphery will make a new feudalism that is hell on earth for the living, the only solution is an eternal peoples wars through the science of space Maoism" and "changing your body and gender like it's a piece of clothing is cool and good".

Then the author is a huge centrist UK labor supporter and a massive TERF (literally friends with Graham Lineham).

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

That "feel like you didn't really accomplish anything today and are going to bed lonely and feeling unaccomplished" kinda sad

lea-cry

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Oh, I have you booked for... 1 hour of unrestrained happiness and feelings of self worth. Alright, you may start

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[–] RandallThymes@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Hello creature

I got a tingly feeling inside when I started writing this message.

Still figuring myself out so not sure how much I'll post but wanted to say all of you are super inspiring and just reading your comments has helped me out

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Top this, bottom that

I was sent here to destroy you in glorious hand to hand combat or die trying

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

(hungry pumpkin voice)

πŸŽƒ

I'm very lonely!

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

best friend isn't replying and I'm worried I've been annoying or something

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

am sure thats not the case at all, they pawbably jus busy or somfing

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

Appointment after 1.5 years of HRT confirmed that my E is rising and my T is very very lowIt's not HRT; it's actually the soy

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Vince McMahon face meme that advances one level every time we are given new lemon art

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

(The changing images are a cool bit and I’m enjoying it, thank you)

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

trans people in chud nightmares: trying to indocrinate children, corrupt society

trans people irl: oranges. lemons

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

WOKE up to my plushies all being warm from my body heat, it's cold this morning but goddamn my body is like a furnace. Only thing different is yesterday went hard (for me) on the rowing machine, if only for my plushies might keep doing that so I can be warm for them

[–] SockOlm@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

the woke mob (it's a bunch of pushies)

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

stop right there, scriminal cum

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

This girl on The Ultimatum (gay edition) is so annoying

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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