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I’m back! It’s been a while since I’ve been on this site because I’ve found myself under some financial trouble and I’ve been stressed BUT I wanted to take this opportunity to talk about something I love dearly: dihedral groups!

Consider the symmetries of a square:

We can see that there are 4 reflections and 3 rotations, as well as the act of doing nothing at all. Together, we have 8 total symmetries, and in fact, these are all of the possible symmetries. What this means is that if we do one of these symmetric moves and then do another one, we will have not changed the square, and therefore doing these two moves is the same as doing just one of the 8 symmetries on its own. For example, doing a 90 degree rotation followed by a 180 degree rotation is the same as doing a 270 degree rotation. Also, doing a 90 degree rotation followed by a reflection across the vertical axis is the same as doing a reflection across a diagonal axis.

So in other words, we can define a function that takes two symmetries of a square as input and which outputs another symmetry. Since standard multiplication is a function taking two numbers and outputting another number, it makes sense to borrow the notation of multiplication for this function. Our symmetry function satisfies a few useful properties:

  • Closure: As explained above, for any two symmetries, the function will spit out another symmetry
  • Identity: There is a symmetry (namely, the “do nothing” symmetry) such that when it is input into the function with another symmetry, the function will always simply output the other symmetry
  • Associativity: For any symmetries a, b, and c, (ab)c = a(bc)
  • Inverses: For every symmetry, there is a symmetry that undoes it. For example, rotating a square by 270 degrees undoes rotating it by 90 degrees, and doing a reflection a second time after doing it once undoes the first reflection

These 4 properties are so important that any set of objects with a function defined on it that satisfies all of these properties has a special name: they’re called groups and they’re really freaking awesome. The symmetries of a square as a group is called D~8~, since there are 8 total symmetries. Sometimes you might see it called D~4~, since squares have 4 sides, but I think this convention is a bit silly. In the same way, D~6~ is the symmetries of an equilateral triangle, D~10~ is the symmetries of a regular pentagon, and so forth. In general, D~2n~ is the symmetries of a regular n-gon.

Now, one interesting thing is that groups can contain each other. For example, consider an octagon. Since there are squares hidden within the points of octagons, if we pick a square we can see that all of the symmetries of that square are present in the symmetries of of the octagon, so it is possible to throw out all of the other symmetries. What we would be left with is just the symmetries of a square. What this means is that D~8~ is contained in D~16~. You can play similar games to show that there are lots of groups contained inside the dihedral groups.

The last thing I want to talk about regarding these things are their subgroup lattices. Oftentimes mathematicians want to picture the internal structure of a group. One of the ways they might do this is by writing down all of the subgroups of a group they’re studying onto a piece of paper, and then connecting any two with a line if one of them is a subgroup of the other that doesn’t have a subgroup between them. The resulting picture is called a subgroup lattice, and I’ve left some dihedral group lattices below because I think they’re pretty.

two cute dihedral subgroup lattices holding hands and cuddling

Anyway this has been gushposting with your host, yewler. Maybe next mega I might talk about more specific details that make these things cool.

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[–] RION@hexbear.net 11 points 6 days ago

Showed my sister a picture of my new haircut an she thought I had a filter on cause my skin looked so nice Hoggers

[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 12 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

One year ago today I fully realized I’m trans and decided to come out to friends online. 2 weeks later I started HRT. Still not out at work, but I feel like I’ve at least come a long way since last year.

EDIT: That night I was drinking a bit and listening to this over and over to hype myself up: https://youtu.be/yZZA5k4ovxQ

[–] Horse@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 6 days ago
[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago (2 children)

wait there was a 2 week gap between you realizing you were trans and then starting HRT? damn, nice niko-wonderous

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I didn't realize I was truly trans until like 4 weeks on estrogen. I was just doing a science experiment to make sure I didn't regret not starting estrogen.

I knew I was some flavor of trans like 2 years before I started E, but was still quite unsure when I started E - realized I'd never make any progress if I didn't just try it. That changed fairly quickly and the longer I've been on it, the more certain I've become I don't want to lose it regardless of gender. Wish I had started earlier. Before starting, I did come to the conclusion that I certainly would not regret taking E even if it resulted in usual long-term effects.

[–] Lord_ofThe_FLIES@hexbear.net 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who did this

[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yep, I dove right into it lol. Had some BIG help from my trans godmother in both realizing I was trans and getting DIY ordered, which only took about a week.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

lmao and i thought me jumping into it after 2 months was still too quick

[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago

I also watched I Saw the TV Glow right after and that helped to push me into taking quick action. I’ve spent far too much of my life being cis and didn’t want to waste any more time.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 6 days ago (3 children)

In hindsight replying to my mother whose asked "I just wanted to make sure you hadn't joined a cult?" With "the only cult is the one I've escaped! The cult of Masculinity which has oppressed women, Cis and trans, for over five thousand years!" Sounds pretty cult-y, even if it's true.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago

My sister was also asked if I got hooked into a cult -_-

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Converts are often the biggest zealots

I described myself as "queer as hell" as part of the conversation when I came out to my family, and the next day my mom called me freaking out because she had googled that and saw a bunch of rainbow baphomet stickers and thought I was a satanist now.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

hornyYou ever just wanna fuck a guy and a lady but not in a poly threesome way, more like hoping for someone who's genderfluid or whatever

Well that's where I'm at

[–] awth13@hexbear.net 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

wowowowoI am that kind of person but nobody is fucking me :(

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 4 points 6 days ago

spoilerWhat a terrible tragedy all around

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago

dysphoria screamingit's 1 am, time to get really existentially dysphoric and scream at the gods in my head again

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Okay, as much as I bragged about being a vein whisperer... I'm actually perfect at doing catheter placements. Biological sex, whatever is going on down there, I can get a foley in. Baby? Got it. I have literally never missed once. I have never curled it in someones foreskin, I have never placed it in the vagina and not the urethra. I do not brag about it because I don't wanna be the foley gal... but I am really really good at it and making it fast and as painless as possible

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Okay, I'm not gonna challenge you on this one.

Getting less comments on the fanfic that I like writing more compared to the one with longer chapters sadness

Won't link it bc idk if that's doxxing or not

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 34 points 1 week ago (4 children)

People always seem horrified or act like I'm telling a joke when I tell them my age. What's the problem I made a pact with Satan in the middle ages to look 20 forever

Wear sunscreen shrug-outta-hecks

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[–] dragongloss@hexbear.net 25 points 1 week ago (2 children)

cw: trans suicide, death, obituary, mental health, HIV/AIDSI don't really have others to talk about this that really understand, but my ex-gf killed herself several weeks ago and I am incredibly sad about it. She wasn't a great girlfriend towards the end of our relationship, she did not treat me well, but still I don't think what happened to her in life is deserved. Not a lot of people seem to care all that much that she is gone because she often burned her bridges. But I care. She suffered greatly in life and I think it is deeply unfair. From her family mistreatment to how society mistreated her. The world really seems to quickly forget the dead. She really struggled, the cops targeted her, HIV/AIDs and lack of mental health resources made her life very difficult at times.

I want people to know she is existed. If you have the capacity to read her obituary, please do: https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/globegazette/name/jessica-porter-obituary?id=58482844

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

If I die of heart failure soon I want everyone here to know my final word... beanis.

Fr getting old is tough chomsky-yes-honey running fucking sucks now

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (7 children)
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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago

I was hit with the sudden realization and belief that I have a personality. Which is huge for me tbh. I used to not understand why anyone would enjoy being around me and for the past little bit I understood why on a somewhat intellectual level, but today I can say I actually feel it

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

When I was 16 I got myself a shirt with a medium-deep v-neck, and every time I wore it I would feel so exposed and naked, because until then I only had crew necks and poloshirts.

I wish teenage me could’ve seen the shit I’m wearing now. I would’ve loved to see her face. doggirl-grin

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (2 children)

been upping my game and have read gay interactive fiction at work instead of gay fanfics catgirl-smug

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

cw: eating stuffThere was a time I was dieting hard and losing weight but I was in nursing school. I don't remember why it came to me, but I thought to myself "if I fed anyone else the way I feed myself, I'd be sent to jail. I give better care at work to strangers than I've done for myself and they're not even paying me. In fact I gotta pay tuition to go to this."

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Went out with an old coworker friend today. We were walking around and browsing some clothes, and I was looking at a blouse and she said "that would look good on you"

Girls, I've made it ❤️

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (9 children)
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[–] buh@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

feels unfair that my boobs are so small they're barely noticeable but big enough to hurt when i go jogging cowboy-cri

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

You think it's a yewler post but it's actually a Euler post catgirl-happy

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (4 children)

When I die I want to stay on the earth to trans some genders as a ghost

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

damn, being a girl is great. i can just sit about the house relaxing in a sports bra with an open flannel over it, this rocks

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

The cis don’t want you to know this but adopting babytranses at the park is free. You can just take them home. I have 10 trans sisters.

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

I don't really have that much gender thoughts any more. There's still changes from HRT and stuff, but not a lot month to month, and things have kinda stabilized into something I'm very happy with.

So I just post random nonsense in the trans mega instead. catgirl-peace

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (6 children)

The downside of being agender is that "good they" really doesn't roll off the tongue like "good boy" or "good girl"

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

told my dad... (CW coming out, parent reactions)Honestly probably the best possible reaction said he was incredibly surprised but still loves and supports me.

Tone was very sad, like he was absolutely gutted to hear it though. But didn't say anything bad or nasty.

Followed up with a message saying I was brave, he was confused, still loves me etc

So I can work with this.

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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