gonna be hanging out in here for a bit to stay away from the news mega. i need some positivity and not anxiety right now 
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so who is playin deltarune? i finished it through chapter 4 and now i'm gonna get both types of run in the can so i can pretend i'm not back to waiting a year for the next part. how bout those new secret bosses? how bout that damn
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roaring knight?
it's nice to have parts of this game be as hard as sands undertale.
also, susie is my favorite, she's precious, everyone drop your favorite susie moments in the comments
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Trying to cope with my gay little treats as the world crumbles around me
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Between transphobic in-laws, my broken phone screen, the Iran-Israel War, and general chumpfuckery, this has been a cromulent fuckcrustable of a day. Xia needs drinky.
Death to Israel
They have βpreemptivelyβ attacked Iran. Join the news mega for updates
Did Iran say they would do anything in response to this kind of attack before? I can't remember. Will go look at the thread too though o7
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bloom: in a t4t relationship. i feel amazing , she makes me so happy 
doom TW dysphoria
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i hate how I look, not even a big shirt hides everything. want to go on t but it's 30 $ from RxAisle. There's no reason to wait but I'm so scared.
It's wonderful that you're in a good relationship with someone so great, happy for you.
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Maybe this isn't helpful, but would layering multiple big shirts maybe work? I'm thinking like big t-shirt and then an open button up like a flannel or something on top. Unfortunately I don't really have experience on this side of things.
Oh and if it maybe helps a little, try to find ways to draw gazes away from the things that make you dysphoric. At least personally that's usually the way I try to frame it in my head, since it makes me fixate less on the tiny things when overall I know others won't notice it.
weather is very hot (80 degrees) so idk Abt the shirt layering.
Layers of loose and thin linen can be nice in hot weather, because they move air about.
That's true, more of a non-summer thing. Although, depending on the type of shirt it can simulate a bit of wind, especially light breathable fabrics can feel nice like that.
padded sports bra my beloved dysphoria destroyer
So many basic femme things I'm behind on. Not only have I been slacking on voice training, but I've also never learned how to do that thing where you flip in the air and land on an enemy's shoulders and snap their necks with your thighs. What have I been doing all this time
That flip thing has come in clutch tbh, so I'd prioritize that
Yeah I'm gonna right on that. A lot of necks that need a good flip thing these days
Little known fact, we usually don't talk about it, but that flip is actually innate. You just gotta open your third eye to immediately understand how to do it, no training necessary.
Oh that makes sense. Now I need training on opening my third eye 
Wearing a mask is the difference between getting βsirββd or βdarlingββd by the takeaway guy. (At least on days where I havenβt shaved)
Started prog recently, shit has fucked me up ;-; . Been spending a bunch of time jsut feeling like shit and depressed, crying in bed for hours. It sucks. When do I get used to this shit so it isn't so mentally turbulent 
When I started estrogen, I was crying a lot because it was like a mental barrier was lifted and repressed emotions could just flow out. It made me able to cry at like, anything, at romance movies, at sad moments in video games, at silly cat pictures. It was cathartic.
This is just like someone put my emotions into a jar and shook it before smashing it on the ground uaaaagggggghhhh ;-;
prog had me fucked up emotionally for a couple months but it evened out and was totally worth it, if it helps. i think it takes 3 months for it to fully like, come up to right levels and stabilise in your system.
Okay, that makes sense. Yeag I heard from some other trans women that it takes some time to even out, and the first few weeks are the worst. I met someone who apparently takes it one week on one week off. I'll need to find a regimen that works and keeps things manageable.
That sounds rough, prog just made me super horny after E kinda took that away (which was very nice for the time).
yeah I've been wondering if it would have an affect on my libido but instead it's just... mood ;-;
My tits are actually pretty big now, I'm just so tall and my ribcage is so big and stuff that I feel like they still look pretty small
I share this pain
bewbs 
fucking pissed, apparently if i want to watch Harvest im going to have to get a mubi subscription bcs i cant find it to pirate online.
maybe they do free trials idk, if not eh it is what it is 
read the "eh it is what it is " in the "Dumbledore said calmly" voice
Seeing a quote from RGG on why you never play yakuza in the yakuza games seems to be just a policy they had and keep. Other than dead souls for majima it pretty much tracks for all the games and I guess the name like a dragon makes so much sense now.
hi everyonee
trying to post shit for the billionth time cause im shy and dead inside and trying to externalize and stop lurking
i am transfem but not on estrogen and i hate admitting that, i want to hopefully get on DIY in a good bit but that's another issue for me because of various factors ill probably mention later on, tldr distrust in myself, insecure about some other things
I am a ML and love my politics, although the past year has been rough on me and I, dont know, feel like I have lost my "spark". Feel out of life, trying to learn to be a person again, which is why I lurk here so much and read about how others do, feels like insight for me
other things about me, computer nerd, very sociable but awkward, have a loving gf that i love a lot
i find it hard to bond with people cause mostly everyone else has better things to do but id love to meet people i get along with on here (i talk too much if prompted)
also im very prone to selfhating and dysphoria like 80% of the time so yay
i am transfem but not on estrogen and i hate admitting that
i really get this feeling. also factors I can't readily discuss and makes me feel like a fraud sometimes. but know you aren't, and I'm not
i've posted before that i'm in a similar boat as you. i even got some DIY (which i later gave away to a former co-worker in case she gets cut off, since she's terrified of ordering it)
you're transfemme even if you never put a drop of estrogen in you. I've found myself surprisingly contented just being socially transitioned with my partner and a few close friends (and in spaces like here)
I want to socially transition cause even if I'm rather seen as masc andro leaning I want to be seen as rather femme
True though, I gaslight myself lol, thank you!!
Welcome welcome! We don't bite~
I totally get the shyness to start posting thing, normally I'm like that too. Glad you were able to work past it this time though, and I hope you'll enjoy your time here.
Starting estrogen is big, even if you're entirely certain like I was it can still feel a little overwhelming and even scary. I can't imagine how that'd be worse when you find it hard to trust yourself too. Fwiw, it's okay to not be on it yet, I know it sucks, especially if you want it; I spent my first 3 years as a trans woman with no E either. But it doesn't make you less trans or less fundamentally fem. I do hope you can get on it as soon as you feel ready for it, though.
(i talk too much if prompted)
Not an issue lmfao, a lot of us are yappers, especially me and my absurdly long ass posts.
I have this ambivalent attitude towards estrogen as well I like the mental changes but at the same time I hate puberty and I dont like the idea of going through a second puberty lol
Thank you!!
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I have only recently found the game after looking for games that are like Flesh, Blood and Concrete (high rec btw, basically post soviet doomer anti capitalist horror game) and I have only played like the first level only but I like it so far it's very captivating XD
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My pink areas on da boobs (idk wtf you call them) have been, swelling and shrinking dramatically depending on the temperature and I'm scared.
Also, I'm wearing a black trench coat that my dad used to wear, have ear length (black) hair and black shoes (no laces or velcro, those slip on types). It's kinda crazy how going on HRT has made me care way more about dressing nicely and grooming myself. And as a result, I now look like a stylised military officer. I just need boots to ~~stamp on the human face for an eternity~~ complete the look.
pink areas on da boob
Areolas, they're called!