gotten a lot better at resonance control! but only at quiet volumes. when i try to raise my voice so people can actually hear me it kind of falls apart
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cw: sex, butt stuff
Well, first time bottoming (anal) didn't exactly work out. We couldn't really get it in, although I didn't expect to take much more than the head so that's okay. All my toys are tapered, and I don't really know how to take a rounded head.
chasers
Was alone at the queer club yesterday. I was wearing a cute top, and I kept being approached by men that clearly only talked to me because they wanted to fuck. One of them tried to talk to me three times. I kept walking away from the conversation, and that helped because after a while he gave up. But there were still a couple of moments after that where he was around and I could sense he was debating himself to approach me again. After a while I put on my sweater because I didn't want to deal with this kind of stuff again. What can I do in the future against these types of men?
Sort of related, but I feel a lot of these men are bisexual or homosexual and can't deal with that so they settle for fucking clocky trans women so they can tell themselves they're straight. I'm only half a year into HRT, have a slight receding hairline and a masculine face. If you want to fuck me and are a man, you are not straight.
loneliness
Last night and today I feel very lonely as well. I got attention from these men but they only want to take advantage of me and I crave female attention the most. Not in a sexual way but want to feel like they accept me as a woman. Before that happens I will still feel these dysphoric feelings of being a creep, which I've had my whole life. It's better than before, but those feelings are still very severe. Maybe I shoud talk to my gender therapist about this more.
lonely
Irl friend who I wanted to hang out with this week, didn't happen. I don't know when I'll see her next. She said she wanted to and hasn't been working, I offered to pay... how doesn't that happen :/
Online friend who I asked to use my name. Haven't talked since. It was awkward and I didn't like it anyway. There just is no way for someone to refer to me I'm comfortable with. That's why I haven't told my irl friend my name.
I have been drifting from my other online friends too. Nothing like it used to be. That's (largely) my fault for never having anything to say. Another consequence of the pain.
Maybe I'm just not cut out for other people. I feel broken. Also, to make this all worse, I've really been wishing I had a partner recently. I know that can't really happen now but I want.
I am currently witnessing what I can only describe as a straight pride parade. Just, legions of scantily clad women in black leather boots marching across the field. Followed by legions of loud and drunk frat boys blowing those birthday whistle things at cyclists.
There's a cute queer guy cashier at a pet store I go to and I kinda want to try asking him out but idk how that'd go
He's v sweet and cute though and I wanna tousle his fluffy hair and smooch his forehead and cuddle him tbh
Most of my friends are away this weekend for various reasons and i feel lonely
You (yes, you) can help me cope with this by replying so I get a notification dopamine hit
oh god do I have to skip this entire thread this week to avoid spoilers?
Edit: yes
breast growth
Nipples have been hurting a bit lately, just thought it was growth, no they are physically bigger so I need to swap out my piercings to something longer, too tight. Lol.
Years ago the intervention of my partner and a timely comment on True Anon stopped me from buying a Mariner hat (what Lenin wore).
But now I'm a girl living in a cold climate instead of a sad man in a warm one? I'm going to look so cute.
CW : disordered eating, mention of death
spoiler
fuck the nhs. i found a website dedicated to someone who died of ed complications. This person had a history of anorexia, was dying and neither 2 orgs that were supposed to help them did anything. ghoul shit.
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my coworkers randomly brought up la riots today. had to hide my power level, like fym "it doesn't help their cause" be so fr rn we're in the fucking middle east what cause.
healthcare woes
finally got healthcare again only to notice i'm missing a surgery appointment. gave 'em a call and "oh uh we're not scheduling for ffs anymore because we don't have anyone who does it". interesting! because the surgeon who was supposed to do it still works there. he's even still on the trans healthcare page of the website. but according to the person i spoke to, for the few months they've been working they haven't had anyone on staff doing ffs. gee i sure do wonder what happened
nsfw sex related edited just in case
I asked deepseek a question regarding sex and protection and the fucking thinking part calls me out "user seem unfamiliar and self conscious about this topic" fuck you deepseek don't call me out like this. I could get laid I just chose not to because sex is weird
No kings day, smdh what about the short kings huh? Yeah that's right height discrimination is all to real and when they can finally get a day to themselves all the tall people are like "uh actually we abolished the monarchy"
just got 82 pringles and i plan on sharing, comment and tell me how many you'll be taking please
now i have 60
Theyβre calling her the robin hood of pringles