Working with dudes in construction really just breaks whatever crushes I have on them, I said it before but guys getting angry and shouty when the heat gets turned up is ugh. I get being frustrated but like chill or at minimum don't lash out, hoping this puts a stop to my gay dreams towards them I really don't wanna be a therapist or something.
traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
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Hey friends π We were attacked in our camp just for being trans. Our shelters burned, and some of my sisters were hurt. We covered hospital bills, but now we really need help finding a safe place to stay in Juba.
Weβve raised $102 so far, but still need about $700. Any share or donation means the world to us. Thank you for being here. The mutual aid Link is in my profile.thank you for taking time to read this πππΏ....
wtf... someone keeps peeing in my bed while i'm sleeping. what the fuck
my deepest darkest wish fulfillment fantasy
i need the fucking Vitamin to fix me
I had to find a new roommate this spring because my old one moved in with his gf. I thought it would be cool to live with another trans women. It was going to be a good friend, but then she backed out last minute and I went with a stranger. It went well for a while tho, we were friends and would do stuff together, and she was clean and stuff.
But recently, she began trying to touch me. Like sayiyshe was anxious and wanted a hug, leaving me no space when we were on the couch, weirdly putting her head on me. Then she straight up asked me out on a date.
Now besides the obvious issues with dating a roommate, I am not even slightly attracted to her. I don't think we have that sort of connection at all, whatsoever. I guess normally that would be fine, like if someone asks me out but im not interested, I just politely decline. But for some reason, this whole thing has really bothered me.
Part of it is because she's my roommate, so it's awkward. But idk I've also spent a bunch of time helping her with stuff, like getting her on a better HRT regimen, or recommending a place to get her hair cut, or shopping together. I felt happy to do those things because I love helping out other trans women. But idk, now I just feel used I guess. I find myself feeling really annoyed when I see her, and I barely want to talk. I have no idea how to make things right, cause the last four days it has been very awkward.
I wish it was easier to make trans friends in general without there having to be gay drama involved. A good platonic friend seems to me to be worth so much more than another confusing situationship. It's often so hypersexual when I meet other trans girls. Like I wanna hang out and do normal woman stuff, and instead I get invited to the Discord with the NSFW channel, and I'm forced to learn everyone's kinks, and if they hang out it's to try and get in my pants.
It makes me want to only befriend straight girls, but the worst part is that im not even straight. Maybe I just hate myself? Idk I would still never ask out my roommate.
Hey love , Iβm so sorry youβre going through this ... that sounds so uncomfortable and frustrating. You deserve friendships that feel safe and supportive, without all that pressure. Please donβt blame yourself; youβre not wrong for wanting platonic connection. Sending you love and strength π
Been spending most our lives
Living in a gooner paradise
Been stroked now once or twice
Living in a gooner paradise
dysphoria
My dysphoria is so bad. It might be the worst dysphoria I've ever had. I want FFS so bad. Maybe I should do FFS first instead of an orchiectomy. But the waiting lists are so long and I'm not hopeful it will happen soon.
everything sucks and we are tired
that is all
Catastrophic news. The Mao Mao cosplay I ordered only came with the wig. I checked the order I made. I accidentally selected the wig only option (actually, that was the default option for some reason). Now I'll have to wait till the end of summer till I can dress like Mao Mao (the shipping won't come before I'm off to my parents).
Unless ... I order the Mao Mao cosplay at my parents house, then cosplay in secret?! I make a secret identity?! Fight ~~crime~~ diseases?!
Scrutinizing this pic my sister sent of me as a very young kid to see what kind of doll I was playing with
It looks like a girls doll! This is very important for my gender narrative!
I've been passing at work and wirh all my patients, weird feeling. Besides a little voice work all I did was move to a city.
friday? rice? friday. rice.
One of my nipples grew bigger than the other since starting MTF HRT half a year ago. How long until they become the same size again? The areolas are the same size.
I used extra chili sauce in todayβs Friday Rice
The other day had my hard hat on, my safety glasses kinda low, hair little messed up and the top buttons of my shirt were undone because of heat. Went to the bathroom to wash my hands then pee and wash hands again and I looked real damn slutty in that look I don't understand it but it's fine maybe it was the ppe
I had two drinks over the course of several hours, how am i somehow drunkish? Like, im not drunk drunk, but im more than tipsy??? Granted, i havent had alcohol in weeks, but still two drinks (not even super heavy pours either, like an extra 20% cause the bartender likes meeee) shouldnt hit me like this???? New calibration point for alcohol ig?
Is there a way to buy estrogen online (in the US) that doesn't involve having to use crypto?
prescription, or get a friend to buy it with crypto, and reimburse them with cash
but seriously, dragon ordnance (ships from china) accepts bank transfers from a service called wise, I've never used it so I don't know if it's a good option but if you really don't want to go through crypto, look into that
My partner had used wise to buy reproduction goods from China. Worked and got the stuff but our bank kept trying to block it early on.
boyshorts r great.... how come i never heard about how great boyshorts r before....
dysphoria/euphoria posting?
really dysphoric about my tits, feel like they're still tiny compared to cis girl tits
all the other trans girlies in the discord are swapping tit pics
figure i might as well throw mine into the pile
they look bigger in the pics than i'd thought they'd look
one of them straight up says they thought I had a BA already (14 months HRT, + 8 months prog, zero surgeries)
actually measure them
C cups
okay holy shit never mind uh... i guess i got some real fuckin boobs now, don't i?
watching my gf play persona 5 for the first time and I'm just wondering if I could become the kind of person who drinks coffee in the evening, it sounds nice
Yesterday
Yesterday was upsetting. I'm done spending 2+ hours typing comments. It's literally not good for my psyche to spend this much time focusing on this site, this problem. It's amounting to its own internal issue for me.
Right now this site is acting like a Demon Pit for my Gender Thoughts that spits them back out as terrible monsters meant to horrify me.
I thought talking would make it better. It has not. I thought I could make friends by being genuine. I have not. I'm surprised that you all are so comfortable with someone getting worked up this often, if I'm being honest.
There's probably some other thread where you all exchange Cool Trans Secrets anyway. It is what it is. I'm not worthy.
As someone early in their transition, I am filled to the brim with questions and concerns and thoughts about gender and sexuality. I don't know if this is normal. I've been single for years, no sex life to speak of. I'm a blank slate, I am so eager to learn.
But you all make me feel like I should keep these things to myself. There's no discussion to be had, I guess. I should just read old Reddit threads where someone else describes what I'm talking about.
I'm putting a few ventilations in one comment. I literally have to limit my screen time or else I'll post all day until I get a response. This isn't how I wanted to be. People can stop this by helping.
gender envy
It's frustrating dealing with gender envy with one of my friends' girlfriend. Her fashion, the stuff she posts is very much my vibe.
So it's weird because she graduated, I don't see her anymore, but the connections are mutual enough that I'm just aware of this person and have no idea how to have friendship, or even a conversation with her.
I think I'd faint if she talked to me. I know that's pathetic. I feel this way about a percentage of the women I go to school with. It's envy, attraction, then shame, then I am invisible. Like a woman would laugh me out of the room for thinking I could ever look like her, be like her.
It's hard. I shut down because I'm like, "well she sees me as a guy, and she has a boyfriend, so she probably isn't going to want to talk to me because she sees me as a guy so she assumes I'm a horndog because straight men only reallybefriend women for sex and I'm not a man so I don't know how to befriend women"
I think we could've been friends. Unless she's still in town it's probably too late.
couples
I just want for a woman or someone to teach me how to be more feminine. I'd be so willing to learn. I'm like a blank slate. I can barely function as a guy. I don't know if anyone has ever been as ready as I am.
I'm also jealous of literally every couple I see. Any time I see two women especially I'm like "WHAT DO THEY KNOW THAT I DO NOT" and I think this comes from the fact that I think people who are able to have friends and keep people around do know something that I don't.
Like you, reading this, if you have someone you just casually text and don't ever really wonder about the consistency of the back and forth, congrats, I'm jealous of your ability to keep people around. You are a social Adonis as far as I'm concerned.
If I'm out and I see two people, my mind is immediatelywondering how they know each other, how long they've been together, how much fun it must be to be together.
Grrr I didn't really want to post about this but I'm dornk enough to rn
I'm helping my sister move in a few weeks and I'm going to take the opportunity to also come out as trans to her. We haven't been close since she moved away a little over 10 years ago. I wanted to do this last Christmas but it felt weird since I was still pre-everything at the time, plus we were with our parents as a mini-family gathering, which made it all weird. But this time I'll be going on my own at around 6 months on HRT and with some fem clothing. I know she's somewhat accepting of queer people, but idk how she'll react to her lil "bro" being a trans girl.
Idk I'm not looking for advice or whatever, just wanted to vent my anxieties about something coming up π€·ββοΈ
I hope I'm doing this right, sorry if I'm not
spoiler
So my egg cracked about a week ago, my partner has been really supportive and I am so much more emotionally available, which is obviously great. Though 20 years of pent-up stuff has me crying every time I think of how greatful I am. I'm posting because I want to get used to talking about being trans since I definitely have a bunch of internalised transphobia (yay...) and I think talking about it will help normalize it for me.
I do have a few supportive friends that I want to tell, but it still feels kind of cringe..... So if anyone could, I would be so happy to have someone ask a few questions.
I definitely been feeling it's like my brain has the friends and potential love interest in a circle and while I do think it's fun the amount of times it's picks people incompatible is annoying. I think my main course now is to digest the feelings and work through them as I dive into my new
special interest HVAC
When the gay hits