i'm harvesting a great crop of jelly beans today
it's my birthday this week and you have to post a lot okay? :^)
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I think youβre fine to start.
I feel like family can be especially dense at noticing the changes or associating it with trans stuff.
I know they won't notice right away. But eventually. And I have no idea when they'd notice, or when I'd need to come out, or when I'd be able to leave. Not like my long hair and (as it gets warmer) shaved body isn't a give away anyway... I feel sick I hate this.
Itll probably be at least a year and maybe 2 years.
I've barely been able to do anything in this last year. It's all impossible.
No, like, before anything noticeable changes! You'll notice faster, the cis have gendere blinders
I mean I guess maybe that's fine. A year or two before anything noticeable at all changes, longer for the cis... egh... I'll keep thinking on it. And I will be getting it either way. Thank you.