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The rainbow flag or pride flag is a symbol of LGBT pride and LGBT social movements. The colors reflect the diversity of the LGBT community and the spectrum of human sexuality and gender. Using a rainbow flag as a symbol of LGBT pride began in San Francisco, California, but eventually became common at LGBT rights events worldwide.

Originally devised by the artists Gilbert Baker, Lynn Segerblom, James McNamara and other activists, the design underwent several revisions after its debut in 1978, and continues to inspire variations. Although Baker's original rainbow flag had eight colors, from 1979 to the present day the most common variant consists of six stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue, and violet. The flag is typically displayed horizontally, with the red stripe on top, as it would be in a natural rainbow.

LGBT people and allies currently use rainbow flags and many rainbow-themed items and color schemes as an outward symbol of their identity or support. There are derivations of the rainbow flag that are used to focus attention on specific causes or groups within the community (e.g. transgender people, fighting the AIDS epidemic, inclusion of LGBT people of color). In addition to the rainbow, many other flags and symbols are used to communicate specific identities within the LGBT community.

Variations:

Original Gilbert Baker Design

Inspired by the lyrics of Judy Garland’s Over the Rainbow, and the designs used by other social movements such as black civil rights groups from the 1960s, the Rainbow Flag was created. Baker hand-dyed and hand sewed this flag which flew at the San Francisco Gay Freedom Day in June 1978.

Seven-color version due to unavailability of pink fabric

Following the assassination of Harvey Milk in 1978, many people and organisations adopted the Pride flag that he helped to introduce to the community. The demand was so great for a rainbow striped flag, it was impossible for the 8-stripe design to be made in large quantities. Both Paramount and Baker struggled to obtain the hot pink fabric and so began manufacturing a 7-stripe version.

Traditional Gay Pride Flag

In 1979 the design was amended again. The community finalised this six-colour version and this is now the most familiar and recognisable design for the LGBT flag. Numerous complications over the odd number of stripes, including the desire to split the flag to decorate Pride parades, meant that one colour had to be dropped.

The turquoise and indigo stripes were combined to create a royal blue stripe and it was agreed that the flag should typically be flown horizontally, with red at the top, as it would be in a natural rainbow. This design continued to increase in popularity around the world, being a focal point of landmark decisions such as John Stout fighting for his right to fly the flag from his apartment balcony in 1989.

Progress Pride Flag

In June 2018, designer and activist Daniel Quasar released an updated version of the Pride flag. Combining the new elements of the Philadelphia design and the Transgender flag to bring focus on further inclusion and progress. This new flag added a chevron to the hoist of the traditional 6-colour flag which represents marginalised LGBTQ+ communities of colour, those living with HIV/AIDS and those who’ve been lost, and trans and non-binary persons.

This design went viral and was quickly adopted by people and pride parades across the world. The arrow of the chevron points to the right to show forward movement, while being on the left edge shows that progress still needs to be made for full equality, especially for the communities the chevron represents.

Intersex Inclusive Progress Pride Flag

In 2021, Valentino Vecchietti of Intersex Equality Rights UK adapted the Pride Progress flag design to incorporate the intersex flag, creating the Intersex-Inclusive Pride flag 2021.

The intersex community uses the colours purple and yellow as an intentional counterpoint to blue and pink, which have traditionally been seen as binary, gendered colours. The symbol of the circle represents the concept of being unbroken and being whole, symbolising the right of Intersex people to make decisions about their own bodies.

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[–] JamesConeZone@hexbear.net 43 points 5 months ago
[–] asa_red_heathen@hexbear.net 39 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Happy pride month! Throwback to my Bifrost project, which is still probably the best one I've made.

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[–] HarryLime@hexbear.net 36 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 33 points 5 months ago

Hello, my name is Jane Terf. Despite having been in a straight marriage for 25 years, and never having had a gay thought my entire life, I have made it my life's mission to gatekeep lesbianism. I'm not going to ask any actual lesbians how they feel about this, as I'm scared of speaking to anyone not straight.

[–] wtypstanaccount04@hexbear.net 33 points 5 months ago (2 children)

FIRST PRIDE KNOWING I'M BI hexbear-pride

LET'S GOOOO lets-fucking-go

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[–] thelastaxolotl@hexbear.net 33 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Happy Pride nerds flag-genderqueer-pride flag-genderfluid-pride flag-gay-pride flag-gay-pride-mlm flag-demi-pride flag-bi-pride flag-asexual-pride flag-aromantic-pride flag-agender-pride flag-intersex-pride flag-lesbian-pride flag-non-binary-pride flag-pan-pride flag-trans-pride

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[–] BasementParty@hexbear.net 32 points 5 months ago (4 children)

Went to my first pride event. The second I get in everyone kinda stares at me. Someone asks me probing questions like "Who are you, why are you here?" Realize they think I'm a chud. Clear that up and start a nice conversation. Walk into the next room, everyone looks like at me the exact same way. Explain I'm not a chud again.

Is there a term for this? Was I assigned Chud at birth?

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[–] AlicePraxis@hexbear.net 30 points 5 months ago (1 children)

inventing a religion where you can sin as much as you want, as long as you seed torrents

a positive ratio is the path to salvation

[–] Redcuban1959@hexbear.net 23 points 5 months ago (7 children)

Least weird branch of catholicism

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[–] hexaflexagonbear@hexbear.net 29 points 5 months ago (1 children)
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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 29 points 5 months ago

down with cis

[–] WhatDoYouMeanPodcast@hexbear.net 29 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Eminem: I'll have an 'omg omg they're trying to cancel me'

squidward-chill : how original...

Eminem: With extra I don't like trans people

squidward-nochill : daring today, aren't we?

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 26 points 5 months ago

shocked-pikachu

Mfw guy who wrote about how gross gay people were 20 years ago is transphobic today

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 28 points 5 months ago (1 children)
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[–] viva_la_juche@hexbear.net 28 points 5 months ago (1 children)
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[–] LesbianLiberty@hexbear.net 28 points 5 months ago (1 children)
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[–] Parzivus@hexbear.net 28 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Just saw the phrase "to their pointy eared surprise" in reference to fantasy elves and went catatonic for a second

[–] someone@hexbear.net 21 points 5 months ago

"to their pointy eared surprise"

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 27 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)

Why the FUCK can't you use quotation marks in a search engine to filter for a specific phrase anymore??? WHY THE FUCK CAN'T YOU FUCKING USE FUCKING QUOTATION MARKS IN A FUCKING SEARCH ENGINE ANYMORE??

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 27 points 5 months ago (6 children)

im gay and drunk and i just want a qt to bite down on my neck negative

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[–] Zuzak@hexbear.net 26 points 5 months ago

It looks like neither Raytheon nor the Pinkertons have changed their logos to rainbow versions this year, hell yeah

bridget-vibe

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 26 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Was gonna have the last drumstick brand ice cream cone from the box I bought last week as a self soothing treat this morning. I get to the freezer and one of my roommates or one of their guests stole it. They stole the last ice cream from someone's box. And they left the box. I'm okay.

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 21 points 5 months ago (2 children)

my coffee maker appears clogged with dead earwigs

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[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 26 points 5 months ago

hexbear-pan bridget-pride hexbear-polyam

Happy Pride everyone!!!

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago

(very whiny, bottomy tone)

WOMEEEEEEEEENNNNN..... flag-lesbian-pride sappho

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago (2 children)

i wanna become a supervillain from a kids show where i have a massive underground evil lair to do all sorts of heinous crimes like "take over the public park so i can stay on the swing for as long as i want" and "take over the local bakery so i can eat all the cookies" and have my plans thwarted by 8 year olds

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[–] viva_la_juche@hexbear.net 25 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (5 children)

Can we get these all out of the way today and vibe the rest of the month.

Everyone hopped on kink discourse already so:

Bi people, are they just straight if they’re currently in a straight passing relationship? Cops at pride ?? “As a gay man” I don’t think we need a special month we should just be “normal”?? Rainbow capitalism good or bad??

Am I missing any?

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[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 24 points 5 months ago (4 children)

i seem to not be getting notifications for replies very consistently. had 3 replies to a comment and only got a notif for one of them

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[–] Red_Sunshine_Over_Florida@hexbear.net 23 points 5 months ago (4 children)

My father said to me last night: "The problem with some people is that once they turn 60, they don't want to work as hard." I'm like, "I don't think it's that they're lazy, I think they don't want to spend their life working for the leisure of their bosses. Look at yourself, you're in your 70s and you still have to work part time as a custodian. Don't you want to do things in your life that don't involve work?" I don't know, sometimes I think these declining conditions make workers rationalize things that would seem barbaric to even the Fordists of 70 years ago.

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[–] Sator_is_Tense@hexbear.net 22 points 5 months ago (10 children)

cheap franchise pizza is the glue that holds the western world together. fast food is big, but shitty pizza feeds the middle class on saturday night...idk what this says about the material conditions of suburbian americans but I'm sure they suck

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 22 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (9 children)

HAPPY PRIDE WOOHOO YIPPEE!!!!

I am pansexual hexbear-pan. I want to ask the bi users of hexbear (I know you're here) how they would define the difference between pan and bi, because it doesn't really seem right to call myself bisexual. Basically the way I see it, being bi is being attracted to masculinity and femininity, or certain features in men and different features in women. Being pan is experiencing attraction regardless of gender. Like the girls I am attracted to have just as much in common with the boys I am attracted to as they do each other. I feel like my attraction to genders is not really a discrete thing, like my attraction to masculinity and femininity aren't different, they're just attraction. Honestly I wouldn't even say I'm attracted to masculinity or femininity at all because those just aren't concepts I think of when I look at someone.

But I wanna see if anyone agrees or disagrees. Advise me, oh wise bisexuals

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[–] viva_la_juche@hexbear.net 22 points 5 months ago (3 children)

We shouldn’t have to pay rent this month

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[–] flan@hexbear.net 22 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I need a get rich quick scheme so I can live out my dream of becoming a full time twitch coomer

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[–] Leon_Frotsky@hexbear.net 22 points 5 months ago (3 children)

so cool that joe brandon just banned straight people

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[–] BobDole@hexbear.net 22 points 5 months ago

The one thing I legit miss about UlyssesT being active was the Star Citizen updates. I just realized I haven’t checked in on that scam since he stopped posting and I want to read some Star Citizen drama without wading into that cesspool myself.

[–] FALGSConaut@hexbear.net 22 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I served a guy at work who had named his kids Odin and Adler, there's basically a 100% chance the dude is a fascist

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[–] Moonworm@hexbear.net 21 points 5 months ago (3 children)

The nerve of my friends to get straight married on the first day of pride.

It was a beautiful ceremony and a good reception, but the afterparty was really great. Played some smash and euchre with the groom.

I looked fly as fuck also. We're bringing bolo ties back, folks.

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[–] Goblinmancer@hexbear.net 21 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Religious guy who believes gay sex isnt a sin but says pride month bad because pride is a sin

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[–] hexaflexagonbear@hexbear.net 21 points 5 months ago (4 children)

So awkward walking on an almost empty sidewalk with one other person approaching you because you either have to look at them or not at them and idk which is weirder.

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[–] moonlake@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I believe it is impossible to solve a Rubik's cube. Have you seen that fucking thing? Anybody who can "solve the Rubik's cube" is actually using black magic and should be burned at the stake soviet-huff

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[–] Mokey@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago

hey you gay people, nice have a wonderful day

[–] AlicePraxis@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago

it's still 11 PM on the 31st here, so I can't be proud yet. I have to be ashamed for the next hour

[–] Dolores@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

very unoriginal and evergreen complaint but fuck copyright

i'm the only person that wants to watch a 1942 recruitment drive picture, it's worth less money than the film it's printed on. why the fuck isn't shit like this free. i just want to see the surroundings of a couple jazz standards that first appeared in it

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[–] hexaflexagonbear@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago

A fascist gooned today, did you?

[–] blight@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago (1 children)

thinking-about-it
but like, if you think about it, embracing cishet love in a repressed society like this is a form of queerness in itself

thonk-cri
please let me in, i want to play with the cool kids

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[–] viva_la_juche@hexbear.net 20 points 5 months ago (3 children)

lol already seeing kink at pride discourse. It’s the first. Day. I haven’t even had my coffee yet

ooooooooooooooh

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