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would anyone like to synchronize screaming into a pillow? i don't really have a good reason to be doing so but that doesn't matter. all motivations welcome
Fucking mod election drama in my trans support group life raft discord - which started because originally they wanted to talk about sex and I joined way after that
What is the current state of the diy electro kit? The post isn't pinned anymore. It is a really cool project.
done some cleaning, a bunch of reading, and went out and bought food today. all in all a successful day
autism discussion
Was inspired by all the 'tism talk in the mega to retake the tests on Embrace Autism again. I took them a few years ago, scored in the autistic range, got further confirmation by a psychiatrist who agreed that I probably am autistic, and basically forgot about it. Honestly, out of all my various neurodivergencies, I feel like my autism is the one that causes me the least pain and distress. I despise my OCD and my ADHD, but my autism? My autism is cool.
Anyways, I scored 34 on AQ, 154 on RAADS-R, and to my surprise, 102 on CAT-Q??? I guess I mask a lot less than I thought I did. Maybe that's why I struggle a lot socially, lol. I definitely don't relate to the common autistic experience of following a social "script", though I do try my best to be nice. My experience with trying to socialize with people in-person (especially in school settings) is that I will have a nice, friendly first meeting, and then those people will just... not be friends with me, and become friends with other people instead. I wonder if I just subconsciously radiate those autistic vibes, lol.
Tfw I just want to read orange book instead of work but today's another 12 hour day ๐
I hate how everything is a fucking app these days why the god damn fuck can I not sign up for lex on my computer. It wouldn't be as big of an issue if they didn't have some shitty browser auth that fails (probably because my phone likes to open a private browser tab for apps instead of the full browser app). Like wow guys wouldn't it be easier to verify my browser IF I WAS USING A FUCKING WEB BROWSER TO DO THIS. JUST LET ME SIGN UP LIKE I DO FOR EVERYTHING ELSE ON THE ENTIRE INTERNET.
Anyway I'm just annoyed I can't see how many cool gay things are happening near me that I won't even go to, maybe I'll debug it later. Right now I have girl farming to do.
Arranged a consultation for facial hair removal, because right now I have money I can spend, and I don't know when that'll next be the case. The provider also explicitly talks about trans women on their website, so I hope that they will be good. I really fucking hate my facial hair and beard shadow, glad to hopefully see it gone soon.
I had some valerian root tea and an edible. I'm hoping it kicks in soon as I wanna go to bed early tonight. And by early I mean by 1:30ish instead of like 3 or later like I've been doing the last few nights
laser session 8 done. should really stop booking them on days when the weather's good and i want to be outside
Apparently my prolactin has more than doubled since the last bloodtest. Probably nothing to be concerned about, since I did have a cold when taking this most recent blood test, and I've also read that it's normal to have high prolactin when taking cypro
I hate when I succumb to the worst urges of Online and then regret it, always feels like shit. at least I usually manage to sober up and do a bit of self crit and delete the Bad posts. sometimes I feel like posting is bad for me lol and I should just write in a journal or some shit. i guess everyone's susceptible to it and it's gonna happen from time to time. I like to think this site is better for me than like, twitter or whatever which I don't have anymore. and I think it's a fair thing to think. but maybe I should try take a week off or smth, I've been scrolling and posting a whole lot. love all my trans comrades ๐
went to a wrestling show last night and got to talk to the champion who was still in character after the show. he let me hold the belt and now i feel like i want to add a replica championship belt to my outfits
Alright, fuck it, I'm making my own emojis
Finished Little Blue Encyclopedia by Hazel Jane Plante, had read the introduction yesterday and then read the 170ish pages tonight.
Really good, gay transbian unrequited love, bittersweet and touching. Loved it, haven't been moved by much in years.. Had a wee cry
I got this small like, Japanese(?) cat plushie and my god this thing is amazing. Need more plush in my lfie.
late-night nsfw navel gazing
I am having a pretty bad time doing terminology replacement for my own anatomy.
I'm pretty sure "clit" is it because honestly that's what it's most like nowadays, and none of the standard issue terms dudes use or whatever work for me. But I can't really get it burned into my skull, even though I know better consciously, it's just been too long of my brain seeing 'lil nubby thing with a slit on the end and balls under' and going "bepis!" I am going to end cisnormativity.
The main reason I'm having a bad time replacing the term is 'cause I just don't think about it that much, outside of sex, because why would I? (Maybe I should, maybe I need to better internalise the chill familiarity to myself) It's annoying because I think the only part that brings me dysphoria about it is the cisnormative connotations, grrrr. Not a big secret but actually the natal transfem clitoris, the girldick, whatever you wanna call it, it's actually kinda neat.
Sheesh this is a lot of new sexual thoughts all at once... I guess the dam kind of broke? It's good, just also a lot. I also need to get comfy with anyone else referring to it as well, that'd be good. Picking up the pieces after a decade of being really incredibly traumatised, no big.
If I got covid from going on the bus to a makeup store where I didnโt even buy anything Iโm gonna be kinda mad.
a family friend visited and deadnamed me even though i quite literally shoved my tits in his face 
he wasnt trying to hurt me though, he is just a remarkably slow on the uptake. 
and i do mean slow. he seemed to take the news well enough after he finally got it
pining over what I don't have
I waaaaant estrogen pleaaase
I'm going to go play stardew valley and be a cute girl.
