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In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").  Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 20 points 1 day ago (6 children)
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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Sanity check chat, is a parent saying "you can do a b c transition things, but I don't want you doing x y z while you live here, I'm just not comfortable with that/goes against my beliefs", abusive? Like assuming its strictly transition related. I don't know what specific things are being thought of either. Personally, I'm assuming that to mean hrt/pronouns/name/clothes?

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

What goes against their beliefs and why? madeline-stare If something you need goes "against their beliefs" (cultural revolution against kkkhristianity when) then I would say yes to this question.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I should confirm what is being thought of, I'm thinking just normal transition stuff as I ask for/need it. Unlimited revolution against kkkhristianity absolutely qin-shi-huangdi-fireball

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

I get the sense that bro is just thinking of ways to bargain with christofascists lmao. UNLIMITED REVOLUTION qin-shi-huangdi-fireball

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike 9 points 1 day ago

If xyz were something like "hang trans flag in window facing the street," I think I could accept fear of being hatecrime'd as sorta-kinda acceptable given how unimportant that is likely to be for the person doing it. But not respecting/allowing things like name, pronouns, presentation, and hrt would all be shitty behavior at best and definitely abusive with for minors and/or those with disabilities who are much more dependent on parents.

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Anything relating to your body and identity is your purview, and they should be respected

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Is this a hypothetical you think they’d say or something they said?

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

This something my therapist has said multiple times, almost every session lately tbh. Asking like, how I'd feel if that's what my parents said. I mean I guess anything would be better then nothing, but I'm still not a fan of that.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I guess I would ask why ABC is fine, but not XYZ and I’d ask if I have to follow every single one of their own beliefs to live there or if it was just an excuse because they are personally uncomfortable with XYZ

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago

I definitely don't have to follow their other beliefs, any sort of issue would literally just be because I'm trans.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

i was going to type more about possibly thinking about dating a poly person and how i feel about that but fuck me i got to shower and head out to work too soon to write that essay today. gay thoughts later

i like girls :)

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

girls are the absolute best hexbear-lesbian

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"i literally don't get it, why would women date men when they could just date women instead?"

  • me as a 12 year old egg and also as an adult woman
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[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Asking a couple guys I'm talking to which sheets I should get.

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I wrote all of my emotions out in a clear and concise way over multiple paragraphs following the narrative I intended to explain

that deserves an energy drink imo

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago (3 children)
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[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

Somebody told me that Ben Shapiro’s voice sounds like Eddie Murphy “white guy voice” and now I can’t unhear it.

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

why is there no drug that lets us grow a tail :c need

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

sometimes people can be born with a tail. very rare birth defect as we still have the genes for tails, and even grow them in the womb, but they ofc don't usually give us tails.

wouldn't mind a tail too much, but trousers and skirts would be uncomfortable with a tail to jam in there

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago (5 children)

I've dated poly and monogamous and I swear to god, if I end up being a straight monogamous woman I'm going to be somehow be the weirdest of the kinky and trans community lol. How the fuck did that all shake out that's not even fair

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Every time I take one of those kink/bdsm quizzes it always tells me I am vanilla af.
I just only love my wife and want her to treat me gently, is that so wrong? madeline-bruh

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago (13 children)

No!~

Except ain't ya a puppy girl???

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)


What do you mean? This is the sole reason I transitioned.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I look really hot topless and braless but wearing jeans, dunno what it is

[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 1 day ago

The PUF is my bestie

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

:arm-L: workout done :arm-R:

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 22 points 1 day ago

the government should pay me for anything transition-related ie. hormones, clothes, haircuts, ffs

it's in the public interest that i'm as hot as possible

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