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Children of Time is a 2015 science fiction novel by Adrian Tchaikovsky.

In the distant future, humanity seeks to create new habitats for itself on distant planets, terraforming them and seeding them with life. Dr. Avrana Kern is heading one such project, orbiting the tentatively named "Kern's World", where the plan is to release monkeys le-monke infected with a nanovirus that will accelerate their evolution. Through an act of sabotage from an anti-technology group that has also destroyed much of Earth, the monkeys are never released, and the virus instead infects a species of spider, Portia labiata. The book follows the evolution of the spiders and their eventual civilisation, as well as a remnant of humanity that fled to Kern's World hoping to find paradise.


also children of ruin and children of memory, the sequels, are really good


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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago

Someone just called me a nerd and I don't think I can mentally recover from that

[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

I think things will be going smoothly for a while sleepi

[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

it's gonna be a "Sing Will Wood until my nose bleeds" sorta night ain't it

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

amazingly enough, the phrase "beep or sleep" went viral recently. i'm astounded... it seems like everybody's beepin these days!

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

you should take credit for the phrase going viral

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

i don't need it. i know i was just doing my little part

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (5 children)

weightthe tweet this person is quoting and all the replies going β€œI’m 5’7+ and a similar weight” is going to give me an ED I swear to God.
Like…okay, your BMI 17-18 and look like that? Guess I’ll go down to 90 pounds then.

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

Literally never use twitter

i know it's really difficult, but i really urge you to try and get off twitter for your own well-being.

spoilerThat person in particular looks way closer <16 in terms of BMI (as in they're not being truthful about their actual weight) and is gonna be less fertile due to issues relating to malnutrition and hormone interruption particularly if they have a history of anorexia. Also even if the end up carrying a child, the kid ends up with a crazy growth restrictions unless the parent is willing to eat more than usual for them. You do eat for "two" but it's like an extra bagel a day - and to someone with an ED, that might be a thing they're unwilling to do. Pregnant people sometimes continue using some intense drugs like meth or opiates, it's very possible to continue having an ED.

For the others in the comments, they might be truthful or not. Everybody's bodies look different. I wish I could say "don't get hung up on it" but I know that's hard. Do your best to stick to a healthy BMI, but BMI isn't the end all be all anyway. As a woman, including a trans woman on HRT, a healthy body fat % is actually higher than pre hrt. Do your best not to compare to pictures and focus on what is medically healthy, pictures can lie as in misreport an actual weight or they can be modified by things like photocopy. Your wife says you're pretty how you are, right? That means something too.

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago

The whole account is just rage bait meant to trick people into engaging by making them feel bad. Please don't let it affect you too much.

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)
[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago

Spelling error. I meant to remark the absurdity of the posting.

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 20 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I got kidnapped by a bunch of trans girls today. Was not expecting that to be how my day ended but I'm not complaining

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago

I hope they treated you in a very ladylike manner

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

beep or sleep is the new boom or doom

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 19 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Every time i try to join a discord i'm too afraid to actually say anything.

[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

Same, discord and chats stress me out

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

i just lurk and send reacts until someone nice starts @ing me with questions

[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

I had never considered this πŸ€”

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago

Incredibly relatable

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 19 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I have my HRT consultation on Thursday and I can't stop thinking about it

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 22 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Ugh I hope I never tire of people telling me they love my outfit

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[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

How do I tell my hairstylist that I want this haircut without showing them this image of a dog girl?

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

unrelated, but this picture is so cute

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That hair cut more or less looks like what is literally called a wolf cut. Or you can just get bangs. Or just show her the picture, whatever

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Wrong. The correct answer should only be "show her the dog girl pic"

[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

I don't think my heart could handle doing that

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

i am excited for space engineers 2

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

oh shit, i havent played space engineers in years, end of the month too!!! exciting

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago

it's just early access rn - creative mode is being released at the end of the month but i'm still hyped

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

Heyoooo this is the first I'm hearing of it. I love space engineers.

I personally couldn't be more excited about slay the spire 2

[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)
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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'm feeling particularly content today and wish I knew how to recreate this feeling more consistently. I feel cheerful in a way where I don't feel like I'm faking it

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Write a note to yourself in the future. Explain to her that you genuinely feel content and authentic. Let her know that it's possible for her to feel this way, regardless of however she's feeling when she reads it.

Read it when you're feeling doubtful.

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