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Gonna have to remember to ask my therapist if I was able to adequately tonally convey pissed the fuck off while maintaining femme voice
edward elric and winry rockbell are a straight t4t couple
Winry does his T shots cause he's secretly needlephobic
oh my god
So like how do you best come out to someone (when dating)? How early in the process? Like I'm semi-stealth it seems, so idk how to go about itπ©
Iβd probably do it early instead of potentially wasting time and getting attached to someone it might not workout with.
Plus if they are inclined to take it badly, they might read you waiting so long as a way to βmanipulateβ them.
Yeah I think that's the best course of action. The first date is tomorrow so in any case I'll see how that goes before deciding on anything. I just hate that I even have to think about and deal with situations such as theseπππ
I like to name my characters in video games and ttrpgs the name I veeery nearly chose for myself, as like a little joke that literally only I find funny.
One girl in my Vampire group decided to name her character with a new name she wanted to try out. Turned out she really liked that name and now she and her character have the same name, which is confusing at times.
I used a name I was considering for my Mage, but I decided to go with something different. Still like it though. That character's very special to me
I'm at the point where i've used up all the names i was considering, so now i go with names that didn't occur to me until after my name change.
which is confusing at times.
Yeah, a real pain in the neck.
Aaaaaaand Iβm out.
Same. But I canβt do that anymore after over a decade because itβs now my middle name. I just love that one way too much to let it go to waste.
Hmm.. I've already got a middle name, but you've got me thinking there's nothing stopping me from having more than one
i knew a girl in college with 9 middle names
I think assuming she had a first and last name, only the fifth middle name would technically be a middle name
Clothes are fun. They should be free for trans people for the first few years of transition.
Clothes are soooo fun. This plan of yours is rock solid i'm behind it.
I could use about 10 new skirts at least.
I somehow drummed up the courage to get fitted for a bra at a local boutique. Holy actual fuck what am I doing? I'm terrified.
Have you gone yet?
It's after work today. Gave them a call on my lunch break.
I've never gotten a bra. best of luck.
How exciting!! A fitted bra is going to feel so special and lovely. I hope it's fun!
I hate the phrase "he or she" in academic texts. Like come on, we have a pronoun for when someone's gender is unknown or unspecified, its they. You don't need to do "he or she" at all. Its just worse than "they" in every way.
Now if your gender is "he or she", then that's a lot cooler
Luckily "they" is now standard in APA guidelines, but yeah "he or she" is also just so clunky, nvm the gender angle.
Just last semester I had one book from 2013 that used "he or she", and a book from a few years back explicitly instructing the reader to use " singular they" and m/f/x
i have never understood why people struggle so much with saying 'people' instead of 'men and women'. it's literally less words
It's so jarring and clunky too, it sounds awful. Somehow even worse is "he/she", which I've seen a handful of times.
thank you
Planned Parenthood follow-up went well. We upped my dose from 1 mg 2/day oral tablets to 5mg/week EV IM (keeping on the 50mg 2/day spiro for now). Really excited!
can't spell "sonic the hedgehog" without "he hedgehog"
people who headcanon him as transfem owned
well yeah obviously shadow is the transfem
can't spell "sonic the hedgehog" without "hog"
sonic the hog
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they're speed lines. obviously
GOOD post
I've been thinking about what name to call myself. I have one name in mind that I really like, but it's literally my birthname with two letters added. And I don't know how to feel about that. And while it sounds good in most of the languages I speak, it sounds like it was ripped out of some fantasy novel in english, because that's the only context where I have heard the english translation of that name being used.
I donβt think I couldβve ever been comfortable with the feminine version of my deadname. I wouldβve constantly had the feeling of getting deadnamed even when they get it correct.
Instead, I got both my first and middle name from Greek mythology, which could pass as fantasy novels, I guess.