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The Lemon Edouard Manet, 1880

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lemon entree:

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User recommended recipes:

King Arthur Flour - Lemon-Glazed Pound Cake

Townsend's 18th century Lemon Cream recipe

Lemon pig decoration

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How to Get 8x as Much Juice From One Citrus?

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 2 weeks ago

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

oscardejarjayes* (3/31 - 4/6)
JohnBrownsBussy2  (4/7 - 4/13)
peanutbuttercupola (4/14 - 4/20 (weed))
Eco* (4/21 - 4/27)
EstraDoll* (4/28 - 5/4)
SadArtemis* (5/5 - 5/11)
yewler* (5/12 - 5/18)
AshenWolf* (5/19 - 5/25)

AshenWolf* (6/2 - 6/8)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I’ve been married for a week; when do I start to hate my wife? niko-concern

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Wait! That wasn’t a bit, you’re actually married now?

Heck yeah! Congrats! lea-finger-guns

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

eternal matrimony for the vine

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

…why would it be a bit? doggirl-sweat

Good question. I’m not exactly sure what my brain was doing there. lea-think

Guess in my /c/badposting-poisoned mind it was a funny bit somehow.

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

hopefully never

Depends on boomer status

[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 1 week ago

Finally hexbear and lemmygrad are federated again so I can post here again :D.

On another note, I met up with some trans friends who I hadn't seen in a half year for a drink, which was nice. I was the one who initiated it which I'm proud about since I mostly just wait to be invited. I'm stepping out of my comfort zone

[–] PeeNutButtHer@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

did I cook with making this chart?

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Thinking about that time I was at a restaurant in a notoriously crunchy city in the US and the signs on the bathrooms were she/they and he/they. They were so close to something and made the funniest kind of bathroom.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I've hit a transition milestone in coding as some kind of queer to most people. I'm getting side eye from cishets. I'm getting gay men flirting with me (and complimenting my fits) and cis women including me into gossip (I think probably in a "gay man" way, but nicer to be perceived as safer). Not the area I'd necessarily want to stay perceived and contradictory at times, but overall I'm enjoying it.

The election was called in Australia and as I was leaving somewhere there was a pair of very persistent Liberal party supporters (in Australia they're the Tories) were trying to convince everyone and anyone to take their leaflets, and one of them a blonde lady around my age, just sort of looked at me and withdrew the leaflet from my direction almost subconciously.

(I did have an random episode of some sort of phobioa, not sure trans or homo a few weeks ago that was jarring because you know things suck)

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

vile sexual shitpostsome of you have never simmered a large carrot in water on the stovetop to 100 degrees to replicate the warmth of a real cock and it shows

dracula-flow πŸ₯•reisen-dance

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

spoilerAh flaccid smooshy carrots

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago

spoilerThe trick that someone who isn't me discovered is to get it warm but only for a little so it's not too smooshy

something something country girls make do

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

My dumbass just realized this was probably a Celsius/Fahrenheit joke lmao

[–] sweet_pecan@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

who wants to help me come up with discussion questions about i saw the tv glow that tie the themes of the film into a conversation about socialism? lol jk ... unless?

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago
[–] whatnots@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

i'm really enjoying all these different lemon paintings. i was cross stitching this lemon pattern forever ago and while i never finished it (think i did a few lemons and a bunch of leaves in the top half so far) i find myself wanting to break it out again thanks to all this lemon inspiration comfy

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

(get a bunch of cool used games I've always wanted at a cool local used games store)

(play the same handful over and over)

ohnoes

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago

The secret of this is someone telling you not to play something then you spend months of your life playing it at least that's how it works for me

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm like overflowing with gender euphoria at the moment. I have never felt this way. I'm bursting at the seams. I was on a discord call with some friends and I had my hair all cute, I was wearing cute clothes, I was practicing some girl voice things, I was wearing a bralette and it was hugging me constantly, and I felt like I was NAILING girl mannerisms out of nowhere. But not in a way where I felt like I was forcing anything. It was just happening and I was watching it just happen and it felt right. Oh my gosh. I literally had to leave the discord call and put on music and dance around my living room and sing along with it. And now I'm worn out physically but I still feel like I need to do something with the overwhelming sense of girlhood I'm feeling

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My sister pointed out to me once that I had a bunch of girl mannerisms, she thought I had worked on it. For me, no, it was just about unleashing what was already there and not holding back

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

Yeah that's what it is for me. I just feel like I'm behaving in a way that feels natural to me but that seems to come out super girl like. I had someone tell me a few days ago that I had girl mannerisms but I didn't see it myself until today

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago

::: spoiler sex, kink

I just had such a wonderful impact session, with so much sting. I finally got to try my other toys, which i bought to, uh, expand my boundaries. I tend to prefer thuddy, im very much a thuddy girl, and these floggers sting like no tomorrow, and tbh the sting is growing on me... it doesnt hurt that my domme really knows how to use them (and me) panting

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

why are cis women told to put progesterone cream (and even gel, I think) on their breasts?

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Supposed to help with breast tenderness during their cycle.

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

it just weirded me out seeing it in the medical leaflet because estrogel is verboten to put there. and the risks are the same i think :/

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago

I moved. Its over. No more hell apartment

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Trying to figure out which plush to keep on my bed tonight. This is a serious decision.

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

So long and thanks for all the lemons

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

So do my good boy points convert over to nb points or did I lose those soviet-hmm

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

they were always nb points u just didnt realize it :3

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If the next mega isn't a fruit mega I'm actually going to cry

[–] oscardejarjayes@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (8 children)

which fruit do you suggest? If we haven't done grapefruit already, I'm leaning towards that.

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago

grapefruitposting would be hella based ngl

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't find most guys attractive at all, but every time I start questioning if I'm even into guys I'll run into someone who makes me go hyperflush

[–] BigTimeT@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

God this is such a mood😩

transphobia but my meetup-date-thing went well regardlessMet up with the girl I was talking about at a bookstore. We browsed and talked for a bit, until she noticed something and moved to check out. After we left, she said that there was a man staring us down, so we decided to chat outside until he left. We talked hobbies, a bit of personal history, plans, a bit about sex and kink (in general). She vaped, and I was being a bit cute and asked for some secondhand, and she humored me on that. I was nervous and a bit shook by the transphobe, so I definitely spent more time listening than talking and I was worried about coming off as boring. When the weather started getting bad we decided to call it, but she said that I passed the "vibe check" and she asked me out on a second meetup/first real date.

aubrey-happy

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago

Holy SHIT tilting my head back and swishing my hair across the top of my bare back is the most incredible feeling ever

[–] PeeNutButtHer@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

(CW: Weight loss) This is a vent, not asking for advice, don’t give me adviceGod dammit why does weight shit have to be so one sided. Been trying to lose weight over this past two weeks, starting at 200.2 lbs I got down to 190.5 by only eating 1 meal a day, I was a little cranky at first but I’ve gotten into the rhythm and it was going great. Yesterday I made fried rice and had a bowl of it, later in the day I got high and decided to splurge a little and had a small portion of leftovers in addition to what I already had. Well today I went up 3 lbs because of that slip up.

I try and I try and lose only like a pound or less a day and then one slip up and boom there goes multiple days worth of progress.

I feel like I’m fighting the world with everything I do. Trying to eat less, trying to smoke less, trying to take better care of myself. Days to weeks of progress can be destroyed in a single instance, it’s so one sided and bullshit. Still very determined to lose weight though, even if this fuck up has frustrated me to no end

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Tbh weight can fluctuate a fair amount just from water weight and undigested food and stuff, so it could just be that.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah food usually takes 36hrs to come out as poop.

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You can have 1 kg of weight difference from a full bladder, a big ol BM brewing up, and just the scale not being perfect. A really full bladder on its own is like 400 grams. Don't sweat it. You said no advice so I shan't suggest how to weigh to get closer to a consistent "true" weight.

Weight loss sucks, yeah. Wish it was as easy and fun to lose weight as it feels to gain it lol. Its a marathon not a sprint, keep focusing on healthy behaviors and a year from now you'll be very thankful you stuck with it. In 20 years you'll be super thankful

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